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What did you experience in the first year after giving birth?
This question is more suitable for me to answer. Baby 17 months old, just one year old, I will strike while the iron is hot and talk about my experiences and feelings with my baby. First of all, it can be described in several words: tired, confused, anxious, collapsed, adapted, enjoying the growth of children, self-growth, in short, tired and happy.
Take care of the baby full-time and witness the baby's growth: I lost my job and cut off direct contact with the outside world. I face my baby 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. The books I read, WeChat group and WeChat official account are also parenting. Even if someone helps to look after the baby, it doesn't take more than half a day, and I don't know what the weekend is. I am very tired, but I can also enjoy the baby's happy smiling face and witness her growth.
Eating problem: when I was a child, I could put her on the bed and sofa, surrounded by things, and I cooked in the kitchen. It will be more dangerous if she can climb, so I put her in the cart and put the cart at the door of the kitchen for her to watch me cook. But later, I was able to get out of the car, so I put the cooking in my arms. After I left, she played in the house. I cooked in the kitchen for a while and then went to see her. Sometimes I just let her play in the kitchen. Knowing the danger, I just prepare the dishes for the next day the night before. It will save a lot of time to heat them when eating.
Lack of sleep: one year in a three-year baby's brain, I must have heard of it. It actually makes sense. A big reason is related to lack of sleep. If the baby doesn't sleep, the mother can't sleep. If the baby does sleep, the mother may not sleep. When the baby wakes up at night, the mother is on call. What is a good night's sleep? I have hardly experienced it. Except, of course, the angel baby who slept all night.
Sick troubles: don't get sick when you are sick, and you will truly realize that this sentence is true when you are sick! When the baby is sick, the whole family is anxious, and the most tired is the mother. When the baby is sick, he usually only looks for his mother and even sleeps at night. Moreover, the baby can't express his discomfort in words at this time, but can only express it in the form of crying, so at this time, the mother will be more anxious and can't wait to get sick.
Worried about the future job: It is said that stay-at-home mothers are the greatest. I'm glad to be with my baby when she grows up healthily, but I'm always reluctant to be a little enterprising, and I'm always entangled between "the baby has to take care of himself" and "work". In fact, it is useless to struggle. Instead of obsessing, it is better to accept the reality, enrich yourself while taking care of the baby, and connect parenting with future work to prepare for the future. I also know that my time is rarely fragmented, but the process of taking care of my baby is also a self-discipline process, learning emotional management and time management. None of us are perfect. Let's do our best.
Eva is 6 years old, but it seems like yesterday when she was born. When is the hardest time to take care of the baby? This is the first year! Tell me about the hurdle I experienced that year.
The first obstacle: Confucius said
I cut my body in the right direction. When I was exhausted, I found that my baby was short of oxygen, and I got a knife when I came to the door. So I am very weak after delivery, night sweats, insomnia and dreaminess ... I really don't know what it's like to have a good sleep for a whole month, and I have had mastitis once in the middle, which is really worse.
The second hurdle: the baby is sick.
I am a working mother, and I will go back to work after four months of maternity leave. Although the baby can continue to breastfeed through breast milk, he was still sick when he was just seven months old. For the first time, she experienced a high fever, a cough, an injection, and a needle stuck in her body, which hurt her mother's heart.
The third level: weaning
It is not easy to wean a suckling baby. It took three nights to wean the baby at that time. My mother-in-law took the baby to sleep by the bed, and I slept at the end of the bed. The baby had no milk to eat and cried. I felt sorry for the child and cried.
Although the process of taking care of the baby is very difficult, when the baby shows the first smile, calls out the first "mom" and takes the first step steadily ... no matter how many troubles disappear. The process of raising a baby is painful and happy, don't you think?
