Why do Japanese housewives call retired men "coarse garbage"?

Japanese "coarse garbage" means big garbage. Why do Japanese housewives call their retired husbands that?

This stems from the institutional arrangement of Japanese families. As we all know, for a long time, Japanese women quit their jobs to educate their children at home.

The average Japanese mother's schedule is like this:

5: 30: Get up, make breakfast and have lunch.

7 o'clock or 8 o'clock: Go out to see the children out (you don't have to accompany them to school, just send them to the door) to see your husband off.

Then I began to clean the house, wash clothes, iron clothes and go to the supermarket to buy food.

Busy in the morning, more free time at noon and afternoon. It's really boring to sign up for an economically powerful flower arranging classroom to learn flower arranging, or to invite friends out for coffee. It's okay to have an affair with the little brother in the coffee shop.

At four or five o'clock in the afternoon, the children are close to school time, either to pick them up or to start preparing their own dinner at home. Since Japanese husbands usually don't come back for dinner at night, there is no need to prepare their own share.

This kind of life is both relaxed and boring. Therefore, housewives with certain economic strength always have fun by themselves. Those who have no financial strength go to the supermarket to do odd jobs to earn pocket money.

I have lived like this for decades. When the children are older, my own people are old, and my husband will soon retire and go home.

Going home is a good thing, which directly affects the free life arrangement that my wife has been used to for decades.

First, we should start preparing lunch, and then we should add a spoonful of rice to our husband for dinner.

I used to arrange it myself during the day, go wherever I wanted, and even date small fresh meat. My husband retired and came back, so it is inconvenient to walk around.

The most terrible thing is that when my Japanese husband comes home, he basically does nothing but work and doesn't want to do anything. Every day is reading newspapers, watching TV and drinking tea.

This will make the wife dissatisfied. You have never been with me before, but at least I am free and happy. Now that you're home, you're the emperor. Everything needs to serve you. I can't do anything, just like "coarse garbage"

As soon as the contradiction is aroused, it's great that Japan has begun to "divorce in mature years."

Compared with Japanese men, Japanese women who have come into contact with China men are asked by China men to sit up and take care of their women and their families. Most of them don't have the bad habit of drinking every day. Although there are some male chauvinism, men in China generally respect women. So, in fact, many Japanese women are willing to try to live with men in China.

It's just that men in China still need to dress up in fashion and neatness.

Before, a Japanese actress introduced her married life in China, which caused a heated discussion in Japan, because Japanese talents found that in China, wives don't need to take their husbands' surnames, but now it is common for men to do housework in China families.

Many people have the impression that Japanese women are very gentle and considerate, so marrying a Japanese wife has become the ideal of many domestic boys, but in fact, many gentle Japanese women are very helpless and forbearing.

In Japan, useless men, especially retired men, are often called "coarse garbage".

It looks very gentle, but in fact, Japanese housewives who have been forbearing live in American houses, hire chefs from China and marry Japanese wives! This life is perfect.

In fact, in many people's minds, the image of a Japanese housewife is to wear a kimono, do all the housework, clean up the house, prepare meals and bath water, and gently say "you are back" when her husband comes back.

Not only is she omnipotent, but she is also gentle. She never seems to lose her temper and is absolutely obedient to her husband's demands.

In reality, this image is not empty talk, because most housewives in Japan often take care of their families and obey their husbands.

Japan is still a place above men, and the culture of male chauvinism is quite popular in Japan.

In many Japanese dramas and dramas, it can be seen that in traditional Japanese families, men have the final say, while women often only listen to their fathers when they are unmarried and their husbands after they get married.

This phenomenon is mainly related to economic reasons, because most Japanese women will become full-time housewives after marriage, and they can only live on their husbands and have to obey.

The long-term unequal status between husband and wife will naturally accumulate many contradictions. Although most Japanese housewives will not resist, such forbearance will continue to deepen and contradictions will break out sooner or later.

It has lost its function, that is, garbage is an old developed country. It is not too difficult for an ordinary man in Japan to support a family by himself. Most Japanese companies still subsidize married male employees and have children.

All walks of life in Japan still recognize and support housewives, which is why many Japanese women will not continue to work after marriage, but become full-time housewives and concentrate on taking care of their families.

Generally speaking, Japanese housewives often work part-time, and the proportion of full-time is very low.

It is for this reason that Japanese housewives have to rely on their husbands to survive. For them, the husband is a reliable source of life, which can only be accepted and helpless.

