Tell me about the woman you play with.

Many times, men can feel whether women love you or play with you, but some men will choose to deceive themselves and pretend that women love them very much. In the end, they can't escape neither money nor people.

If a woman just wants to play with you, you will become very passive, easy to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, always feel that you are not good enough, and you will not leave yourself if you feel better. In fact, this idea must not exist, because once you walk into a dead end, it is hopeless.

Women who just want to play with you can't escape these five performances. How many do you know?

Performance 1: I am hot and cold for you, and I can't bear to part with it.

She never gives you a definite conclusion about your relationship. To say that friends always feel more, to say that couples feel less, she does not explicitly promise you or directly refuse you. She just wants to have an affair with you all the time, never takes you to public places and never introduces you in front of her best friend.

When I am nice to you, you feel that you have found true love, but when I turn around and give you the cold shoulder, you will never guess her mind. In fact, to put it bluntly, you are just one of her many spare tires. I'm afraid it's hard to find a full-time job.

Performance 2: I will contact you only when I need you.

Zhong Wuyan, it's okay. This is the kind of woman Xia Yingchun is talking about. She will only take the initiative to talk to you when she needs your help, making you feel that she likes you and needs you.

Generally speaking, at this time, she will tell you pitifully that you want to protect her, and then she will eat you, spend you and make you work hard. Once she meets her expectations, she will immediately give you a cold shoulder and start to perfunctory you.

Performance 3: I don't care about your business at all.

A woman who just wants to play with you will be absent-minded about your affairs, because it has nothing to do with her. She doesn't care about your work or your friends at all.

You want to talk to her about interesting things in life and work. She always answers you without saying a word, or keeps playing with her mobile phone. You can obviously feel her perfunctory. Once she has a new goal, she will pull away immediately.

Evidence 4: Never disclose your relationship.

Friends around her don't know you exist, and her space has never been dynamic about you, because she just wants to play with you and won't be in love with you for long. There is no need to introduce you to her friend, so as to save me from explaining it to her friend for a long time when I break up with you. To put it bluntly, she just doesn't want you to know more, because you are just her spare tire.

Performance 5: You can only share joys and sorrows, but you can't suffer hardships.

A casual woman is just playing with you and has no real feelings, so when you are smooth sailing, she will say anything and be good to you, but once you meet something and can't provide her with material help, she will immediately become a passerby, look on coldly, only care about herself, be selfish and never consider your feelings.

When you meet a woman who just wants to play with you and only uses you as a spare tire, you'd better get out as soon as possible. Don't wait until the money and money are gone to realize that it is too late.