Xiaoxi's son is 4 years old now. Since the son went to kindergarten, the husband began to have the idea of having a second child. When pregnant, my husband especially wants to have a daughter. Xiaoxi has been taking care of her son wholeheartedly in recent years, and her husband has never mentioned a second child. Seeing that his son had completely adapted to school life, the husband began to lobby relatives and friends and made every effort to get Xiaoxi to agree to have a second child, but Xiaoxi never let go because she is back now. When is the hardest time to take care of children? That must be the first year! Look at what little Xi went through that year.
The first obstacle: confinement
Small west cut very smooth, that is, a whole set. She has always insisted on her own production, and the trial production went smoothly. But because Xiaoxi didn't eat much three days before giving birth, she couldn't make any effort in the second half. Just when her physical strength was running out, she found that the baby was short of oxygen, and she got a knife. In the first week after delivery, Xiaoxi almost lost half her life and couldn't sleep all night. Anyway, the accelerant didn't. Hearing the baby's crying, her heart seemed to be cut by a knife. Later, she forced the milk out and got mastitis, which really made matters worse.
The second hurdle: the baby is sick.
After the baby was born, it was a little jaundice. Xiaoxi is too worried to sleep every day. Later, the results of the review were normal, which made her feel a little relieved. The baby suddenly had a fever of 40 degrees when he was more than 6 months old. Injection and medicine didn't work, and he still had diarrhea. He looks at the baby listlessly every day, and Xiaoxi is particularly uncomfortable. Finally, he went to several hospitals and found that the baby had an acute rash. After the fever had gone down, he was covered with papules. It was hot at that time, and he dared not turn on the air conditioner and blow the fan every day. Later, the baby recovered and Xiaoxi broke out all over.
The third level: weaning
Because Xiaoxi is a working mother, she took maternity leave for 4 months, and then she will go to work in the company. When the baby was about one year old, Xiaoxi decided to wean him, but it was not easy to wean an overweight baby with milk addiction. She tried to apply cool oil and Chili oil, and it took her three nights to succeed. Xiaoxi gave the baby to her mother-in-law at night, and she felt uncomfortable herself. She was distressed to hear that the baby was crying without milk in the middle of the night.
Therefore, Xiaoxi doesn't want to go through this process anyway. Now that I hear my son call himself "mom" sweetly, Xiaoxi feels that no matter how much suffering has vanished, the process of raising a baby is so painful and happy. What did you say?/Sorry?
The first year after giving birth to a child is really full of ups and downs, and only oneself can understand all kinds of sadness.
In fact, I was quite happy four months before I was born, and my wife always took care of me. Basically didn't let me get started. Mother-in-law will help eat and wash clothes. Actually, my mother-in-law is really good at this. So it's not that difficult when you're confinement. What's really hard is the following:
Four months later, my mother-in-law told her that I went to work; At the same time, my husband went to other places because of his job transfer. Go home once a week.
At this time, the problem came. My son was often ill and uncomfortable for a while. As a result, I went to work during the day and took care of my children at night, so I had no energy at work. I often stay up late at night and continue to work the next day. I discussed with my husband, forget it, I'd better go home and take care of the children wholeheartedly. In this way, after working for two months, I went home to take care of the children. My child is six months old now.
At the turn of spring and summer, my children are particularly difficult to take, and they don't sleep without holding hands. I often stay up at night for no reason. Calcium deficiency, fright, anyway, everything is asked, often the same. In the meantime, I have to be with him.
I really dare to ask myself why I have to abuse myself after giving birth to a child! ! !
Bauer just 1 year-old, and she experienced a lot in the first year after giving birth. To sum up, let's say a few things:
The test of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
Many mothers choose to be taken care of by their mother-in-law to help look after their children after giving birth. Being under the same roof, different living habits, different lifestyles and different parenting concepts will inevitably produce a spark of disharmony.
This test is especially serious in the first month. The first month is the weakest time for the pregnant women, and it is also the most tired and busy time. It is easy to get postpartum depression, and there will be various problems if you don't get along well with your mother-in-law.
I encountered similar problems at that time, such as the following:
1, I finally fed my child and was about to go into deep sleep. As a result, my mother-in-law steamed the apples and brought them to my room. I could only wake up in pain. I really don't want to mention that kind of distress.
