I feel so tired and confused, should I get divorced?

1. Every time I think my marriage is about to end, I will think of the excitement of getting the wedding certificate that day. I will think of how hard it has been along the way. If I persevere, I can always get through it. Eight years of marriage have passed in a flash, and only I, the client, can understand the ups and downs along the way.

Back then, when I was about to hand myself over to Lin Qiang, I encountered opposition from my whole family. Marrying away from home, his family's financial situation was also poor. His parents had saved their hard-earned money for most of their lives and could barely afford him a down payment on a house. He and I had just graduated, and our lives were very tight. Marriage was one of our wishes, but our families didn't understand.

For this reason, I had an argument with my parents, and my mother was so angry that she ignored me for three days. I locked myself in the house and went on a hunger strike! In the end, I fainted due to low blood sugar, which frightened my parents and compromised my marriage.

Although Lin Qiang's family conditions are not good, he still has to leave as usual. In order to give me an unforgettable wedding, he, who is tone-deaf, practiced love songs for a month. On the wedding day, he sang a soulful song for me that was so touching that everyone present could not help but burst into tears

2. After we got married, we had a simple honeymoon and our little life was going very well. We were inseparable, no matter where we went, we were always together. Later, I became pregnant and was waiting for delivery at home, while Lin Qiang started his career alone. He is very hard-working and down-to-earth. Every time he pays his salary, he will give it to me and let me take care of it. He said that his wife is just for pampering and he wants me and my children to live a stable life. I am very happy.

If the plot continues like this, Lin Qiang and I should have a good life, but it backfired. After the passion and novelty of marriage receded, life gradually returned to dullness, and the friction between us slowly emerged.

In the fifth year of marriage, I felt that I couldn’t hold on anymore. We would be in a cold war for a week over trivial things. He didn't tell me his whereabouts when he was on a business trip, and I was stubborn not to make a phone call to inquire. The conflicts accumulated little by little, and we had fierce quarrels from time to time.

In five years, more than 1,800 days and nights, more than half of us were arguing. Every time when I felt wronged and received a call from my parents, I would force myself to smile and tell them that my life was going well, so as not to worry them in the distance.

I don’t know why marriages are like this. Other couples are becoming more and more affectionate, but we are becoming more and more indifferent. When we quarrel, we are no different from enemies. What’s more terrible is the vicious language. I spit it out of my mouth without feeling relieved.

3. The seventh year of marriage may be the time of what people call the seven-year itch. That night, I accidentally saw him chatting with a strange woman. For some reason, I was not sad. I felt relieved, as if I finally had a reason to file for divorce.

I talked to him calmly that night, and he answered all my questions calmly. Our decision was unanimous: divorce, half of the property and half of the property belong to me.

After that, I went to my daughter’s bedroom to sleep. I stayed up all night in a daze until dawn. At dawn, Lin Qiang was not there, so I sent my daughter to her parents-in-law and took the bag. The Civil Affairs Bureau called him. Half an hour later, he came.

When he arrived at the Civil Affairs Bureau, he stared blankly at the wedding window. I vaguely saw tears filling his eyes. My throat was sore and I was crying silently. He saw this and pulled me aside, whispering: Why can't we have a good life? Why are we arguing? Is it easy to get to this point?

I moved my lips but couldn't say a word. He pulled me back. My feet didn't obey me at all and I followed him towards the door...

4. After what happened that day, he changed a lot. He took the initiative to help me with housework, took my children to play when he had time, became more patient with me, and became more and more family-oriented. None of us mentioned the divorce, as if it was just a dream.

I am glad that we stopped each other at the moment of divorce. People are like this. If you don't experience separation, you won't know how to cherish it at all. People say that life and death can only depend on a thought, and I feel that the survival of a marriage can also depend on a thought.

The calm after the storm makes my heart warm. A year has passed, and we have gradually forgotten those small stains in the past, and they seem so insignificant.

Sometimes when I see him interacting with his children, I feel that the greatest happiness is when a family is together.

Life is to be faced with a smile. When there is disharmony in your marriage, you don’t want to give up first. There are many beautiful things in life. Think back to the joy of getting married and those trivial things. It's really not that important. Life is long, cherish your feelings and don't have any regrets. Love is so tired and confused.

1. The grandeur fades away in an instant, and the bustle is another name for a short life. In the glorious days, life is cast with a charming mark.

