I went to the hospital to see my colleague's children at work, and the children were hospitalized. Colleagues really said they couldn't go on the grounds of busy work. How should I answer her?

It is your heart and your affection that you go to see your colleagues' children. If you do it, you will have a clear conscience. As for what others do, it's someone else's business. Everyone has his own world outlook and moral outlook. You shouldn't think that everyone needs to measure everything by fairness. There has never been a word fair in this world. What you do is what you want to do, and others don't force you. The only thing you can feel gratified is inner peace. There is no need to kidnap a person with morality, and you don't have to say anything or answer her, because after all, you just don't want to spend money.