What if my daughter-in-law wants to go out and look for a job after pregnancy, and her mother-in-law doesn't want her to work?

Personally, I don't think anyone's mother-in-law wants to go out and look for a job after pregnancy. After all, work is likely to affect fetal development. Besides, going out to find a job after pregnancy is estimated that few companies are willing to accept it. I think it's better to stay at home and continue your career after the children come out. At that time, I'm sure my mother-in-law won't get in your way again.

Perhaps it is influenced by Confucian culture for thousands of years. I don't know when women in our country will stay at home and be a good wife and mother. Your mother-in-law won't let you go out and look for a job. Maybe she wants you to stay at home and be a wife's helper. However, as women with higher education in the new era, they are eager for their families and their own careers, instead of spending all their youth on family chores.

This shows that you and your mother-in-law will quarrel endlessly about this matter in the future. The quarrel is mainly to solve the problem. I think you can also think from the perspective of your mother-in-law. You go to work and your husband goes to work. Who will take care of the child? Also, the relationship between husband and wife will definitely be affected if two people work hard outside all day and get together briefly at night. Besides, no one handles housework at home. Is this still like home?

I think you will be angry when you hear such words, but I hope you will calm down. After all, being married is not as free as being single or in love. To form a family, both parties should take responsibility, so that you can support your family. So you have to understand your mother-in-law's thoughts, but you can also communicate with her. The struggle of two people can greatly reduce the pressure of life and bring her a better material life, and her own working hours are regular.

Why do women embarrass women? Mother-in-law should understand her daughter-in-law's thoughts and respect her choices. Daughter-in-law should also take care of her mother-in-law's bitter conscience, knowing that her mother-in-law doesn't want to work too hard, understand each other and tolerate each other, and a family can be harmonious. what do you think?