Daughter-in-law gives birth to Bauer, while mother-in-law cooks soup. Dabao: Mom, stop drinking. There is something in the soup. What should I do?

1 Mother-in-law cooks the soup herself.

After Xiao Min and Tang Xiao got married for half a year, Tang Xiao's mother, Xiao Min's mother-in-law, retired.

When Xiaotang was in high school, his parents agreed to divorce. His father remarried and went to other cities, while his mother never remarried with Xiaotang.

My mother-in-law likes dressing up more than before after retirement, and she can drive with a driver's license, so she calls her friends from time to time and they go to road trip together. Mother-in-law also has her own house, living separately from Xiao Min, and usually does not interfere in Xiao Min's life.

Friends all envy Xiao Min and say that Xiao Min is lucky to meet such a fashionable and enlightened mother-in-law. Xiao Min did not refute with a smile.

After two years of marriage, Xiao Min gave birth to a son.

When Xiao Min was pregnant, her mother-in-law said in front of her mother that she was in poor health and worried that she could not take good care of Xiao Min. She suggested that Xiao Min make a new moon. Xiao Min hesitated, but Xiao Min's parents immediately said that the cost of the new moon had come out, so it would be good to let Xiao Min rest in peace.

Xiao Min glanced at her mother-in-law and said nothing.

Later, during Xiao Min's confinement, her mother-in-law would bring a thermos pot every two or three days, saying that she personally stewed the crucian bean curd soup and let Xiao Min drink it while it was hot.

Xiao Min thinks her mother-in-law is very nice, so she has no complaints about her mother-in-law.

You can change the child's surname to yours.

After her son's full moon, Yue Yue left, and Xiao Min wanted to go back to work, so she wanted to ask her mother-in-law to help take care of the children.

My mother-in-law looked reluctant and said, "I told Tang Xiao the other day that you should find an aunt to take care of the children for a long time. He said that he was not at ease and wanted to find one of his own." In that case, why not ask your mother to help you take care of the children? Isn't your mother retired, too Her health is much better than mine. "

Xiao Min was very unhappy and said to her mother-in-law, "But this child is named after your Tang family. You promise to let him take my last name, and I won't bother you! "

My mother-in-law smiled and said, "What age is this? You have a high degree, and you still care about a surname? You can change the child's surname to yours if you like. I don't care. "

Xiao Min didn't expect her mother-in-law to say such a thing. She gritted her teeth and took care of the children while working, but she became estranged from her mother-in-law and complained to Xiaotang: "Your mother sometimes looks very reasonable, sometimes unreasonable, very strange!"

Tang Xiao said flatly, "I hope you don't feel surprised. We don't live with her. Live our lives well. "

Xiao Min also wanted to think, didn't say anything.

Sheng Erbao, my mother-in-law brought soup again.

The days passed quickly. Before I knew it, Xiao Min's son went to kindergarten and Xiao Min was pregnant again.

Xiao Min doesn't want it, but Xiaotang wants Bauer very much and wants Bauer to be a girl.

Xiao Min thought about it and promised Xiaotang, but she gave birth to another son.

Xiaotang showed some disappointment, but didn't say it directly.

My mother-in-law screamed in the hospital: "Xiao Min, you can really give birth. As long as you buy a house for your sons and marry a wife, it will be enough for you and Xiaotang! "

Xiao Min was angry, gave her mother-in-law a white look and said nothing.

Mother-in-law gave a wry smile and said nothing. After sitting for a while, she said she had an appointment with her sister and left.

Xiao Min was confined to his home after he was discharged from hospital.

This time, Xiao Min and Xiaotang thought it would cost more to have another child, so they didn't want a new moon. Fortunately, Xiao Min's mother took the initiative to come from her hometown to take care of Xiao Min's confinement and help with some housework, so Xiao Min was relieved.

Like Xiao Min's first confinement, her mother-in-law sent a thermos flask every two or three days, saying it was a crucian bean curd soup stewed by Xiao Min herself.

For Xiaotang's sake, Xiao Min doesn't want to be too hard on her mother-in-law. She thought her mother-in-law would help with Dabao when she was free. This is intentional. What happened before is over, so she often drinks the soup in front of her mother-in-law.

"Mom, don't drink the soup, there is something in the soup."

One night, my mother-in-law came with a thermos.

Xiao Min's stomach is a little bloated, so he put the thermos aside and said to drink it later.

Mother-in-law nodded, and then went to the living room to chat with Xiao Min's mother. Xiao Min Dabao suddenly came mysteriously and attached it to Xiao Min's ear and said, "Mom, don't drink grandma's soup, grandma spit in it."

Xiao Min was taken aback and asked Dabao if he was telling the truth.

