Have you ever hated your mother-in-law for a moment?

The moment I hate my mother-in-law most is the moment when she lacks humanity to my daughter.

We seldom go back to my parents-in-law because we are far apart. When my daughter was five months old, my husband asked us to stay with her parents-in-law in Hubei for a while because she was going on a business trip for half a year. Unexpectedly, my dislike for her mother-in-law reached its peak in just a few months.

I remember that night, it snowed in Hubei, and it was very cold. My daughter caught a cold and had a fever. I finally put her to sleep and went to take a shower. While I was washing, I suddenly heard my daughter crying in the bedroom. I knew my mother-in-law was still awake, thinking that she should see her daughter, so I didn't care too much.

after 4 or 5 minutes, my daughter was still crying. I quickly washed and rushed to the bedroom. The scene in front of me made me tremble with anger.

My 5-month-old daughter, who still has a fever, is shivering with cold in her light clothes in snowy weather. The quilt is beside her, but she is too small to cover it herself. She can only hold the small pillow tightly with her little hands helplessly, hoping to get a little warmth and cry her heart out. My mother-in-law, my daughter's biological grandmother, is less than two meters away from her, sitting on her bed, wrapped in her warm quilt, and so watching the little person cry with cold, she is motionless, ignoring her and not covering her with a quilt, as if the child had nothing to do with her.

I know that my mother-in-law is very patriarchal and doesn't like her daughter, but it's disgusting to treat a child a few months old like this.

since then, I have never set foot in my in-laws' house again, and it has been ten years.

yes and nothing can be done. I'm afraid of heat. I have to turn on the fan to fall asleep in summer. When she saw it, she said, we are not hot, so why are you hot? It's a waste of electricity. She asked men and women to wash their clothes separately and threw my clothes aside, saying that women are dirtier than men; The child caught a cold, but she didn't give medicine, but burned the paper and poured it into the child's mouth, which caused the child to catch a cold and aggravate the throat inflammation; In order to take good care of the children, I bought a temperature and humidity meter. She pointed to the pointer and said that it was a cross (she believed in Buddhism). She cried and said that my daughter-in-law was vicious and wanted to kill her. My father came to see my grandson. She saw my father reading story books and ran over to accuse my father of not reading Jesus books (my mother believed in Christianity when she was alive). Before my father-in-law died, I borrowed a lot of money to see a doctor. I took care of my children alone and had no income. She cried and wanted to build a house, saying that other people had new houses to live in, forcing us to borrow money to build another house. There are too many such things ... < P > Sometimes it is really hard to understand how such a person, who is not too old (twenty years older than me), can be so ignorant and strong. It doesn't matter if he hasn't read a book or can't read. The reason of dealing with people is always the same.

Of course, she is not a bad person, and she also has the advantages of hard work and frugality of rural women, but our world is separated by a deep gap and it is difficult to communicate with each other. Because she is Eva's grandmother and Eva's father's mother, I will do my best to be filial to her and obey her, but I can't like her!

yes! I won't say anything else. The most impressive time was when my husband asked her to look after me the night I gave birth to a baby. She refused directly in front of me, saying that she had high blood pressure and couldn't take care of it. At that time, I was angry. It's not that you don't take care of me that I'm angry. You can drag my husband out and tell him secretly that I'm dizzy and can't take care of him! Just don't be in front of me, and when I was the most helpless, I told my husband that I can ignore anything about your mother, and this one will never be forgiven! Therefore, on the issue of my mother-in-law, my husband has never been reluctant. If I say no, I just don't do it, and he never says it again. His heart is broken and can't be repaired.

in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Of course, there will be this time, because two people have different ideas and habits! Proper limit is very sure. Especially when my mother-in-law speaks badly and rambles! What a nuisance! Even if it's not the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, lovers and friends will be annoying sometimes! This is normal, don't worry?

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There was a moment that was very annoying. I was a nanny of two children. When I was pregnant with Erbao, I was involved and my nutrition didn't keep up, which led to Erbao's poor health when she was born. Erbao was hospitalized when she was born. I was at home by myself for the first half of my confinement, and the child came back in the second half. My mother-in-law only came here occasionally, and I took care of the child by myself. Before the child was 3 years old, he often went to the hospital. When he took the child to register, ran up and down, and went to the hospital alone, he had to hold the child, because the child was young and brought a lot of things. At that time, he really collapsed. I called my mother-in-law and she didn't come. Later, I simply didn't call her, because I knew it was useless to call, but fortunately I survived, and I survived the most difficult period. Now that the child is older, I feel relieved when I look back. In fact, it's useless to blame. My mother-in-law also has her own difficulties. < P > No, my mother-in-law is also a mother. Although I haven't lived with her for a long time, my mother-in-law is a very kind person and treats me very well. For example, when I go back at ordinary times, I will specially cook some tonic soup. Besides, my mother-in-law takes care of me in the hospital every day when I give birth to a baby, and helps me wipe my body and treat my wounds. I'm very grateful for coming to help me with my children when I have time recently.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also my key area of concern. In the process of providing for the elderly, if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not handled well, there is basically no way to be happy in my later years. Mother-in-law has been worried about her son all her life. In her later years, she went to her son's house to provide for the elderly, and it depends on her daughter-in-law's face. After all, social experience and life experience are different from values and living habits, which often annoys daughter-in-law, but I think daughter-in-law should give some tolerance. After all, it is really not easy to do housework and take care of children for you. < P > Many people hate their mother-in-law, and it is not necessary to say that some mother-in-law is not someone who speaks ill of her daughter-in-law. If her daughter-in-law knows that her mother-in-law is everywhere, she will definitely look down on her mother-in-law. In reality, there are still many fights between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and there are also many curses against mother-in-law. I'm sorry I don't have a mother-in-law.

I hate myself sometimes, and even my own mother sometimes feels angry, annoying and even quarreling because of something. Became a family with her mother-in-law because her son married into her husband's family when he grew up. After all, he didn't live together since childhood, and it is inevitable that there will be some negative emotions when he rubs, but after all, he is a family. Let bygones be bygones. Everyone is not perfect, and everyone has his own temper. Take a step back and broaden the horizon [yeah ]

To be honest, there is. But only for a moment. After all, my mother-in-law is also a mother, so I should be filial. Let's exchange sincerity for sincerity.