2. I hope that one day, you will give your sincerity, but you will be abandoned like a shoe by others. You will be separated from you because of love, and you will be confused and crazy because of not getting what you want, and your body and mind will be riddled with holes.

3. In the beginning, it was the apricot blossoms blowing all over the head in spring, who was young and romantic.

4. It turns out that meeting you is not a coincidence. There are people waiting for you at every corner. If you don’t use this method, they will meet you in another way.

5. We can only survive while losing.

6. Even if it is severely trampled by the iron hoof of fate, it still stubbornly grows its own roots.

7. Extreme wisdom will lead to injury, deep love will lead to longevity, extreme strength will lead to humiliation, a humble gentleman will be as gentle as jade.

8. As time goes by, the sadness that should only be tolerated by one person at first gradually transforms into a more widespread desolation: mountains of bones and forgotten surnames. Nothing more than a young man and Hongzhuang.

9. Heaven and earth are furnaces, and all living things in the world are suffering.

10. All love can be cut off, as long as you are desperate enough.

11. All unfairness in this world is due to the lack of ability of the parties involved.

12. My life and death, my love and hate, are all my own choices. I have no regrets or pain. This is the path I chose. I don’t need pity or wavering. I am also alive and I am dead. I am happy when I win, and I am calm when I lose.

13. But it seems that you have chosen both sides, but in fact you have given up on both sides. Sometimes you have to give up one side in order to protect important things. This kind of performance is not gentleness, but weakness. She does not have the strength to give up, and she does not have the consciousness to give up.

14. Loneliness is not a temperament, but a helplessness.

15. The star is setting and the moon is shining, my home is far away, when will the plum blossoms fall and send me home.

16. If time does not grow old, I would like to be with you.

17. But there is one person who cannot bear to see her. That was her magic star. She took off her battle armor for him, put on a bright red wedding dress, and spent a lifetime of tenderness to marry him all the way, but he didn't want her.

18. Since we are destined to meet each other in this life, you and I will meet for a hundred years. If someone dies at the age of ninety-seven, he will have to wait on the bridge for three years.

19. Holding an umbrella and falling red like rain, the youth of a lifetime appears.

20. Emotions that can be vented through tears are not emotions, and there are no other better ways to relieve them with tears.

21. Over the years, every time she said to let go, he said not to let go, but when he really let go that day, she felt more pain than anything else.

22. I am looking for hope in this world, but I have never been able to find it; so I can only find despair in another world.

23. I don’t know who said that happiness takes so many roads, takes so long, and makes so many efforts. To destroy it, you only need to take one step, in an instant, without any effort.

24. There is no absolute good and evil in the world. The only difference lies in the strong and the weak who cannot distinguish the facts.

25. Pairing flowers with wine, falling plum blossoms turn into sorrow, and the water in the ten-mile long pavilion is long.

26. I thought you just didn’t know how to love others, but it turns out you just don’t know how to love me.

27. As for what will happen in the future, you have to work hard to know.

28. A long time ago, I thought that if I had a sweetheart, I would play all my joy and happiness to him, and cry all my sadness and sadness to him.

29. If love and hate become beliefs, they will lose their meaning.

Belief is fascinating. When black flowers bloom in the heart, and those tangled flower bulbs block all light, that is the end. Such people will destroy themselves.

30. Even if it is a prosperous joy, it cannot guarantee the desolation after the banquet is over.

31. The process of growth is actually the process of continuous collapse and reconstruction of the worldview.

32. Either become stronger and change everything, or stay the victim.

33. There is no betrayal based on blood that can be forgiven, and there is no betrayal based on love that is worth worrying about. Sentences about feeling so tired and confused

1. The candlelight flickers, and your melancholy smiling face is reflected in the wine glass. I dare not look closer, dare not drink, and dare not destroy this illusion. After all, the flash in front of you is just a moment. Your smile is reduced to a glass of cold wine, but it burns my fragile heartstrings.

2. At that time, I still laughed at your pretentiousness. If I had known that you would be separated from me by an ocean from now on, how much I should blame myself. Why didn’t I keep more memories at the beginning? It’s only today that I realized that I didn’t miss you enough. , not enough flowers.

3. The song ends with a few lines that make people cry. Ten years of hard pursuit turned out to be like this. Maybe I shouldn't be persistent, but I can't let go or forget. Since then, I have been drunk for many years, wandering around in romantic places, with many rouges and sorrows, many lives of fireworks and many lives of sorrow, and have caused many love turmoils.

