What's it like to remarry?

It's just a second marriage or a first marriage. If you don't manage well, you won't feel good.

Married for the second time, and now life is very happy. He took a boy, but I didn't. After marriage, we have a son and a daughter together, and the family is very harmonious. My husband has nothing to say to my parents, and he is very filial. I didn't say anything to my in-laws, and I was very filial.

Why did you get divorced the first time you got married? To put it bluntly, two people have different personalities, and they often quarrel, and they quarrel inexplicably. I asked him why he didn't do it before marriage. He said: Daughter-in-law is still married, and she is still carrying it home. Are you tired? After listening to his words, I felt uncomfortable in an instant. I said that even if you can pretend for a lifetime, I will live with you, and he won't do it until you get divorced. Maybe a leopard cannot change his spots.

Before marriage, I solemnly asked my husband, is it the same after marriage as before marriage? If not, I would have said so long ago, so as not to divorce again in the future. I can't afford to lose it. He said: Don't worry, you before marriage and you after marriage will never change.

That's it. I believe he married him. Unexpectedly, after marriage, he changed, not worse, but better than before. Sometimes I wonder what kind of luck made me meet him

Therefore, it is very important to meet the right person and have a happy marriage. However, a happy marriage also needs two people to run it well together.

Finally, I wish you a happy marriage.

This is our present family of four, very happy.

There is no difference between the first marriage and the second marriage for two people in marriage. They all need to depend on each other, appreciate each other and grow up with each other. It's just that I have emotional hurt in my heart, or that I have reflected on my previous marriage, which will make me cherish and be more tolerant.

Divorced in 2006, took her daughter and married her current husband. If nothing else is said after remarriage, my mother-in-law will not accept it. It is said that she has a bad relationship with her ex-daughter-in-law, but I am picky about remarriage for fear that my grandson will be wronged.

Also, if you take the other child or have children in front of you, getting along with the former child is the biggest problem. Fortunately, after 12 years, my husband and I have always been very loving, and we have a good relationship with our stepson, and our family is harmonious and beautiful. Today, I mainly share how to be a good stepmother. Children live in peace and husband and wife love each other, right?

First of all, it is very important to show that you are a stepmother, because the mother of the child will always be the mother of the child. We are just people who appear in the children's lives, and it is also our responsibility to help our husband bring up the children. Therefore, when the child changed his mind, I specifically declared that 18 years old, after going to college, you don't have to call me "mom" anymore. Of course, I don't mind you calling me.

[2] Don't speak ill of your mother. This is suitable for everyone after remarriage. You can't speak ill of your ex-partner or your parents to your children. Please keep it in mind. Plant love for children, and children will have love. Plant hate for children, and no one can win.

[3] The child has a steelyard in his heart, believe me. Even the youngest child has feelings. We may not be able to treat it as our own. I'm sorry, it's human nature. But think of it as your nephew and your good friend's adopted son in your home. Full of goodwill, think from the child's point of view, even if you don't understand it at the time, you will benefit in the future.

[4] The tube must be managed. After all, it is a child. Self-discipline is a habit gradually formed in growth, not born. Especially stepmother, China's family is generally not masculine. Due to social and cultural reasons, stepmother is responsible for raising children at home. Don't let go just because you didn't give birth. Don't be afraid of nosy mother-in-law and sister-in-law, watch children make mistakes, communicate with them more, talk more about feelings and less about emotions.

[5] Actively communicate with her husband. In remarried families, the responsibility of husband and wife is greater. After all, they are each other's children, so give him more feedback and opinions. Remember, this is not a small complaint. Of course, you must also tell him how wronged you are. Don't take it to heart and become a scar.

Ignore what the child says when he is angry. Many times, children speak casually, just expressing their emotions, without considering the harm of words. Think about it. We are all adults. Is this often the case? When we are angry, can we kill without saying a word?

[7] Don't expect anything in return. Blood relationship is a magical thing. Some children don't care, and some children care. It is necessary for us to help children receive blood. Don't say how much you have paid, you must occupy the position of your biological parents in your child's heart, you can't.

What you did was for yourself. Don't think of yourself as a saint, don't think of yourself as Lei Feng. Your stepson and stepdaughter have a good future, and you have a good future. Otherwise, your partner is not at ease to be close to you. If you think so, you won't be unbalanced?