Dabao said seriously, "It's true. I saw it with my own eyes at grandma's house just now ... grandma threw up secretly, thinking I didn't see it, but I saw it ... "

Xiao Min is a little confused. Xiaotang has been busy with his work since I came to Bauer. Xiao Min doesn't have much time to take care of Dabao. He is still in kindergarten. Sometimes her mother-in-law will pick it up for me, usually at her own house first, and then she will send the child over at night.

Xiao Min knew that Dabao's personality was as simple as Xiaotang's, but she couldn't figure out why her mother-in-law spat in the soup.

Xiao Min became more and more angry at the thought of it. She couldn't help herself. She immediately took the incubator to find her mother-in-law and asked, "Mom, did you throw up in the soup?" Why? ! "

Mother-in-law's eyes are also big: "No! Why should I spit? Am I crazy? ! "

Xiao Min's eldest son hid behind Xiao Min and said timidly, "Grandma, I saw it. You threw up three times, and you really threw up ... "

Mother-in-law looked uncertain, stood up and dragged Dabao, holding a slap in the face and said angrily, "If the child talks nonsense again, grandma will hit you ..."

Dabao cried with fear.

Xiao Min was angry and annoyed, and she didn't think much. She gave a hard push and her mother-in-law fell to the ground with a bang. My mother-in-law cried loudly and scolded: "My kindness is not rewarded!" Why should I spit in the soup? Mom, you're right, right ... "

Xiao Min's mother quickly helped Xiao Min's mother-in-law. Chong Xiao Min said, "Maybe the child was carried away by mistakes. How could my mother do such a thing? " ! You ah, how to push people to the ground ... "

Xiao Min's heart was sour, and she felt that her mother had been used to being a good person for most of her life, and she didn't help her daughter at the critical moment. This is a good thing. Dabao has been wronged, but her mother-in-law can refuse to admit it.

Xiao Min was in a hurry and talked back to her mother.

Difficult to get along with.

When chickens fly and dogs jump at home, Xiaotang comes back from work.

When Tang Xiao understood this, he calmly said nothing and let his mother go.

Xiao Min was angry, but he didn't notice that Xiaotang was in the middle of the night, and Xiaotang didn't fall asleep after tossing and turning.

At four o'clock in the morning, Xiao Min woke up and saw Xiaotang still awake. He couldn't help asking him what was wrong.

I sighed and said, "I remember when I finished the college entrance examination, my father came to see me with Aunt Chen and ate at our house. I saw my mother throw up while scooping soup for Aunt Chen in the kitchen. Later, Li Ling came to see us and stayed in our house. My mother spat in Li Ling's soup, too. My mother's problems started after she divorced my father. All women she doesn't like don't say anything on the surface, and throw up in other people's cups whenever they have the chance. Ah, I don't know how to say her ... "

Xiao Min knew that Chen Yi was Xiaotang's stepmother and Li Ling was Xiaotang's stepmother and ex-husband's daughter.

I can understand that my mother-in-law has a problem with Chen Yi and Li, but she has no grudge with her mother-in-law. Why did her mother-in-law do this? Also, you were like this when you gave birth to Bauer, so you must be like this when you gave birth to Dabao.

"Oh, my God! How many crucian bean curd soup have I drunk that my mother-in-law has spit on? "

As soon as Xiao Min read this, he felt sick and nauseous. When he finally calmed down, he was so angry that he scolded Xiaotang: "You knew your mother was so ridiculous, why didn't you tell me earlier?" ! "

Tang Xiao murmured: "I think she has no opinion of you in recent years, thinking that she has changed, but I didn't expect her to be so strange ..."

Xiao Min is very angry. She wants to talk to her mother-in-law at dawn.

Xiaotang seemed to read Xiao Min's mind and pleaded, "No, don't be too thorough. Just don't drink that soup in the future. I don't want to be too hard on my mother. After all, it was not easy for her to raise me alone. I will be better to you in the future, and it is good for us to live a good life ... "

Xiaotang begged for a long time, and Xiao Min sighed and agreed with him.

However, from then on, Xiao Min never took the initiative to show her smiling face to her mother-in-law. Gradually, the mother-in-law also saw that Xiao Min's face was less, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law gradually alienated, saying that it was difficult to get along with.

Yes, some people always say that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are difficult to get along with.

In fact, it is not the relationship that is difficult to get along with, but the people's heart.

The so-called care, not everyone can do, obsession and paranoia can easily dust a person's heart, then when interacting with others, their relationship will of course be dusty and difficult to get along with.

If you are Xiao Min, do you agree with her forbearance not to expose her mother-in-law, or do you want to make it clear to her mother-in-law that she will be lenient from now on?