4. I remember the first time I saw those white petals, they were like clouds condensed with water. I felt pity for them, so I carefully rejoiced and put them in the most thoughtful page of ink. The fragrance of flowers was accompanied by the fragrance of books. , you will get the idea after opening the book. How come they all lost their original color by accident? Time is vast, and those clouds and waters of great love and joy have all become thinner and changed

5. Being single does not mean that no one likes or wants it, it is just that they are not willing to do it for that person. To pick the flowers waving to them on the roadside, unwilling to end their singleness with love that is not true love. They have been working hard and struggling. They don’t care whether others know or understand. They just want to rely on themselves. Go to the destination with dedication, and then pluck the flower of true love that has been blooming in your heart.

6. Late at night, I always seem to be a little lost and my thoughts are always a little wandering. Opening the window, there are neon lights all the way in the distance. There is no moon tonight. If you stretch out your hand, you can only touch the thin breeze. The surroundings were eerily quiet, and the light illuminated the buds in the green belt, creating a bright green light. Without the noise of summer insects and the roar of cars, the night in the city is slightly sad. In this way, the night is lonely for me, and I am lonely for your longing.

7. For you, this is just a temporary game, a temporary loneliness, and a temporary loneliness; that is why you found me to relieve your loneliness, relieve your sorrow, and relieve your tension. It's just a way of life, but you never think about how the person you cruelly abandoned after playing with him will become, how missed he will be, and how haggard he will become.

8. When you are incompatible with the entire environment but can’t find anyone to talk to, even if you are with a group of people and watch others laugh, but you are not happy at all, this should be the deepest loneliness. . The correct version of this sentence should be: When there is nothing in the world for you to envy, nothing worth possessing and living up to, and no one cares about your cry and you are too lazy to talk about your pain, this is the deepest loneliness.

9. This world is inherently painful, and happiness is short-lived. Sometimes you have to believe in fate. Since you can't let go, don't let her go deliberately. Keep her in your heart. It is also a blessing to meet someone who makes you unable to let go. Some people live their whole lives without meeting anyone who can make them fall in love. Time heals everything, and I believe happiness will be waiting for you in the near future.

10. In a trance, the swimming leaves were stained with frost marks without knowing when. They looked pale and miserable and kept whimpering. The shining light seemed to miss the green color. The waves, as lush as the sea, reveal a trembling posture with every gust of wind. The sound vaguely reminds me of my thoughts, and is full of the flavor of time and space. They have traveled through the space that has been visited countless times. When thinking about the world there will always be situations different from here.

11. People look at the autumn that is about to go away. Faced with all kinds of confusion and all kinds of resentment, no one is willing to give up that touch of hope, but no one understands that for the sake of things outside the body, burning Is life worth it?

12. In this life, the loneliest thing is not meeting each other. Met, still lonely. The flowers have bloomed, and I have survived another year. Lonely people always remember everyone in their lives, just like I always think of you! What is not mine is not mine after all. I am your passer-by after all. When you truly love something, you will find how fragile and powerless language is.

13. If I still miss you in the future, it won’t be as painful as it is today. Tonight, let me talk to loneliness again, let me pour out the bitterness in my heart to the deep night. Write my love on the petals of the snowflakes.

14. Missing someone does not require words, but it requires a lot of courage. When you are walking on the road, watching the bustling crowds and savoring the loneliness alone; when you sit quietly in a corner and silently feel the melancholy in your heart, missing you is like a breeze accompanying you like a shadow. You will realize how lonely it will be to miss someone, how heartbreaking it will be to miss someone, and how cold the night will be when you miss someone. Missing someone may sometimes put a smile on your face, but your heart will cry.

15. Unable to understand the common people, unable to penetrate the mortal world, and spend the rest of your life with pain. Time belongs to time, but time cannot weather the emotional pain. A cup of hot tea is full of vicissitudes of life and muddy with many people and things. After experiencing it, I found that it has become an indelible feeling.

16. If there is a miracle, why would I have been born so many years earlier, wasting my time in inaction, and lonely watching the world go on forever? If there was no romance, why did meeting him again make me always have a pair of longing eyes and envy others' eternity with great interest? Is the end of the world really far away?

