Why are more and more women reluctant to go back to their parents' home now?

From my personal point of view, there are four reasons: I don't like my parents to treat me as a guest, going back will bring trouble to my parents, economic conditions don't allow it, and I hate leaving my parents. There is a saying that "a married woman can't go back to her mother's house and enter her husband's house". This sentence is too apt to describe, especially if she has brothers and sisters. Therefore, as a married woman, going back to my parents' home is really something I want to do but dare not do. Let me tell you why I don't like going back to my mother's house.

I have a deep feeling that going back to my mother's house is no longer my master. Before we got married, my parents were very close to me. They were happy with me and yelled at me if they were unhappy. Although everyone is noisy, they have a strong sense of closeness. But now when I go home, my parents will give me money for everything I buy. My parents won't yell at me when I go back. It looks polite, but it feels unfamiliar. So every time I go back to my parents' house, I feel very lost. In my mind, my parents seem to regard me as a distant guest, not their daughter. Therefore, every time I feel homesick, I actually want to go back, but at the same time I am afraid to go back. I'm afraid my parents have a distance from me.

In fact, every time I go back to my parents' house for too long, my parents and younger brother don't say anything, but I can also feel how uncomfortable they are in their actions. Just like going back for the Spring Festival this year, I lived in my parents' house for more than ten days. I was polite at first, but after playing for a few more days, I obviously felt that my brother's attitude towards me had changed. Even if I mop the floor clean, my brother will deliberately put on his shoes and step on it, and when I am in the living room, my brother will never sit in the living room. I know this phenomenon is that I have caused them trouble, but my parents prevented my brother from talking more, so even because of the epidemic.

Going back to your mother's house is a big expense. When you are a daughter, you go home empty-handed, and no one will say that you are not an amateur. When you get married, you will go back to your mother's house. If you are empty-handed, gossip can drown you out. Not only outsiders will make irresponsible remarks, but parents and brothers will also feel uncomfortable. You will feel stingy and humiliated, especially when you go back to your parents' home on holiday. You have to buy clothes, gifts and money. It costs about two or three thousand yuan.

Being apart from your parents is the hardest thing. Even if it is not good, it is also a place to improve yourself. Parents, brothers and sisters look down on themselves, and they are also relatives with the same blood. Therefore, no matter how difficult it is to return to her home, it is necessary to return. Every time I go back, I want to go back. Although there are many things in my heart, the day I leave is the most uncomfortable. Every time I leave, I like to lie on the window and look at my parents for a long time until I can't see them. Not to mention how uncomfortable this feeling is.