Boyfriend doesn't like to do housework, what should I do?

In fact, this problem is not difficult to solve. My husband will help me cook as long as he is at home, but it is difficult to change at once. It's like when I don't want to do it at ordinary times, I will tell my husband that I will give you a chance to love me, or I will play with him. A man is a man, willing to admit defeat, but the rules are up to him. Or talk to him when he usually does it. Anyway, I trained my husband. For example, when he is washing clothes, you take the initiative to do it, telling you that men have things that men should do, and washing clothes is not done by men. Then you can say, if you really love me, help me clean the table and cook, whatever you want him to do. But even if he doesn't do well afterwards, don't forget to praise him if you do it again. Better give him a kiss. Everyone needs praise. My husband comes to me like this every time he finishes housework. Kissing him can also promote the relationship between two people. Over time, my husband won't be lazy. Here are a few more solutions.

1. Money. However, judging from your description, if both of your qualifications are excellent, it is estimated that there will be no such doubts.

2. Do it together. If you say that's absolutely impossible, have you ever tried to make it possible? If you want to do something, please spoil him and give him some rewards. Or what you are doing, naturally ask him to do it together, then chat with him and guide him to say something he is interested in. In a pleasant atmosphere, the two of them finished the housework.

3. it is impossible to do what you can? By tools! The problem of mopping the floor, try buying that black & decker steam mop. Good mopping effect, sterilization and low noise, about 799 yuan. Sweeping robot, domestic 1000 is enough. Basically, monkeys live in your home120m2, with little noise and can work normally. Every room will be clean after working 10-20 minutes. You can add a hand-held vacuum cleaner, about a few hundred dollars, and the ceiling, window sill and gap are convenient to suck. Is there a drum washing machine for washing clothes? Needless to say. Finishing clothes is very troublesome, so buy more storage. Personal clothes storage, transparent self-sealing bag recommended by Tamia Liu when doing the program is really good. I bought fifty bags to store clothes and socks that I don't need for the time being, and they are also super good for travel. As for cooking, buy an air fryer and fry chicken wings and shrimps for him every day; Get an oven and throw something in, but don't worry. It will be delicious when you take it out later.

4. About professional room arrangement: I recommend the book "Life-changing arrangement magic: Japanese inductive arrangement art" by Kondo. There are many reports and videos about her. If you look for it, you will certainly gain a lot.

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I am also a woman, and I am also a particularly arrogant woman.

Maybe it's my remarks. There will be many female friends who object. But I still want to say.

As a woman. I think housework is my duty. Men have men's careers. It is a man's duty to work hard outside to support his family. If a man is willing to help in his spare time, then help. Even if you don't want to help.

I'm married now. No matter how busy you are. I have never asked my husband for help. He has never been asked to wash the dishes once. Usually, he does his job, which is very hard.

What should I do if my boyfriend doesn't like to do housework? I think it's easy to handle. Don't do this if you need your boyfriend to do housework. Then find a boyfriend who can do housework.

When you get married, you can't cook.

My boyfriend's family didn't criticize me for this either. They influenced me with their actions for ten years.

Every day the food is served on the table, and then everyone discusses it while eating. In this casual edification, I slowly learned to cook several dishes.

Later, if the old couple came back from their trip, I would cook a pot of porridge and cook some dishes for them. As long as they eat my cooking, no matter how it tastes, they will be full of praise. Slowly, I think cooking is not so difficult.

Now my husband and I take turns cooking at home. He does better than me, and I will often praise him.

So if you really love her, it's not a problem. People can influence each other and change slowly.

I don't know what to do. My wife won't let me do housework anyway. She said that housework is a woman's business, and it is easier for men to earn money to support their families. In fact, I have loved my work since I was a child, or I may have been forced by life. I do almost everything, so I want to do everything after marriage. As I get older, I do less and less housework. I think we should do more housework that we are interested in and can do, and let the landlord ask how to make her husband pay more.

Boyfriend doesn't like to do housework, what should I do? This question should be easy for you, because he is only your boyfriend now, not your husband. Since it is your boyfriend, it should still be in a beautiful and sweet stage. At this time, it is easier to improve each other's bad lifestyle. If you have been married for a long time and some of your lifestyles have become habits, it will not be so easy to change at that time.

Speaking of doing housework, many men don't like doing housework. This is mainly influenced by the traditional concept of "men are the masters outside and women are the masters inside", which holds that housework is done by women. But with the renewal of people's ideas, it is not easy to understand being a woman; Realizing that housework should not be reserved for women, more and more men are willing to help with housework.

Mutual understanding is an important factor for a family to live in harmony; Doing housework should not be a person's business, communication and discussion are very important; We can make three agreements with each other: first, whoever has leisure will do more. Second, take turns doing housework. Third, help each other with housework. Never take the way of quarreling and fighting, it will only backfire and we can talk about anything!

Now you should make full use of your status as a girlfriend, because you are still attractive to him. If he doesn't listen to you and turns his back on him when you sleep, he may compromise. One more thing, when we get along, we should pay attention to clear rewards and punishments. When you are doing housework and your boyfriend happens to be free, you can ask him to come and help at this time; In the process of doing housework, don't scold him if he doesn't do well; No matter whether he does well or not, a compliment will get twice the result with half the effort; You can say: You are great, my boyfriend is great, the man who does housework is handsome, and so on. You are boyfriend and girlfriend, there is nothing to be ashamed of! Reward a kiss, a hug is also possible!

First, ask yourself a question. Do you dislike your boyfriend because he doesn't like housework?

And you need to find out why your boyfriend doesn't like to do housework.

Some boys don't do housework because their parents are used to it. You know, this habit is formed from childhood, and it is difficult to change unless you want to change it. Do you think it is possible for him to change for you? If not, what do you want to do? Don't try to transform a person with a fixed personality (male or female), unless your charm is so great that he can't lose you, as long as you say a word, he can change immediately.

Another reason, male chauvinism, is that he is the head of the family and earns more money than women, so he thinks he should not do housework, and such a man can tolerate it a little. Some men (regardless of their abilities) hold the traditional idea that housework is a woman's business, so they don't do it.

I wonder what kind of boyfriend you have.

If your boyfriend, unwilling to change, can't change, and you love him, you can't leave him. This is a deadlock, and one party has to compromise, otherwise what can be done? There is no road. Otherwise, no one will do housework, please work hourly and eat out, if economic conditions permit.

I think you love your boyfriend, so he must have other advantages. Only you know this. No one is perfect, and we outsiders can't judge whether a man is a good man by his love for housework, nor can we say that a woman who likes housework is a good woman.

If you care about housework, you should express it and don't keep it in your heart. Sometimes if you want him to do something, let him do it. For example, if you cook, let him do the dishes. You help him wash clothes this time, and let him do it for you next time.

If he refuses, don't be angry, but consider whether your relationship will continue. And he has other advantages that you like. Then you should be prepared to contract housework. If it's true, it can't be done, so we can only separate. Men who like to do housework are not without them.

Boyfriends don't like to do housework? That's definitely impossible.