When the child is crying, my mother-in-law often says that I don't have enough milk. It's really getting insufficient, so I have to work hard to catch milk in the future.
Mother-in-law insisted on giving the child a flat head. When you left, she secretly clamped the baby's head with a pillow, which was speechless.
Later, after constant running-in adjustment, peace was finally achieved. Children 1 year-old, rarely blush.
Anxiety of insufficient breast milk
I believe that many mothers have also encountered the problem of breastfeeding, and some children eat too much, which is easy to increase milk. Some breast milk is too little, and children are always not long enough to feed for a long time.
After I gave birth to my second child, I fell into the dilemma of insufficient breast milk. I had to start a three-month pursuit of milk. Fortunately, after three months of hard work, I finally succeeded in pursuing milk, and milk powder and I never had a chance again.
The trouble of lack of sleep
The baby's sleep cycle is gradually extended, almost every hour or two from breastfeeding, and at night. You can't sleep for three or four hours at a time until three or four months. It takes an hour to get up and nurse every time, which leads to serious sleep shortage.
Many mothers say that breastfeeding mothers are hung by a mouthful of fairy gas, which is really the case. Looking back, it's hard to imagine how they came here.
The troubles of a child's illness
In the first year, you will inevitably encounter children's illness, jaundice, eczema, cold, fever, cough, runny nose, rash and so on. Whether it is a novice mother or a second-born mother, it is inevitable that they will be at a loss when facing children.
My second treasure's jaundice is very serious. I really want to take him to the medicine bath to see Chinese medicine to see him cry and suffer for him. I fell ill for the first time in five months, accompanied by a cough. It's really annoying that I can't spit at such a young age.
The joy of children's growth
Of course, the change of children this year is also the biggest. Laughing, turning over, sitting, climbing, standing, walking and talking will give you great surprises and a sense of accomplishment every day.
The experience of this year can be summed up as "painful and happy".
What did you experience in the first year after giving birth? Let's talk together!
The child is now more than three years old, and the things he has experienced in recent years are played in his mind like a movie.
Yue Yue invited in the second month started to take care of the children from the second month, during which her mother came to help for half a month, and then she took care of the children and her mother-in-law cooked. Actually, it's not that hard. Children have always been very good, can eat and sleep.
It happened to be winter when she was half a year old. She was ill and coughed badly, and then she often took her to the hospital in the middle of the night. The most painful thing is that the six-month maternity leave will soon be over, and I want to return to work. Grandma takes care of the children. I go home as soon as I get off work every day. Grandma can't eat with the baby for a day. I have to cook and then take care of her children.
Every time I go to work, my baby cries so much that I can't wait to go to work at once many times. But I can't. I've always wanted to stick to it.
Later, because of one thing, I decided to be a full-time mother. One day when my child was one year old and more than three months old, he had a high fever and convulsions, which frightened our whole family. Although nothing happened after the examination, the moment when she convulsed was really scary. That's why I think it's not easy to be a mother.
These are just my personal feelings, please forgive me if there is anything wrong!
The child is almost one year old. Tell me about my experience this year.
There was no milk at the beginning of the month, so I went to a prolactin for massage. I drank prolactin soup every day and sucked it with a breast pump. The milk was normal for the last 20 days.
The child's jaundice started from 3 days and lasted for more than 1 month, but it did not drop to normal. The hospital made the blood test and bilirubin normal, saying that the transaminase was high and he couldn't get the vaccine, so he went home to take medicine. I took the medicine for 2 months and went for an examination. Although it dropped, it didn't reach the normal value. I did a lot of tests. It's nothing serious for the time being, just occasionally taking blood tests. Every time I draw blood from my head, I feel so distressed. It's normal now.