On the other hand, Japanese housewives can endure because their husbands can make their lives stable, but if their husbands lose this role, there is no need for anyone to listen to them.

Therefore, in Japan, married men must not lose their jobs or sources of income, otherwise they are more likely to be abandoned by their families while being abandoned by the company.

If you are an ordinary retired person, you won't encounter such problems before. After all, you still have a pension

In the past, Japanese housewives usually called their husbands who had a bad temper, often made unreasonable demands and could not make money vulgar rubbish, and of course they only talked behind their backs.

With the implementation of the new law, Japanese housewives can no longer stand the fact that Japan has a relatively perfect retirement pension system. Usually, they can leave their jobs at the age of 65, and then begin to spend their old age comfortably, but this is also the most headache for Japanese housewives.

In the past, her husband was busy with work, and the life of a housewife was quite easy.

But after retirement, many husbands not only don't help their wives with housework, but have more time to tell their wives what to do, and the contradiction between husband and wife rises rapidly.

Therefore, retired men are really a headache for Japanese housewives, so there is often a phenomenon of "mature divorce". These people are called vulgar rubbish.

Japanese housewives in the past, even if they were dissatisfied with their husbands, usually did not dare to show it in public if they could not take care of themselves, such as divorce.

However, things changed in 2007 because Japan passed a new law.

According to this "pension distribution system", the husband and wife still have to share the pension equally after divorce. In other words, even a divorced wife has half of her ex-husband's pension.

I haven't kissed since I got my pension! After the implementation of this law, the divorce rate of the elderly in Japan rose rapidly, and almost all of them were put forward by women. It can also be seen that they have put up with it for many years and don't want to put up with it any more. They just swept the vulgar garbage out of the house.

There is a survey that surprises people. Japanese housewives, who have always been known for their gentleness, courtesy and frugality, have the highest derailment rate in all industries. In other words, many Japanese housewives seem to be hardworking and respectful to their husbands, but they are actually pretending. In Japan, housewives are more like a job than a wife.

In fact, it is obvious that Japan is a country with a high level of higher education. Even women are mostly well-educated, and they are no longer illiterate and ignorant in the past. Psychological counseling is so developed now that they actually know everything. Although many Japanese women stay at home as full-time housewives after marriage because of traditional ideas, their thoughts are not as simple as in the old society. There is a saying that the attitude of Japanese housewives mainly depends on the number of tickets given by their husbands. The more tickets you give, the better your attitude. If you give less tickets, you may lose your face.

Japanese men have a very bad tradition of working outside, that is, going out to drink together after work. Originally, the Japanese worked overtime, so they got off work late and went out to drink and socialize together. It may be midnight when they get home, and they have to go out to work early the next day. In this way, Japanese couples rarely meet every day, let alone communicate deeply. Perhaps because of this, the cheating rate of Japanese housewives is so high.

There is a saying that the economic base determines the superstructure. Among Japanese couples, most of them are men who make money and women who spend money, so the status of men will naturally be high. But is this high status really strong? It is hard to say whether Japanese women are obedient and respectful to their husbands out of love or in order to get their husbands' money. After all, waiting on people for a long time will make you tired. If this husband is considerate and communicates with them more on weekdays, it is also tolerable. But many men are very tired after work and have to go out to drink and socialize. It's hard to see your wife when you get home. Of course, the wife will not be close to her husband, but her hands are short and her words are soft. She needs her husband to make a living, so she has to put up with it.

In this case, Japanese women really have no status, not only economically and materially, but also spiritually. In this case, it is not surprising that Japanese housewives cheat. Once this lifestyle is chosen, Japanese women may have to live like this all their lives and rely entirely on their husbands. However, in 2007, this situation changed, mainly because Japan revised the civil law, stipulating that Japanese women can share their husbands' pension according to the length of marriage after divorce, and if they are long enough, they can share half of the pension.

As soon as this regulation was introduced, it is said that the divorce rate in Japan surged by 7% that month, and more than 90% was put forward by Japanese women whose husbands retired. And those Japanese men, after working all their lives, just want to enjoy happiness at home. Unexpectedly, their wives filed for divorce at this time, which not only greatly damaged their economic situation, but also lost their security in life. After all, for decades, they have lived a life of food and clothing. If no one takes care of it immediately, it will lose its viability directly. Such a man is a disgusting object to his wife and useless to society, so he will be called vulgar garbage by his wife.

