How to face other people's accusations?

Life is never smooth sailing. On the road of life, everyone will be accused and questioned by others. Many people will lose confidence, and some people will be angry about it. In fact, the best way to respond to them is to make yourself happy!

No one is perfect, and we can't satisfy anyone, so many times, we don't have to care too much about other people's opinions. As long as we are innocent, we will be innocent of this beautiful world.

When you are accused by others, it may be the most favorable way to solve the problem by finding a way to repay evil with good.

Shakespeare said, "Always forgive your enemies. Nothing can make them angry. "

When others may accuse you of misunderstanding, the more you defend yourself, the more you will make others angry and think you are an irresponsible and shirking responsibility. If we accept each other's criticism with an open mind, keep a normal heart and be still full of goodwill towards each other, even if the misunderstanding still exists, he is likely to have a good impression on you and accept forgiveness.

When the misunderstanding is eliminated, the other party will feel guilty for their actions and admire you. You will have a supreme position in each other's hearts, and your tolerance will make people feel warm. But if you persist in a stubborn, tough or even unreasonable attitude, the outcome may become unmanageable.

My friend Xiao Zhang is an ordinary employee of a company. She told me something about her, which deeply touched me.

On this day, she took the subway to work as usual, because just sitting in the last position, she was condemned by a woman next to her, thinking that her friend passed behind her and deliberately grabbed her position. Her friend casually said "first, then", which aroused the woman's anger. She started chattering, and her friend argued with her, trying to convince people by reasoning and calm them down, but she didn't expect that the woman had gone crazy and talked.

I was deeply moved by her experience. This woman is unreasonable, but she is still strong. Even in the face of absolute truth, some people will not give in, let alone those who misunderstand you. What they care more about is not right or wrong, but often the attitude of others and their own feelings, so don't try to convince others by reasoning, which will only make the ending counterproductive.

Psychology points out that when a person scolds you in public, you just need to look at him and don't give any response. In less than a minute, he will be ashamed of his behavior and even apologize to you. This is because he feels your tolerance, which is enough to make him feel guilty about your attitude. Even if he doesn't appreciate you, he will never be hostile to you again.

And if the other party accuses us every time, we will fight back. Even if they are unreasonable, there will be no shame in their hearts, but they will be more hostile to you. Conflicts will become more and more serious, and may eventually threaten their own security.

Whenever there is a conflict with strangers or friends, disputes and conflicts will never solve the problem. If neither side is willing to compromise in advance, the conflict will never be resolved. Even if you are right, give each other a friendly attitude. If you are unreasonable, you will argue for right and wrong. In the end, you will only win the truth, but you will lose the hearts of the people.

And our compromise is not because of fear, but because of our heartfelt kindness and compassion for each other. We don't want to upset others because of ourselves, and we don't want to affect ourselves because of quarrels.

When we are despised and questioned by others, we should also keep ourselves positive and happy!

When you are questioned by others, you should be confident enough. Confidence makes people happy, and the happier we are! Those who despise us will be more disappointed, which is the best revenge for them.

As long as I can remember, I clearly remember menstruation's suppression of me. When she was a child, because her family was poor, she would not have any future in her eyes. She often makes sarcastic remarks. At that time, her heart began to reject her very much, even full of disgust, and gradually became introverted and inferior, unwilling to communicate with others.

Later, I found that the more depressed I was, the more I achieved her goal. When I watch myself depressed, menstruation will use an affirmative sentence: "I knew this child would definitely have no future." "

I tried to make myself sunny, positive and confident, but I found that her attitude towards me changed greatly, and her tone changed from sarcasm and meanness at first to gentleness and encouragement.

When I grow up, I stop saying things that she didn't seem to want to say in the past. I just realized that even cold-blooded and despicable people will feel guilty and uneasy about their actions.

Now, I still have full respect for her, because I know that everyone I meet on the road of life, whether good or bad, makes us grow. Thanks to those who are full of accusations and doubts about us. Their existence gives us positive motivation, but why should their anger affect our mood? Whenever and wherever, a happy life is the best response to these people.