17. The best thing is that after time passes, the old people, old things and even the old feelings you cherish are still there; things that can last must have weight and must withstand time. Wash and wash repeatedly. Going round and round in the turbulent life, those few people are always by your side, and the original thoughts buried in your heart are still the same. It is a rare blessing.

18. No matter how wonderful yesterday was, it will eventually be condensed into today’s memories. No matter how helpless we are, we can’t stop the hurried pace of time; no matter how wonderful today is, it will be pieced together into tomorrow’s history. No matter how persistent we are, we can’t stop it. Can't resist the erosion of time. We miss yesterday because it melts all the beautiful yearnings. However, the past has been fixed, so let’s dust it off. Only by working hard to write today can the memories of tomorrow be beautiful and regretless!

19. Some of our stories do not necessarily need to be told to everyone; some sadness may not be understood by everyone; some wounds will slowly grow over time; some grievances must be endured. Once you figure it out, you feel relieved; for some pain, you have to endure the pain for a long time and become a habit; for some words hidden deep in your heart, you don’t want to say them, so there is no need to say them. In fact, not all pain can be shouted out; not all love can be expressed.

20. At that moment, the drizzle moistened my eyes. At that glance, I couldn't bear to let the rain stop, quietly breathing in the breath of rain, looking at the figure on the other side, letting the wind and rain blow on my cheeks, watching the swaying cogongrass in my eyes, filled with thousands of charms and thoughts. Just that sentence, you come to my arms, or let me live in your heart, has become an eternal memory in the wind, echoing over the vast swaying lakeside. Only the wind has retained that memory, and only the wind understands the meaning of this feeling. How deep.

21. You and I are also in love, but we are not holding hands and growing old together. On the contrary, after you and I turn around, we are content with the passing of time and still get used to looking up at the sky. The clouds will always put together a sentence: Alluring love is left at the end of the world. The most tenderness of bowing my head was also the shedding of tears. I understood, and said softly: Alluring love is left at the end of the world.

Twenty-two, the shallow years are hard-won, life is short, learn to cherish it, and feel sorry for the time that was wasted due to stubbornness. Now, when I have relieved myself of all the fatigue and can move forward with ease, I can appreciate the charm of tranquility. I deeply understand that those glitz, fame and fortune are not suitable to be wrapped around my body as a halo, and those false disguises are completely unable to be integrated into the depths of my heart and are regarded as a burden.

23. Sometimes I feel sad not because of what I have done, but because I find that I can’t do anything; sometimes I am at a loss not because I have no choice, but because I find that there are too many choices. ; Sometimes the reason why you laugh loudly is not because you are extremely happy, but because you find that you can't cry. Sometimes I go to Weibo not because I want to talk, but because I find no one to talk to.

24. Inexplicable sadness lingers in my heart again. The night is still so mysterious and deep; people, in the darkness, look particularly pale and weak. The unknown melody sounded in my ears again: Do I really have nothing? Where will I park tomorrow? The leaves are speechless, and the west wind rises again, spreading loneliness and sadness all over the place. Hear this, don’t think about returning home.

25. Separation seems to be an eternal law. No one can be with anyone forever and never be separated. Although I understand this truth, on the day of separation, I still cannot accept this reality. Sadness is no longer enough to describe the mood at that moment.

26. Every time I go home, I read the letters you wrote to me. Read it carefully and feel the way you hold the pen and the way you frown. Every sentence and every word is the most complete version of you at that time. I don’t know where you are today, I guess you are a pen pal. My mother asked: Do you still keep these letters now that they are useless? In fact, many things are useless now, and they are kept for only one purpose. A good person like you once took me so seriously. Talk about feeling so tired and confused

1. Losing someone is just a hard process that life has arranged for me. We will always learn to see the most beautiful scenery in the deepest despair. Although I may be lonely from now on, I believe it doesn't matter, because I have long been accustomed to using false smiles to cover up the real sadness in my heart.

2. If you feel wronged, if you can’t feel the light in front of you, try to become the light you want.

3. Life is also a process of gains and losses, encounters and misses, cherishing and possessing. The vast sea of ????people meet, and warmth is passed on to each other. If we are close friends, those gentle words will bring invisible strength and help to each other, and bring comfort and happiness to the soul. This kind of fate is beautiful and eternal. Destiny is a wonderful thing that can be met but cannot be sought. It is never too late to meet it. Every moment of small touch will moisturize the heart and cleanse the soul.

