What do you mean when the other person greets you?

It is so cautious to love someone deeply. Even if I miss them, I am afraid that the other party will know. It's best to hide them secretly, as long as you know that.

Generally speaking, I miss someone very much, but I dare not contact them, mostly for these reasons.

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Fear of rejection

Most girls are reserved and restrained in love. Even if you love each other deeply, you will hide it from each other. She would rather secretly miss it than say it out loud, saying that she is timid or worthless.

I once talked to a friend about this topic, and I asked her, "If you like someone very much, will you continue to be reserved?" Why can't you take the initiative once? "

She replied to me like this: "Even if I really love him, I won't take the initiative. Even if I miss him, I will keep my last reserve. This is my protective color. If he likes me, he will take the initiative. If he doesn't like me, it's useless for me to take the initiative. "

For some girls, it is difficult for her to take the initiative, whether she loves someone or misses someone, unless the other person has the same idea, unless she shows her mind in the direction, she will take the initiative to respond. At other times, she will remain reserved and unwilling to take the initiative to contact.

She always thought that girls should not take the initiative. If the other person thinks so, he will naturally take action. Otherwise, if you take the initiative to send it, people may not appreciate it. Instead of this, it is better to keep it until the end.

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Afraid of missing out and not getting a response

Love needs to be answered, and so does missing. If you tell him what you miss, but the other person completely ignores you and even thinks you are bored, then your heart will be very painful and you will feel that you have been let down.

You feel that the message you send is full of yearning, you hope that the other party can understand it, and you hope that the other party can respond, but in the eyes of the other party, it is indispensable for him to send a message when you are just bored.

Slowly, Min Min stopped sending messages about him to the other party. Even if I really miss him, I just hide it secretly. Later, they broke up. If a person doesn't understand your thoughts, it means that he doesn't love you very much. People who love you will feel very surprised when they see this message, and they will also express their thoughts. How can they ignore it?

Many people miss but dare not contact, just afraid of not getting a response and being hurt, so they would rather keep their thoughts in their hearts than let them know. Maybe this distance is not bad.

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Fear of heartache

The biggest fear in feelings is that you can't love him. After I love him, I often miss him and can't let him go. I really want to contact him, but I often hold back.

It's not that she doesn't want to contact him, but she's more afraid of heartache after contact. No matter whether the other person responds or not, your heart will be disturbed by him, and it is difficult to restore normal order.

If you can't love, don't contact. Even if you miss it again, tell yourself it's all over, so that your heart will not be so painful and you can quickly get out of the past and start a new life.

It may hurt if you don't contact, but as time goes on, the pain will fade away. But keeping in touch will only give your heart hope again. When hopes are dashed, you will only feel more heartache.

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I miss someone very much, but I dare not contact. I am often "afraid". You are afraid of rejection, you are afraid of not getting a response, and you are afraid of the feeling of heartache.

All these fears illustrate a problem. You still love him, so you want to approach carefully, but you dare not get too close, only dare to keep just the right distance.

If the other person is the person you like, you might as well be bold and let him know that you miss him. Maybe he misses you too, just waiting for your confirmation.

If you know that the other person is someone you can't love, you can't miss it again. There is no need to add another wound to your heart. Maybe you can't stop thinking at first, but believe in the power of time and you will get through it.