What's it like to be a father for the first time?

Husband is 35 years old, and now the baby is 2 months old. Tell me what I have seen, heard and felt during this time.

When I first got pregnant, I wasn't sure myself. I used several pregnancy tests and didn't tell him that they were all signs of pregnancy, so I dared to tell him that when I gave them to him, he still didn't believe me and looked indifferent. Two nights later, I had an unbearable stomachache. Went to the emergency department of the hospital overnight. I told the doctor that I might be pregnant, but I wasn't sure. The doctor wrote a blood test list and a B-ultrasound list. Unexpectedly, the blood test nurse left her post without authorization, and she couldn't find anyone. She was furious, broke the glass and shouted, and finally she couldn't call the hospital to complain. The leaders of the hospital quickly and urgently finished all the inspections for me. B-ultrasound shows that I am pregnant for 6 weeks, and the pain is because I can't breathe. Nothing happened. My husband said at this time: I am really pregnant! Without the following, I was really speechless at that time.

Later, we said that we could play wherever we wanted while it was still early, but we couldn't play at that time. On the way, I asked him if you told his family. They did, but there was nothing more to say. At that time, I really felt that this person was very popular!

There was a little threatened abortion in the first three months. When I saw red, all the indicators were normal. When I saw the red, he sent me to the hospital. When the index was normal, he prescribed some medicine. Then I should go to work and do what I should. Later, I accompanied me to the birth check-up twice. He has nothing to do but wait for me, wait, wait, wait for all kinds of inspections. I am bored. I'm just saying I can do it alone. Each inspection can be completed in one morning. There are not many people in the hospital, so basically I just wait for a few people to accompany him. After all, I have to ask for leave, and there is nothing to do. He took me to the hospital every time after that.

After a long time, my stomach got bigger and bigger and I stopped driving. Every day someone asks me what I eat, a chicken and a pigeon, and I start to make up. I made an agreement with the company in advance when I would start to rest, and I made an agreement with my family. It is normal for my mother-in-law to take care of me and accompany me to the maternal and child store.

I really began to think that he had a happy father when I was almost nine months old and one month before the due date, and I began to let him stay in my sight and accompany me with everything. Ten days before the due date, the first thing I say when I get up every morning is, will I be born today, haha! I've been asking for about a week. At this time, my mother-in-law also came. My mother-in-law accompanied me to the birth check-up, but in the middle of every birth check-up, he would come and see what was going on and listen to what the doctor said. Until three days before the due date, he was impatient, and I was a little impatient. During the check-up, I asked the doctor if I could give birth early and get an injection of oxytocin. The doctor said, no, not yet.

At the due date, I began to have a stomachache at night. I thought I was going to give birth, so I woke him up. It was about three in the morning. Baidu online said that the pain was regular, once every ten minutes, and then went to the hospital. After taking a shower and washing our hair before going, we decided not to go to the hospital. We go to the hospital for 5 minutes by car. ) He just stayed with me and asked me later. Before I was born, I had two or three false contractions, all in the middle of the night. Every time, he is more nervous than me. Haha, while accompanying me, he was nervous and scolded his baby in my stomach, asking him to be obedient and not to torture others.

I had a stomachache until the day I was born. At first I thought it was the same as before. That's a fake. I panicked when I was sure I was going to have a baby. Urge me to take a bath, wash my hair and blow my hair, and want to take me to the hospital. At that time, my mother-in-law was there and said, I just started to see red, not so fast, and there is still a long time! So at noon, he took me to eat the hot pot I said I wanted to eat the other day. Haha, after eating hot pot, he came back to accompany me around the community garden, saying that having a baby was fast and it didn't hurt so much. It takes less than two hours to eat hot pot and walk. He kept asking me if I could go to the hospital, and he insisted on sending me to the hospital.

When I was in hospital, the doctor came to check my condition, and the palace door was not open yet. When he saw the doctor, he asked, what food should he prepare in his next life, such as Snickers and Red Bull? Can I eat? The doctor said I had to prepare some food, and then I left. Boy, what did he buy, Oreo, Snickers, chocolate, red bull, milk and so on? Haha, it looks funny! ! ! I was checking in the middle, and he was signing. I've never met him. When I saw him, the first thing I said was that the hospital asked him to sign dozens of signatures, and his hands were soft. I didn't know what they were signing. He wants to come in and see me. When he saw me, he asked me if I had eaten anything. Does it hurt? He looked flustered and worried to death. Where does it hurt? I cried and cried.

Until the nurse checked that I was going to have a baby, she quickly pushed me into the delivery room. He can't go in. I didn't know what he was like when I was born. I asked him, but I didn't say anything. I remember, after I gave birth, the doctor asked me to call him to tell him that I was safe. I was flustered when I heard his voice and asked if I was okay and how the baby was. I told him the sex of the child and hung up. I'm too tired to sleep.

After giving birth, the doctor pushed me out of the delivery room for two hours. At that moment, I saw him coming to me, took off his coat, put it on me, bent down and kissed my cheek, saying that it was hard. Baby, he didn't look! The ward that my mother-in-law has been holding.

On the day I was born, I lost a lot of blood and had a catheter inserted. I ate and drank Lazar, peed, washed lochia, changed clothes, looked after the baby, fed the baby and changed diapers. Suddenly he had to take care of the baby, and the nurse came to teach him how to do it. Take the baby to sleep in the accompanying bed next door at night and wake up once an hour to pee and change diapers.

Let me sum up my feelings from pregnancy to birth: men and happy fathers also have a process of growing up, accepting and getting familiar with each other. I thought it would be as exciting as what was shown on TV. My family, no, haha, that's why I keep talking about him, so calm! ! !

Are all men like this?