4. My special concern was rewarded with access restrictions. In the past few years, I have laughed, I have cried, I have been afraid, I have endured, and in the end I understand and I have changed

5. I wish we had never met, then I would still be the same as before Instead of having an empty body and no soul now, I would occasionally dream and go crazy with my friends. I don’t want to be too sentimental about everything, I just feel uncontrollably frustrated.

6. Look at life happily, be more magnanimous and have a far-sighted vision. Whether it is cold or hot, destiny does not necessarily have to go smoothly, and there is no need to care about what you get, and there is no need to be sad about what you have lost. , the self-improvement of the soul is the perfection of happiness.

7. The weather is just like a woman, fickle, and the weather forecast is just like a man, unreliable.

8. Perhaps for life, acceptance is the best tenderness. Whether it is accepting the appearance of a person, or accepting the never seeing of a person again. Qiu Wei

9. Every choice has a different ending, just like taking different roads will lead to different scenery. Therefore, if you want to see the splendid scenery, you might as well think for a while before making a choice.

10. People say that there is no true love in the world. I don’t believe it. Look at this willow silk and water, water and duckweed. Are they more emotional and more understanding than us humans? love? Flowers bloom all over the tree, silently, white and red, disturbing the heart and confusing the eyes, and yellow and purple, intertwined at the edge of deep and light, dotted with green and green leaves, adding countless spring colors , brought many highlights.

11. Those who promise to accompany you throughout their lives are always lost.

12. The most helpless thing is now, with no future in sight and no way out. Sometimes, the person who smiles is feeling uncomfortable in the most beautiful way.

13. If there are many days when we are drowned in the crowd and live a mediocre life, it is because we strive to live richly.

14. Loneliness will never destroy a person. Only putting your head into a circle that is not suitable for you and pretending that you are not lonely will destroy a person.

15. How many people’s reputations are ruined by good friends. The reason for our estrangement is probably that you weren't there when I needed you.

16. No one cares how you cry in the middle of the night, and no one cares how many autumns you have tossing and turning. Outsiders only look at the results, and you have to support the process alone. When we all understand this truth, we will no longer be pretentious in front of others and talk around to seek comfort.

17. When winter comes, we feel the cold; when the grass is green, we enjoy the greenness; when the cicadas chirp, we listen to the sound; when the leaves turn yellow, we savor the autumn mood. ;In winter, we enjoy the snow scenery. When the love is strong, it becomes passionate love; when it is hurt, it is forgotten about the past. There are many changes in this world, so just enjoy life with the changes. Day by day, year by year, they will all dissipate in the end.

18. I am confused. Some boys don't even know what a girl's personality is like, what her character is like, what she likes and what she hates. I dare to say that I like someone just based on a photo. Is this called liking someone? No, this is called grocery shopping.

19. What’s yours is yours. The tighter you hold on, the easier it is to lose. We worked hard, cherished it, and had a clear conscience. The rest, leave it to fate.

In late winter, a ray of sunshine gives the years a touch of cool vicissitudes. The sky is high, the wings of the wind are caressing the injured shadow, and there is nowhere to hide. In this bustling night, old! Life is in a hurry, and I am afraid of being found in reincarnation. We have already met again in this life, and there are tears hidden in my eyebrows.

21. You have to remember that no matter how estranged we become in the end, a red envelope can bring us back to the beginning.

22. Whatever we choose, we must pay accordingly, and whatever we get, we must be willing to give up.

23. I don’t know how you faded out of my world. It’s probably because you didn’t reply every time I sent a message, and you pretended to be busy every time I called you. Or maybe I am excited to send you a dozen lines of chat content, and you just reply to me.

24. Don’t take a person too seriously, because you may be nothing in that person’s heart.

25. If I had been brave, would the outcome have been different? If you had persisted, would the memories have been different? Sometimes, a person's disappearance leaves a world alone.

26. It’s not about aiming too high or trying to compromise, but it’s just the right person at the right time. Such opportunities seem to be few and far between. Because the emotion itself has to go through many people and many things, it becomes less pure. So until he comes, happiness will not come.

27. Not being willing to be friends, not daring to be lovers, this is the farthest distance in the world.

28. You don’t fall in love, study hard, play games, watch TV, and have no friends to talk to you. Why do you still go to bed so late every day? Why? Why?