Why does her mother always belittle her daughter?

My mother always belittles her daughter for the following reasons:

1 originated from my mother's growing environment and her own personality. It may be that my mother didn't get enough love since she was a child, and she was degraded, attacked and denied in the process of growing up, so that she unconsciously learned this model and passed it on. He probably never knew that he could get along with his daughter in other ways. He thinks this is a natural thing, and she has never considered her daughter's feelings.

2. Projection from mother. As a defense mechanism, projection usually appears in the family. For example, if a mother passes on her unacceptable personality, characteristics, attitudes, ideas and desires to her daughter, she will belittle and deny her daughter, which is actually her dissatisfaction. Projection will make us regard others as our "scapegoats" and let us avoid the responsibilities we should face.

3. Aggression and control. Maybe in family relations, mom is in a passive position, and some depressed parts of her heart have become an aggressive release on you. Or the mother herself is a controlling person. She tried to control you and make you obey her by belittling and denying you. You can realize that some words and deeds of your mother are demeaning, denying and attacking you, then you must understand that this is not your real whole. You have to believe that you have a core self standing here all the time, and you have to believe that you are good.