Finally, I want to say, if you choose your own path, just go on with a smile. It's your choice to enter a family with a previous marriage. You chose to be a stepmother, not a child, so learning how to get along with children is a prerequisite.

Don't be a dissatisfied housewife, let alone a bitch, it won't help your happiness at all!

This is my second marriage, and my husband is thirty-two years older than me. He has never been married. He loves me very much. Now that I'm pregnant, he cares more about taking care of me. He often tells me some jokes, for fear of pressure in my heart. He works very hard, but he is lazy to call me from time to time before he can rest assured of his work! My parents-in-law also take special care of me. My mother-in-law cooks good food for me every Sunday. Although my husband often complains about her skills, [Cute] Because our family is in other places, my parents-in-law and husband have to go to work, so sometimes I buy food and cook. It's hot now, and my mother-in-law won't let me buy it. My father-in-law gets up at five in the morning to buy food. My mother-in-law said it was too hot, and I couldn't cook until she came back. I think they are all very hard! I can do what I can. After all, what else can I do? I won't do it when I get old. Maybe it's true that the first marriage is like a madman and the second marriage is like a fool [yeah]

The second marriage is only sour and bitter, not sweet at all. Here are some sad things about the second marriage.

1. Can't integrate into each other's lives, each has its own plans, be wary of each other and hurt each other.

2. I always feel that the other person is not worthy of my child. I always feel that I deserve each other's children, but I am still considered not good enough by the other party.

3. Compare their original match with their own.

Husband and wife are not United, their feelings are neither salty nor light, but they just live together.

The above views are only personal views, I hope to help your doubts.

I think whether it is the second marriage or the third marriage, since they have decided to be together, they should not muddle along. Life is long, and it is much easier to be happy than to be wary of each other. Come back to life. Don't embarrass yourself.

The second marriage of the elderly is more harmonious, because each other's children are married and married, and there is no conflict of interest. Two people are together just to take care of each other. But the second marriage in middle age is different, especially when one party has children, and there are many contradictions.

There is a second marriage family in our village. We have been together for almost ten years now, and our feelings are still indifferent to each other. After the man divorced, the child was taken away by his ex-wife, and the woman came with a daughter. The man didn't want to combine the two at first, perhaps because the woman was not as good-looking as her ex-wife, perhaps because she was afraid to take care of her children. I don't know. Later, considering that they were too old, they missed the next shop in this village and didn't know where it was, so they got married.

After the marriage, the woman did not let her daughter change her name to father. Now that my daughter is in college, it is chilling to call her a man "alas". My wife never cleans the house. She watches TV all day and cooks in a muddle. As soon as the summer vacation and winter vacation are over, she will take her children back to her parents' home, and once she lives, it will be a holiday. It has been several years since men scrimped and saved and built several houses. Up to now, the second roof has not been completed, because he has no money, and his wife has money but doesn't use it. The contradiction is great, and they are less and less concerned about each other.

Setbacks are inevitable in one's life. I think whether it's the first marriage or the second marriage, since we live together, we should care about each other, and Qi Xin should make concerted efforts to improve the family.

Second marriage should taste different from first marriage. Because most couples who get married for the second time have experienced emotional entanglements in the past, and they are very tired, responsible, regretful, have memories, regrets, hatred and nostalgia. Most of them get married after several years of psychological repair. From Luo Ji's analysis, both sides of the second marriage should cherish this hard-won love more, and both should want to live a good life and run a good marriage life. I think this is the basic taste of most second marriages. The above views are purely personal, welcome to discuss.

Answer truthfully: there is no comparability between the first marriage and the second marriage. The first marriage can only be said to be poor management in life, emotional problems, the other party did not know how to cherish each other's efforts, thought that the other party's efforts were appropriate, and did not know how to tolerate and tolerate, so there was a crack in the marriage, which led to the unbearable marriage breakdown of the other party.

The second marriage is actually much more complicated, which is equivalent to the integration of two families and the feelings of three families; Their own property problems, children's problems, parents' support problems, everyone's income situation, economic control problems, etc., so it is more troublesome, and the problems that do not exist in the first marriage can be reflected in the second marriage.

In short, love is hard to come by. Don't give up easily!

What's the smell of second marriage?

