Don’t let your communication style ruin your child’s life

You can ruin a child by talking to him like this!,

1-Speak directly

When the meal is ready, remember to wash your hands first Come and eat again! Hurry up, or the food will get cold!

After washing your hands, come and eat!

2_Praise the details and be more sincere

You swim really well Awesome

Baby, your swimming posture is now more standard and your ventilation frequency is more even, which is a great improvement compared to last week!

3. Respectful communication

Don’t cry if you have something to say. How can I know what you think if you don’t tell me!

Mom wants to hear about you. Can you talk to her when you calm down later? Mom is waiting for you. .

4. Pretend to be weak

I’m too tired to hold you, so go on your own!

Mom is still a little sister and can’t hold you, so you can do it yourself Are you leaving?

5. Return the question to the child

(The child asked, why is it so hot in summer? )

This question is very interesting. Mom, I want to know what you think?

6. Use rules to teach your children to understand the rules

Why are you so rude? Just come in at the door

It is polite to knock before entering. Let’s do it once: you knock and I say please come in and then you come in

7. Let the children choose for themselves

Hurry up and go to bed!

You decide if you want to brush your teeth first or read a picture book before going to bed

8. Give alternatives

Don’t tear it up again The newly bought book is ruined!

You cannot tear the book into pieces, but you can use waste paper! (Take out a few pieces of waste paper)

9. Change the command into a game

(Children don’t want to take a bath >Come and pee!

The small toilet needs watering

And the ventilation frequency is more even, which is a big improvement compared to last week!

11. Encourage children to try by themselves

(The child is missing one building block) I will help you, that’s it

12. Write a note

The child is playing with toys in the living room, and I want to remind him to put away the toys later

Write a note: Baby, remember to put away the toys after playing. Love you, mom. ", fold it into a paper airplane and fly in front of the child

13. Make a small agreement

(The child won't let you go out in the morning) Don't stick to me. Mom has to go out to do something. Late!

Wait until mom comes home to bring you a beautiful pebble, okay?

14. Teach children how to think from others’ perspective

Toys cannot Throw it on the ground, do you hear me!

Don’t throw the toy on the ground. The little bear will cry in pain. Let’s protect the little bear together!

15. Use “body” to communicate

Put away the toys on the floor immediately! (Stand 3 meters away from the child)

Go to the child, squat down and look into his eyes. Please help mother put away the toys. , okay?