How to recognize people (2)

Most people are not immune to vulgarity. On the one hand, they can see the flattery, femininity, and opportunism of some people, but on the other hand, they feel that such people are also popular and useful. They can carry your sedan chair for you and relieve your boredom. Communication and use. In the end, I was used by them.

Similarly, you will also see the uprightness and integrity of some people, but you suspect that they are stupid, inappropriate, and their words are not nice, so you stay away from them at first, then reject them with disgust, and finally get angry. And punish him.

So, you make friends with villains and stay away from gentlemen.

"It is beneficial to have straight friends, to be forgiving, and to be well-informed. To be friendly is to be friendly, to be friendly is to be gentle, and to be sycophantic is to be a loss."

"Making friends with upright people is a good thing." It is beneficial to make friends with honest people and knowledgeable people, and to make friends with flattering people, to make friends with feminine and cunning people, and to make friends with people who are clever and clever. It can only cause negative consequences.”

It is harder to know someone’s heart than their person. This is a fact. It is easier to know whether a person's talents and abilities meet the needs of the job than to know his mind.

Because it is good to be able to do things, but it is more profound to be a human being. The inner requirements are unlimited and the inner standards are the highest.

"I don't know his benevolence."

"I'm not sure whether he is a benevolent person."

Be good at analyzing a person's mind from his words. , motivation, level and intention.

This also requires considerable life and political experience. There is no use in talking about it. You can only listen and observe it over and over again, observe and judge it, track and check it.

“If you don’t know words, you can’t know people.”

“If you don’t know the connotation and method of words, you can’t know people well.”

Human faults each have their own categories and attributes. You can know what kind of person a person is by looking at his faults. Errors are also divided into categories. The faults of great men and the faults of small reptiles cannot be of the same category. The faults of fools and the faults of wise men also have their own characteristics. The faults of people with lofty ideals are incomparable with the faults of vulgar and dirty beasts.

"Everyone's faults are in their own way. Seeing one's faults reveals benevolence."

"Everyone's faults have their own categories and attributes. Look at a person's faults. You will know what kind of person he is based on his faults. ”

A crazy person is full of anger, pointing out the country, inspiring words, trashing others, and being proud. Naughty people are narcissistic, self-righteous, sarcastic, and sit back and watch without speaking or practicing. Such people are emerging in our country's intellectual circles. There are many people who are both crazy and cruel.

As long as they do not join forces with power, it is not necessary to unify their personalities or styles. It should be said that each has its own cuteness.

The most disgusting thing is the other kind of people: fake wild and fake people, full of empty talk, full of vulgarity, and all the records are full of chickens, dogs, thieves, flies and dogs.

"If you don't follow the middle path and follow it, you must be crazy and stubborn. A crazy person will make progress, and a stubborn person will not do anything."

"There is no one who practices the golden mean. If you want to be with others, make friends with crazy people. Crazy people are aggressive and enthusiastic, while arrogant people are cold and aloof and do nothing."

Things can be divided into categories, and competitions can have different styles. Categories, by extension, include all kinds of people, professions with specializations, and things with many kinds. We cannot use a single standard or a single value standard to measure everything.

"If you don't shoot with the skin, the strength is different, which is the ancient way."

"The quality of archery does not depend on whether the arrow penetrates the skin of the target. The reason is that since ancient times, people have I understand that there are different levels of force, different skills, and different methods in archery, which cannot be confused."

He looks dignified, because he is serious, decent, serious, and respectful from his roots. He is approaching Wen because someone is approaching him. He should respect others, be kind to others, listen to others, and welcome communication with others. He speaks harshly because he has sharp eyes, clear mind, and insight into all things. He can see through all kinds of low-level methods and has no sand in his eyes.

The more a gentleman is, the more harsh he is. Wisdom is compelling, moral laws are compelling, and high realm is compelling. If you stand too high, the vulgar will definitely feel its pressure, and he is not a good man.

"A gentleman has three things: he looks at someone as he is, he is gentle when he hears him, and he is sharp when he listens to his words.

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"There are three changes in a gentleman's expression: when you look at him, he is very dignified; when you get close to him, he is very gentle; when you listen to him speaking, he is quite stern. ”