How do girls chat afterwards, and what topics are appropriate to talk about in love?

Many boys are always worried about what to talk about with girls. This is also the question I received the most consultation. In fact, this idea itself is wrong. Women will never like you because of the topics and contents you talk about. Instead, you will judge what kind of person you are according to the content of your chat-your information, your personality, your attitude and so on. So what you said in the dating chat is only superficial, and the deeper level is the interaction between you.

The ultimate goal of chatting or dating is to upgrade your relationship, not to make friends. You should be more concerned about the direction of your chat topic than what you said.

The topic direction of chat is divided into three stages:

First, open topics: third-party topics, hobbies

Second, related topics: experiencing life, attitude and emotion

Third, intimate topics: feelings and ambiguous topics

First, open the topic.

Maybe most chats are like this.

Man: Where are you from?

Female: Handan

Man: Oh, how old are you?

Female: 22 years old

What do you do?

Woman: Selling clothes.

......

You can see that girl is bored to tears, because this man just keeps asking questions, just like auditing accounts.

When chatting with girls, many brothers are often in an awkward state and lack humor. How can a girl want to talk to you all the time? Bian Xiao used to be like this, chatting with her sister disappeared. Later, I read the secret book of picking up girls and soaking holy old fish, and learned a lot of practical dry goods in picking up girls. Although I have taken off the bill now, there are still so many girls chasing me. In fact, I used his chat scheme, which easily made them fall in love with me. Now I go out with other girls occasionally. Actually, it is good to master proper limit. For the brothers who are still single, I suggest you also look at the secret book of soaking the holy old fish and find it online. It is easier to win the goddess in your heart by improving yourself.

A good chat should create a good chat atmosphere, which is based on the same topic first. The best way for two men and women who have just met each other is to talk about the third party. These third-party topics refer to the scenes between you, the people, things and things around you, the first step to break the deadlock, and use the scenes and things at that time to start a dialogue. For example:

You are dating a girl in a coffee shop. You can talk about the environment of the coffee shop, the types of coffee and the interesting things that happen in the coffee shop. These are all related third-party topics.

You can talk about topics that women are interested in and do what you like. Think about what women care about most. Gossip about sexual feelings, horoscopes, psychological tests, palm reading and magic are women's favorite topics.

What constellation are you? (Constellation is a great topic)

What sports/music do you like? Tell me about your hobbies, books, music, movies, etc.

Have you ever kept small animals? Tell an interesting story about your cat and dog. Girls usually like small animals.

How do you spend your free time on weekends? It's convenient to arrange the next appointment and talk about life.

Second, contact topics

1, experiencing * * * vibration, causing * * * sound.

We all miss our childhood and college life, and we all long for a dream. You can talk about some interesting things when you were a child and plan your dreams in the future. Too many people live a real life, but they are not happy. When it comes to childhood and college, we will always miss it. When it comes to dreams, we will be very passionate.

Share more previous stories and future plans, because the illusion of time will make the other party feel that you have known each other for a long time and can quickly promote the relationship between two people.

Guiding topic:

"How was your childhood and college?"

"What do you want to do in the future? What's your wish? "

"If you had a choice, which city would you like to live in?"

"If you had a month's time and money, where would you choose to travel and why?"

"What was your most romantic experience and what moved you the most?"

2, her situation, praise.

Women need compliments to rationalize why you like her, but the mistake men are used to making is to give women a lot of compliments at the beginning, which will make girls feel that you are insincere. Here are some words you can learn.

I didn't see that besides being beautiful, you are also so capable of working.

I find that you are an interesting and thoughtful girl, different from others.

I've been with you for a long time and found that you and I have a lot in common.

……

Third, the depth of the topic

Deep topics generally refer to topics involving feelings and ambiguous nature, which is also the premise for you to further break through the relationship with girls.

When talking about these topics, we must follow the principle of going from the shallow to the deep and from the outside to the inside. For example:

You can talk about the first love first, then the first kiss, not the other way around.

Talking about this is mainly to let girls know what kind of person you love. For example: serious, responsible, dedicated and other excellent qualities. At the same time, understand the emotional demands of girls.

These are the three stages of chatting, so let's call it a day.