Another point, which is basically the same all over the world, is that women live longer than men. Nowadays, many elderly couples, often the elderly have been dead for more than ten or twenty years, and the old lady is still alive. And if the old lady leaves first, the old man may die in a few years. In other words, when elderly couples are together, it is likely that women take care of men more. In order to avoid this kind of trouble, Japanese women will choose divorce. There was nothing to get from divorce before. Now divorce can take away half of the old people's pension, so there is no need to wait on others. It is not surprising that so many Japanese women choose to divorce after retirement.

Although retired Japanese men are very upset about being given a large pension, it is a legal requirement and there is no way out. But anyway, life has to go on. Convenience stores in Japan are very developed, and there is food everywhere. Even if you can't cook, you won't starve to death. On the one hand, without the pension, the source of income is much less, and many Japanese elderly people have to continue to work even if they are 70 or 80 years old. On the other hand, without the bondage of family, many retired men began to let go of themselves. After all, Japanese people generally live too depressed. Before they work, they need to be squeezed by their superiors and supervised by their colleagues. At home, they also need to restrain themselves. Now, nobody cares, and some people start to give up on themselves. According to the statistical results, in recent years, the proportion of crimes committed by elderly men in Japan has soared, which can be said to be a great spectacle. This is exactly what Japanese housewives say: retired men are vulgar rubbish, which is not only useless but also harmful.

Perhaps it is precisely because the marriage of the elderly in Japan has also stimulated the young people in Japan, resulting in a low marriage rate among young people in Japan. Men don't want to bear the pressure of supporting their families and the risk of being swept out of the house, while women can work by themselves without getting married, and there is no need to wait on men. In the long run, Japan's fertility rate is getting lower and lower, and the aging is getting more and more serious, which is almost an infinite cycle.

Why do Japanese housewives call retired men "coarse garbage"?

In Japan, "coarse garbage" is called the most useless person, that is, the biggest garbage, and housewives want to get rid of men without them as soon as possible.

The social environment and customs in Japan are quite different from those in China. Women in their country work hard to earn money before they get married. Once you get married and have children, you should quit your job and go home to accompany your husband to raise children. The source of family life mainly depends on men working hard outside to earn money to support their families. When a woman gets married, she stays at home as a full-time wife. She gets up at 5: 30 every day to cook, and then serves her husband and children for lunch. After dinner, they bowed to each other and watched their husbands go to work. Then send the children to kindergarten or school. Finally, clean up the house and go out to do what you like.

Japan is a country that has been open for a long time, and there are all kinds of dazzling entertainment places in China. These stay-at-home wives are equal to being free after their husbands go to work. Some go to the dance halls to sing and dance, some go to nightclubs to soak small fresh meat, some go to the foot washing room to have fun, and some go to visit friends nearby. In short, they are happy all day, feasting and having sex.

Once a man retires at home, he becomes a caged bird, guarding his husband for a long time all day, while his husband drinks tea, watches TV and reads newspapers at home and doesn't do housework at all. At this time, the housewife was too old to bear her husband's sexual interest. Every day they don't have the same language at home, and over time, husband and wife get bored. Therefore, Japanese housewives call their husbands "coarse garbage" after retirement, and they can't wait to fall off as soon as possible so as to get rid of their families.

Japanese women are gentle and polite in appearance, and the gentlest thing is to bow their heads, just like snow lotus. For a long time, many men have a beautiful dream of living in the United States, marrying a Japanese wife and hiring a China chef to cook for them. What a pleasant day! The ideal is very full, but the reality is so skinny! In fact, Japanese women, if their husbands can't make big money, are old and have a hard time! The so-called coarse garbage is useless garbage! In China, cotton condoms praise shit, throw it away!

In Japan, my husband retired. If I stay at home, I will have a cup of tea, enjoy half a day and entertain myself in front of the TV. If you don't care about eating and drinking Lazarus, you want to be as happy as a fairy. Many Japanese women spend most of their lives bowing in the morning and watching their husbands go out, and then, all day, they are extremely happy and do whatever they want! Anyway, my husband can't control it! I can't see either! Now, my husband is at home all day, and I can't help if the oil bottle falls! Who will be happy! Be an uncle! Let the wife serve! Many Japanese women, in their fifties, sixties, seventies and white-haired, have been fighting for divorce! Let people sigh!