Children will not look up after more than three months, and other aspects are not so good. The hospital examination said it was a little stunted. If it's still like this in four months, he needs rehabilitation. When we go home, we hug vertically, do passive exercise and lie prone. After returning home, as long as the children don't sleep, they will start exercising. At first, the child was a little uncomfortable and always cried. After 10 days of exercise, the child is well. Since then, the child has grown to his arm. If you don't let him sit, you have to walk around and hold him for three months. After the full moon, children can exercise their knees to lay the foundation for raising their heads in the future.
When I was 6 months old, I was almost less tired when I sat down. She was diagnosed with herpetic angina when attending a family gathering, and did not eat milk. I was busy for three days and nights. Later, I got better and began to sleep badly. I woke up for an hour, sometimes for half an hour, and I was seriously short of sleep.
It's almost 1 year old now. I'm staying at home full-time to see him for the time being. Now I changed my sleep. Although it's not very good, I don't wake up so often. I learned to stand. May my baby get better and better.
After this year, what I want to say is, parents, especially novice parents, don't worry too much, seize every bedtime, don't play with mobile phones, don't play with mobile phones. Ensuring sleep is the key.
When I was pregnant, everyone said that it would be good to wait until the baby was born. But a year after the baby was born, God knows what I went through.
The baby was delivered by caesarean section. When I came back to the ward from the operating room and saw the baby in its infancy, tears could not stop flowing downwards. Then, for a long time, I couldn't see the baby. I will cry when I see him. It seems that I have been wronged a lot.
My body was seriously injured because of the abdominal plane. For a whole year, I felt tired walking. Memory is even worse to the limit. Now, I think it is a miracle that I didn't lose myself that year.
One year after delivery, I basically didn't sleep all night. I often put myself to sleep when I put my children to sleep.
One year after delivery, there is no suitable clothes to wear. Only wear husband's clothes to go out.
One year after giving birth, I was bittersweet, salty and had all kinds of tastes.
What did you experience in the first year after giving birth?
From having a job to not having a job, the boss said that he would be paid in a few days after leaving his job, but the boss ran away. Not only did he not get his salary for three months (because the boss had been lying to us that the capital turnover was not enough), but the baby was only one month old and he took her to the labor bureau every day. I'm really tired, wondering when I can take care of my children and get paid at the same time. The black-hearted boss agreed to pay the labor bureau, but he didn't come to the court and didn't answer the phone. Finally, the Labor Bureau had no choice but to apply to the court for arbitration. He took the baby back and forth to get the application materials, and it was useless when he was tired. His phone is off, and no one can be found. I really don't know if he is dead. If you die, you can forget the money. If you are not dead, you can't escape the punishment of the law.
I always have a stomachache after giving birth. Every time I vomit to death, I have to take care of the baby alone. My husband and mother-in-law are both at work, but every time they feel pain, they go to the hospital. I had a fever and fainted directly. Luckily, it was night and my husband was there. Anyway, after giving birth to a baby, it is a constant ailment, and eating sweets also hurts.
It's even worse when the baby is sick. Why aren't you sick? It happened to be the Spring Festival in six months, and I coughed a lot of phlegm and was atomized by injection. That is a kind of heartache. I had a bad year. I don't even know how that year passed.
God knows what I went through in the first year after giving birth!
Neonatal jaundice, infantile constipation, eczema
Open milk, chase milk, nipple confusion
Often wake up at night and colic.
The measure of whether to return to the workplace, the contradiction between family and children ...
Boss at every level is so difficult to fight, I don't know when it will end.
But they all survived, didn't they?
Let's talk about it. In the first year after the baby was born, you experienced the most difficult thing.
Ma Baoyi: After the baby was born, there was neonatal jaundice. He was hospitalized for a week and breastfed. Now she has breast-fed. It is difficult to wean. She has experienced colic, cold, fever, children's emergency and head deflection. ........................................................................................
Ma Bao: I study her feces every day. I have kept it five or six times a day since I was born, and it will be normal after a while. I didn't dare to get vaccinated this month.
Ma Bao III: Severe mastitis occurred in the second month. The baby kicked the quilt and caused pneumonia, so he couldn't sleep all day.
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