Taking the baby to a relative's house, the host said these words were "an order to expel the guests", and parents should not cut their own path.

In daily life, parents often take their children to visit relatives' homes, but sometimes the host can't receive them freely because of the inappropriate time of the visit. However, some hosts, out of politeness, will say some obscure words when "ordering guests to leave". If parents don't understand, it's easy to put each other in a more embarrassing situation.

Taking advantage of children's holidays, Han Xiao often takes children to visit relatives. On this day, Han Xiao visited several children among his relatives, so the children in Han Xiao had a good time with them. Han Xiao stayed until it was dark, until his relatives said to Han Xiao, "Stay here for dinner tonight, and I'll buy something to eat."

After listening to his relatives, Han Xiao realized that he had stayed too long, so he quickly got up and was ready to leave with his children. But what I didn't expect was that the child was always reluctant to leave, and finally he was willing to go home after repeated persuasion provided by Han. On the way home, the child inexplicably asked, "Why can't you stay for dinner?"? My aunt raised us. "

After listening to the child's words, Han Xiao explained: "Aunt, this is a polite statement. We have delayed others for too long, and Aunt has other things to do. " Han provided the in the mind also understand that the words of relatives at that time were actually "marching orders". If she takes them seriously, she will be cut off.

1, "It's too late. Stay for dinner. I'll buy food."

Go to a relative's house, forget the time, and don't leave until dinner. At this time, some hosts will say, "It's too late, stay for dinner, and I'll buy something to eat." This time is probably the meaning of the host's "chasing customers". If you really want to keep guests for dinner, you don't need to emphasize time, so the host's sentence is actually a euphemism to remind guests that "it's a little late, it's time to go home."

2. "Sit down first, I have something to do."

Generally speaking, when guests arrive home, the host should accompany them to chat. When the host says "sit down first, I have something to do", on the one hand, it may be that the host is really anxious, but he is embarrassed to drive the guests away. On the other hand, the host has no patience to entertain guests, so when the host says that he has something to do, it is actually an implicit expression of "you can go".

3. "Let the children play for a while, you have nothing to do anyway."

When they take their children to relatives' homes and prepare to leave, some owners will say, "Let the children play for a while, because you have nothing to do anyway." But this sentence is usually just a "polite remark", not a real retention. Moreover, the host emphasized that children should play for a while, which also showed that there were not many topics between adults, and parents should know fairly well.

1, say hello.

No matter how familiar relatives are, parents must tell their children to learn to say hello and say hello to their elders before visiting relatives. Polite children are often more liked and welcomed by others, and at the same time they can bring each other closer.

Don't touch the owner's things.

Some children are used to rummaging around at home, but when they go to other people's homes, if they tamper with their masters' things, they will easily feel that they have no tutor and are not welcomed by others. Therefore, when parents take their children to relatives' homes, they should pay attention to controlling their children's behavior and don't tamper with their owners' things. When children have such behavior, they should pay attention to stop it in time.

It is a good thing to visit other people's homes, which can enhance our relationship. But this process is also very "exquisite", especially when children are naughty and active, so parents should teach their children relevant guest etiquette in advance, and at the same time grasp the time and discretion of being a guest.

I'm Nemo's mother's nanny. If you have any questions in the process of educating children, you can ask me. I hope my suggestion can help you solve the confusion and troubles in the process of taking care of your children and let our children grow up better!