Japanese women may endure it for most of their lives until their children are old and married. There is nothing to worry about. I hate my husband from my heart! Being a husband is rubbish! Husbands must also reflect. Love and care for your wife. Learn to do housework! Treat your wife as a treasure! Otherwise! I'm 70, 80, divorced! It is really a sad river!

Nonsense. Men support their families outside and women work at home.

However, Japan is wonderful.

Men come home early, and women think men are incompetent.

Isn't that strange?

Because eating and drinking in Japan is institutionalized.

Every enterprise and many public and private institutions in Japan can formally allocate a certain percentage of hospitality. Every night, at the beginning, many people change places after eating one game, leaving those that are not very close, and then end another game, leaving some. So in the end, all the people left are the boss's cronies, and the more capable the core figures are. Therefore, in the eyes of the Japanese, it is normal and tasteful for a man to go home drunk at two or three o'clock.

Japanese women are crazy, too, and extremely crazy.

When I was a teenager, I dared to sell myself for a mobile phone. Of course, the jargon of others is to help friends and communicate.

At first, it was a simple chat activity, and the payment was only a substantial gift bought by credit card. Later, he naturally became a real sex seller. Every day after school, girls will be accosted by men in the street, and when they see the right price, they will open a room. Everyone thinks this situation is normal, and even it is an honor for middle school students to be selected to participate in AV.

After work, Japanese women spend a lot of money on makeup and consumption every day. where is the money to come from?

The answer is prostitution.

Therefore, Japanese women start to do sales from junior high school students and work on average until they are around 30 years old. In the past, most women were able to live honestly after marriage. Today, things are different. Many people are accustomed to high consumption, naturally unwilling to be lonely, or dislike their husbands' low income, and silently continue to work and save money. Anyway, my husband comes back late every day.

So, when Japanese men retire, nothing will happen. One-time pension/kloc-more than 0/0 million dollars, but the wife is ready at home, divided into pensions and divorced. Because women have saved their private savings for many years, and then they can share half of their pensions, they can live comfortably without worrying about men who can do nothing.

That's the origin of coarse garbage.

I have worked in Japan for more than six years, and I know something about these situations.

First of all, what does "coarse garbage" mean? Japan is a country that adopts strict garbage sorting. Garbage sorting began many years ago, and now our country has gradually started garbage sorting. Japanese garbage can be roughly divided into combustible garbage, non-combustible garbage, non-recyclable garbage, recyclable plastic garbage, harmful waste, resource garbage and coarse garbage, and the classification varies from place to place. "Coarse garbage" refers to the relatively large volume, such as tables, chairs, beds, sofas and so on. Generally, it is difficult to transport, so the daily garbage removal personnel do not transport the garbage. When throwing it, they must make an appointment in advance and then pay the transportation fee before throwing it. Japanese women compare retired men to vulgar rubbish, which shows that in their eyes, retired men are useless on the one hand and consuming their own resources on the other.

The reason why Japanese women compare retired men to vulgar rubbish is because of the whole Japanese social tradition. Although Japan is a developed country, it is a country where men are superior to women and women's status is low. In Japanese families, men work outside to earn money to support their families. When a woman gets married, no matter how good her job is, she will quit her job and go back to her family to be a full-time wife. This tradition leads Japanese women to lose their financial resources after marriage, but to take care of their husbands and children at home full-time, and the man has become the pillar of the whole family because he wants to earn money to support his family. Whether it is Japanese cultural works or what he saw and heard after he went to Japan, Japanese women are gentle and considerate after marriage, hard-working, especially polite to their husbands and considerate to take care of their families.

This reality has led to the fact that Japanese men can hardly do housework, and even the simplest dishes can't be cooked well. Of course, in such a social atmosphere, Japanese women don't want men to do housework, otherwise it will be the housewife's dereliction of duty and loss of face. There was once a young man in China who married a Japanese wife. At home, the young man sometimes takes out his own cooking skills to cook for his wife, who is very happy and moved. But once his wife's best friend came home to be a guest, the young man in China still scrambled to cook according to China's habit, which made his wife very unhappy and made her lose face in front of her best friend. This also illustrates the cultural differences between China and Japan from one side.

Therefore, Japanese men are neither willing to do housework at home nor have the opportunity to do housework. For this phenomenon, Japanese countries and enterprises have also paid full attention to housewives. When I was working in Japan, the company regularly mailed employees' payslips to their homes, which required a lot of expenses every year. I once asked the company's human resources minister why the payroll could not be distributed to employees. His answer is that housewives can know the income of employees, and if they give it to employees, their wives may not see it. Moreover, the income of men working outside the home will be given to housewives. A wife gives her husband a certain amount of pocket money every month.