Hello! I am Qiao Cunxing of China Emotion, and I will analyze this question for you:

Everyone knows that the first marriage is still a vague way of love. I haven't really realized the taste of love, which leads to marital disharmony, and some cold wars, strange bedfellows.

Some have domestic violence, and the other party can't bear it.

Finally, the husband and wife flew west and east.

I'm Qiao Cunxing of China Emotion.

I hope my answer can bring you new hope.

"Taste" is a feeling, just like ups and downs, you can know what they taste. What's it like to get married for the second time? It can be discussed from the following aspects: the taste of the other person's body depends on their respective sanitary conditions. People who love hygiene may give people a refreshing feeling, otherwise, people will not feel so happy. The taste of the second marriage may also include the real housekeeping ability of the current wife compared with the ex-wife. I think, among them, the life of husband and wife may be the main content to distinguish the ex-wife from the current one. There is a saying: mistresses are more fragrant. Refers to the long-term divorce of men and women, because of the lack of emotion, so that each other's physiological needs for a short time "anemia." Therefore, the first night of such men and women's second marriage may be more violent than the wedding night, which may also belong to the "taste of second marriage"!

When it comes to divorce, the authorities feel very angry and relaxed. When it comes to remarriage, onlookers have a kind of incomprehension, hating iron and not turning into steel. How can it be so worthless! One vortex after another can't extricate itself! In fact, if you can get out of a failed marriage and enter the next one, you still have great courage. At least it is enough to prove that I am still full of expectations for marriage, and I have not stopped or left a psychological shadow because of my previous failures. No matter what the reason for ending a marriage is, whether it's leaving voluntarily or being abandoned passively, I'm afraid it's a taste in your heart when you learn that your ex has started a new life! How do men feel about their ex-wife's remarriage? Listen to these five people!

1, whoever goes can live, and so can women. It's so exclusive!

Men are the proudest. If their ex-wives get married after divorce, it will be a great blow to men. Yes, in this world, no one can't live without anyone, just a temporary psychological dependence. Everyone who leaves can live and live well. Women are no different from men. How can they be so involved? It's more terrible for a woman to be rude! Therefore, after his ex-wife remarried, the man felt very uncomfortable, hated the woman for being so rude, and realized that she was not so devoted.

Finding the next home so soon may have been a problem before!

People like to daydream, especially when faced with problems that are unfavorable to them. Many marriages come to the end because there are too many thoughts in their hearts, all of which have nothing to do with the facts. It is a blow to any man to learn that his ex-wife is married again before a relationship is handled properly! Not really. What happened? Men can't help thinking that finding their next home so soon may have been a problem before! I can't help but overturn the previous truth, many of which are unbelievable. Therefore, after his ex-wife remarries, the man will feel very uncomfortable and will suspect that his ex-wife has betrayed him before.

3, fortunately, get rid of it early, such a woman is not worth nostalgia!

Men are always blind, confident and narcissistic, only allowing themselves to dominate a woman, only allowing this woman to leave, not allowing sharing. Even after the divorce, the man still can't accept the news that she remarried. Obviously, I care about it in my heart, but I still comfort myself that I can't call anything. Fortunately, I got rid of it long ago, and there is nothing to miss. Therefore, after his ex-wife remarried, men felt very uncomfortable and even more indifferent.

4, I'm not so lucky, I can't meet anyone better than me!

Few people really realize their problems. Even after the marriage fails, they may still think there is something wrong with their other half. They are just unlucky enough to meet the right person. I always feel that I am a victim of marriage. I did a good job, and I definitely deserve my other half. I also believe that the other half can't find anyone better than themselves. Therefore, after his ex-wife remarried, the man felt very uncomfortable, and it was impossible for women to comfort themselves by meeting him better.

5, in fact, anyone is more suitable than me!

If you take a detour in your marriage, you will lose a lot of internal friction. Maybe you will face up to your own problems and your marriage, and you will realize that marriage is run by two people. If you have tried hard and haven't adjusted well, it is really because it is not suitable. Therefore, after his ex-wife remarried, the man felt very uncomfortable, but he was relieved. I believe she found someone more suitable than herself.

Conclusion: After listening to these five men's thoughts, we can see that after his ex-wife remarried, men's hearts are restless and can't have nothing to do with themselves. Some are unwilling and some are unhappy, but I hope everyone who is separated can treat each other with gratitude and blessing. After all, she has accompanied you through a journey!