What is treating people on demand? For example.

To treat others with your own heart is to guess others' thoughts with your own thoughts. Many people's self-centered performance is to "treat others according to their own needs." I can't wait to jump on any performance or idea that doesn't match me. In fact, it is to close yourself up and everyone will stay away.

After hearing a story about Hua Tuo, Hua Tuo's medical skill was brilliant, which attracted the attention of the Eastern Han court. Gao Shun, a court official, thanked Hua Tuo for curing his illness, so he privately recommended Hua Tuo to be the official official of Taiwei House. He went to Hua Tuo and said, "You have suffered for so many years. It's time to enjoy a real official. This is my dream goal of entering Taiwei House! " Hua Tuo smiled and shook his head and said, "What you want is not what I want. I have a good medical skill, and dealing with officialdom is not my goal. It is not a good thing that there are good doctors in the people and quacks in the officialdom. " After Hua Tuo left, Seibel got bored and had to give up.

Hua Tuo's story tells us that instead of judging others by ourselves, we should always reflect on ourselves, whether we forget to understand others' feelings because of selfishness, and whether it is natural to judge others by ourselves. Don't judge others by yourself, don't define others easily, judge others by your own standards, be good at empathy, jump out of your own small circle, look at your words and deeds from the standpoint of others, and understand and appreciate others more, which will increase your personality charm.