The noise from your neighbor's house affects your life. How will you communicate and deal with it?

Try to practice and summarize these suggestions about neighborhood noise communication by yourself. If you think communication is useless, you can find a way to transfer it or endure it. If you find that you can't communicate, you can change to other ways, but you can't deny the importance of communication in dealing with problems. This is advice for others, and you are not suitable. Before reading the article, adjust your mentality first. Don't expect this to stop the noise upstairs. I don't have that ability. When communicating, don't think that one communication can stop the noise. If you can get it done at once, there is a good chance that you won't read this article. The importance of communication, my understanding is "you should take communication as your own weapon". As the saying goes, if you want to do a good job, you must sharpen your tools first. Whether dealing with noise conflicts or problems encountered in daily life, communication is the lowest cost way. Of course, if you are particularly rich and can solve it with "earning power", then the noise problem is not your problem. Since communication is a weapon, prepare it first. The time, place, people and mentality of communication are mainly the contents of communication, as well as prejudging others or even prejudging them. Although these contents seem simple, they are almost the core of the whole course in the business negotiation training course. It's just that I apply them to deal with the contradiction of neighborhood noise.

First of all, the time setting of communication needs to master the routine of the other party. Don't go to an empty place every time, not at the appointed time, and you can't find the key person. Your communication is absolutely a failure. Second, the setting of the place, whether you want to chat in front of his house, or find another place to chat, or find a restaurant to sit down and chat while eating, different places and different chat atmosphere will certainly have the same effect. If you stand at the door of his house and chat, unless you are particularly patient, it will generally not last more than 5 minutes, because the door itself represents refusal, and you can only talk for a short time at the door, but you can't talk for a long time at the door. Third, the setting of characters is based on your understanding of them, such as who can communicate well and who has the right to speak. Don't chat with people who have a bad temper. I can't speak at all when I open my mouth. If someone is found to have broken his word, it's no use talking again. If you can't choose the right person, you can choose someone to test the water when the other person is around, but at this time, don't talk about noise, you can cut in from other aspects, mainly to understand their attitude, and it is best to add it to WeChat and look through their circle of friends, so that you can make some judgments, and then you can discuss the noise problem in a targeted way. Fourth, the mentality of communication, in fact, is mainly not nervous, not angry, not blind. Tension and anger are easy to understand, but blindness is a big problem. For example, if you want to communicate upstairs, you don't know what to say after you go, and you are even embarrassed by the other party, and your mentality collapses. In this case, it is better not to talk about it. Every time you communicate, don't get angry because of communication. You must remember that communication is a weapon. You can be stupid and can't play well, but don't break out in communication, because breaking out in communication is similar to self-destructive weapons, and it will be difficult to use this weapon next time.

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