A woman’s first half of life

? I have wanted to write about myself a long time ago, but I have never picked up the pen. The main reason is that I have little talent and limited knowledge, and I am afraid that I will not be able to write well. Recently, I have figured out that there is no need to write too much. Well, the key is to be able to write and be easy to understand.

I was born in Deng Xiaoping’s hometown, a small village called Hualong Township in Guang’an District, Guang’an City, Sichuan Province. My father married my 19-year-old mother when he was 27 years old. I was born at that time. According to my mother, she was only 19 years old and knew nothing about life at that time and suffered a lot. After graduating from high school, my father became a teacher in a village primary school. My father was very motivated. At that time, , if you want to get ahead, you really can only rely on your own hard work, diligence, and hard work. In one year, my father finally passed the Normal College through unremitting efforts. My mother was only 21 years old at that time, and I was still in my infancy. , my father was about to board a passenger ship to study in a distant place, leaving my mother and I to live a difficult life alone. When my father was not at home, my grandparents treated my mother and me very badly. They bullied us in every possible way. First, they wanted to follow We split up the family and were given very little food and land. My mother was young at the time and lived a strong life with an indomitable spirit. At that time, my grandparents really gave us a lot of support and help, such as giving us We provide seeds, fertilizers, and teach my mother how to raise pigs, chickens, and ducks. Anyway, my mother is really good at farm work, so everything goes relatively smoothly. It’s precisely because she has to do so many things that she often has no time to take care of me. When I was one or two years old, I often went to eat at other people's houses. At that time, every family was not rich, and in fact, there was nothing to eat. I probably just ate porridge, sweet potatoes, and pickles. Having said that, let me talk about my grandparents. I am his granddaughter after all. For some reason, they never gave me food to eat. Even if they wandered around under their table during meal time, they could do it. They were so cruel that they refused to give me a bite of food, which was worse than my neighbors on the hillside, my mother-in-law and my ancestors. It was the malnutrition at that time that made me very weak now, and I am prone to catching colds at every turn. My mother said that I was very sensible when I was a child. I knew how hard my mother was working, and she didn’t say a word even if I wanted her to be by my side. My mother was also very good at raising pigs, chickens, and ducks, and the money I earned from selling them was sent to my father for living expenses. Our family was okay. I had a little extra, so my mother often bought me some candies. The candies at that time were so delicious. Four years have passed in the blink of an eye. One day, the uncle next door came to my grandparents’ house to play. I happened to be there, too, and there was Yao Dad’s daughter. Let’s talk about Yao Dad’s daughter. Yao Dad is my dad’s younger brother, who preceded my dad. After graduation, I worked in the Huaying City Labor Bureau and married a woman from Guang'an City. At that time, the whole family was from the city. My grandparents doted on her daughter to the heavens. She is also a granddaughter. It is not a point to treat her differently. Let’s be clear, the reason is very simple, our family is poor and from the countryside. I just said that my uncle would come to play, so he took us out for a walk. There is an abandoned coal kiln next to my house. It is empty in the middle and has so many bricks stacked on both sides that the floor is as high as 5 floors. Grandpa and grandma specially explained it My brother-in-law wanted to hold my sister, so he didn't look after me. Just like that, I accidentally fell from such a high place... Until now, I can feel everything but can't cry, brother-in-law. He took me out and threw me aside. My face and head were covered with blood. I was really lucky. Except for a few pieces of charcoal in my head, nothing else was hurt. In this way, my mother realized that she was usually neglectful to me. The management almost made a big mistake, and then he took me on a boat to the place where my father studied. It was my first time in the city, and everything felt so new. After staying like this for a month, my father graduated and was assigned to teach junior high school in Qianqian Township, Guang'an. My mother was still working at home, but the difference was that the two of them had their own careers.