When the man didn't retire and tried to earn money to support his family, Japanese housewives felt bored and lonely, but they could only endure it. However, after the man retired, because he was used to doing nothing at home, he generally didn't help with housework, and some even pointed fingers. At the same time, due to the decrease in income after retirement, this will cause great dissatisfaction among wives, and many people's long-term forbearance will eventually break out, and many people will publicly blame their husbands for this. Before 2007, there were not many cases of divorce because the law did not stipulate that the man's pension should be shared equally by both parties after divorce. However, in 2007, in order to protect women's rights and interests, the Japanese government amended the law, which means that after the husband retires, if both parties divorce, the man's pension must be divided equally, which ushered in a unique phenomenon in Japanese society. After the man retired, the divorce rate rose rapidly, which was basically put forward by the woman. After divorce, the man's pension can be divided equally, and he doesn't have to wait on his husband. And many men can only buy lunch at convenience stores every day because they can't do housework at all.

Faced with this social reality, many Japanese young people have seen the end of their parents' lives, and both men and women have exerted tremendous psychological pressure on their marriage life. In order to earn more money to support the family, men have to bear a lot of pressure. In Japanese society, people generally love face very much and don't want to cause trouble to others. They don't want to be accused or criticized by their superiors, so they are under great work pressure, and many men don't want to get married. Although it seems easy for women to become full-time wives after marriage, doing housework day after day makes life very boring, so many women also give up marriage. Therefore, the proportion of single men and women in Japan is very high and increasing day by day.

In the social reality of Japan, some young Japanese women now prefer China men who are diligent and considerate and can do housework. In recent years, China boys have been recognized by some young Japanese women, and more and more young men in China have married young Japanese women.

First of all, we need to know why retired men in Japan are called coarse garbage. Japan's garbage classification is very detailed, including recyclable garbage, kitchen waste and so on. Coarse garbage refers to some large useless garbage, such as old sofas and broken treadmills. These rubbish are not only useless, but also need to be paid for.

Those retired men, like these vulgar rubbish, can neither bring income to the family, but also occupy family resources. Why is Japanese society like this?

No matter whether the Japanese family is rich or not, the average woman will be a full-time housewife after marriage, while men will work hard in the workplace all their lives, like worker bees in a hive, running around all their lives. In this way, when you reach retirement age, you will suddenly stay at home, make no money, and be rejected by your wife.

Although we say that Japan's welfare and old-age care are very good, most elderly people still need to work, especially driving taxis. Many taxis in Japan are driven by old people, which is why old people should try to avoid becoming rough garbage.

Japanese housewives call retired men coarse garbage for the following reasons!

First of all, Japan is a small island country, and the competition is naturally much more intense. Men's state before retirement is very unusual. The so-called stand high and fall hard, that's what it means!

The second is that Japanese men basically go out to work and socialize early before retirement, and they are full every day, while their wives only need to do things at home, and other things that earn money to support their families don't need to be taken care of at all, just need to eat well and wait on their husbands who come home. After men retire, they suddenly oppose each other day and night, which will produce many contradictions! Coupled with no economic income, Japanese men will naturally be rejected by their wives!

The third reason is that Japanese men are used to being waited on by their wives before retirement. When they come home from work, it can be said that their mouths are full of food, their clothes are stretched, and their voices are habitually "giving orders" at work, and their wives will definitely feel sick! I'll put up with it if you say you have money to enter. You can't make money to support your family, so there are so many things that it naturally becomes "coarse garbage"!

That's bullshit！ Can you say a little more? The Japanese are really desperate. Their life after retirement is also very difficult. Generally, there is only one job, because I am older (Japanese people retire later, reaching 70). Such as parking attendants, such as security guards, such as taxi drivers. However, some people feel healthy and will work two jobs as before retirement. (Japanese usually have two jobs) and people think that two jobs don't have to be equal, so I took a taxi driven by the president of the company. The old man is 74 years old. The company is owned by others. Take a look at it in the morning, then put on the taxi driver's clothes and start working. Go back to the company to listen to the report in the afternoon. I have to associate with people at night. Therefore, it is difficult for Japanese women to respect their husbands even if they want to. No garbage.