What does it mean when a man tells you to leave it alone?

When a man tells you, don't get excited. Many times, she may want to hide something, so that you don't care so much, or she may really ask you not to care so much, just to understand his reasons and communicate well, so that you can understand the real thoughts of boys. Don't talk to the other person when you meet something with different views, remember that you are talking about things, not people. Of course, sometimes you are not so sure. Many times when you are impulsive and excited, it is inevitable that you will quarrel. This is what you should remember. No matter who is right or wrong, you can't say anything that hurts each other. Don't twist your mind. You obviously don't think so, but you are angry and say something that hurts each other. Remember that you both love each other deeply. Emotional excitement is inevitable when a conflict occurs, so you should calm yourself down and remember that he/she is the one you love, not the one you hate. Even if a child is chattering, you should try to keep silent and try to calm both sides down. When the two sides calm down, they should think about each other's good things and the good times you had together, and make sure that even if there are contradictions, your love for him/her remains undiminished. Then we must find the root of the problem and recall the root of the contradiction, how the contradiction came into being and how the quarrel began. Find the root of the contradiction, find your own mistakes, and then communicate. Make sure you are calm enough before communicating. If both sides are willing to communicate, that's best. If one party is unwilling, the willing party should ask for communication and explanation. If necessary, admit your mistake and let the other person accept you, and you will be saved. Communication also requires skill. Don't always say the other person's fault, but say your own. If the other person loves you, he/she will respond. When you all realize that this contradiction is not a matter of principle at all, everything will be relieved. Finally, you will find that this contradiction will make your feelings stronger and make you love each other and understand each other better. I wish all lovers in the world happiness. Be his friend, don't limit his freedom all the time, and don't cut off his hobbies. A person has a wide range of interests. Don't let him change old habits and ways for you, then he is not himself. Sometimes, watching football games with him, playing games with him and exchanging experiences, both of them relax in this life. Understand his difficulty, don't force it, don't think of yourself as his boss. Men have their own careers and pressures. They have their own dreams and roads. Don't think that you are the only one. Don't let him keep talking to you. The key is to understand him, make him feel close, and then he will never leave you again. Help him become a more successful person and find the position of both sides in a subtle way. Preaching is a failed way, and only sincere conversation can make both sides trust each other more and have a tacit understanding. When a man's shortcomings become more and more prominent, don't order him. In life, teach him slowly and let him get rid of them with his own consciousness. Why not? Everyone has a past. Don't always ask questions. Aren't you a man with a story yourself? Men have their own past and ex-girlfriend, but you don't have to compare yourself with her in the past. The man has chosen you now, and you are the one in life. Why are you struggling? Besides, everyone has a past. Relax, he will love you more. If he loves you, he doesn't have to talk about it all the time. Why do you force him to say "love you" every day for a little comfort? Women need comfort, and so do men. But women should not always remind that person that "I love you" is not a formal word, but a natural expression of their feelings. Don't force him to have this task every day, everyone will be tired. Avoid letting him buy you this and that for a little vanity and comparison. You need love, and so does he. Men sometimes don't understand women's thoughts, why they quarrel over a chain or a skirt. If you love luxury goods, spend your life with them. A man needs to love a woman, but he spends money on things for you. How can you repay him? Learn to be independent and rely on him, but don't waste a man's energy and time to let him always serve you. Whether you are a big woman or a small woman, you should have your own career and think independently, so that men will pay attention to you and communicate with you equally. Only when two people solve problems at the same time can they enhance their feelings. Especially now, under the financial crisis, I will never be afraid of the wind and wolves again. Allow him to make friends with the opposite sex and let him have his own circle. Of course, you should also learn to communicate and become an indispensable part of both sides. A normal person must have friends of the opposite sex, which is a proper way of life. It is also inevitable that a man has a friend of the opposite sex. If you are not at ease, you can make friends with her. Don't limit the range of male friends, otherwise it will be counterproductive and intensified. Enrich his role identity, not only as a girlfriend, wife, mother, lover, but also as a confidante, so that he will never do anything outside. Of course, if you can enrich your identity, you don't have to worry about men outside socializing. You can give him all kinds of comfort he needs, and you will inevitably become an indispensable figure in life. What man would refuse such multiple identities? However, to do this well, you must run in with each other in the process of getting along with men and let them find more advantages in you. Don't lose your temper easily. No one is born to love you. You have to love him and love him to consolidate this relationship. It's natural for women to be angry, but don't extend it to the interaction with men just because of a little thing. He can stand your troubles, but he can't stand your daily noise. Put yourself in the other person's shoes and you will know what the other person needs. Let him love you, will be more considerate of him, let him feel at ease and comfortable. Hmm. How interesting