Life experience of being a smart woman

1, only love one person in the same period. Otherwise, you are in danger of being divided.

If you admire him, if he is not a free man like you, let him be your conversation partner, and don't get too close to him. If you really care about him, you should learn to keep him in your heart.

2. Decide to love someone, slow down and see if this person is really the one you want and suitable for you; Choose, love, give him room to breathe freely, give him time to adjust himself, and tenderness will also make the person you love escape.

3, not bad, thoughts and wisdom can help. Also, work hard.

Listen to good music, watch beautiful scenery, read favorite books, do favorite things, make friends with good taste, and wear beautiful clothes (if conditions permit), so as to make himself a landscape that is always worth appreciating in his eyes.

I'd rather be alone than let any man accompany you. Don't accept the kindness of strange men easily, and don't accept gifts (especially clothes and valuables) from men you don't like. Enjoy loneliness. Or learn to pass away loneliness.

It is a pleasure to have tea and chat with good friends, but don't accept the invitation of men you don't like: taking chopsticks in restaurants will promote intimacy, while in coffee shops it will add ambiguity to each other, so don't confuse yourself.

6. Don't respond to a man you don't like (even if he refuses). Silence and indifference are respect and love for him. If you meet him head-on on some occasion, greet him politely, just pretend that he didn't tell you anything and you don't know anything.

7. If your friend has a soft spot for you, but you are not interested in him, you must stop him from confessing. Otherwise, you may lose this friend, and you can't stop it. You can temporarily alienate him and let him know your heart. I believe he will understand and respect you and continue to be your friend.

8. The common mistake women make is to give up the whole forest for one tree. In order to love someone, I am always willing to be a vassal, and I also confidently say that "love is my lifelong career."

9. Let the person you love know that a woman is a person first, and then a woman.

Tell him that you also have your own thoughts, opinions, wisdom and pursuits. Try to win his understanding, approval and support.

10, always remind yourself that love is not the whole of life. Work is always as important as love. Love makes life sweet, but work gives you confidence and security.

1 1. Be kind to those who are kind to you. If you can't be together, don't stop him from looking for another happiness; Be kind to the person you miss silently. If you can do it, don't embarrass him. If he has a heart, bless him sincerely, don't be sarcastic.

12. If you fall in love with someone you can't love, persuade yourself to give up. If it really doesn't work, try your best to fight for it. If you love the wrong person, you may have to pay an extraordinary price. If you are the weak side, prepare a retreat for yourself and give yourself a safe space: he who loves you may crush you, and you can stay here for the time being to avoid the wind and frost of the world and heal alone.

13. If he betrays you who love you, don't take revenge by destroying himself. It may make another person sad to fall into his arms easily, but it is himself who is really hurt. Living an honest and dignified life will make him regret leaving you.

14, the doctrine from India says: sincere and passionate love may hurt you, but it is the only way to make your life complete.

15 So, I believe it was love at first sight. Trust the people you love. If he says "I love you" repeatedly, trust his love and take care of his true feelings.

16, if you love him, think of him sincerely and treat him with the best you can think of; Keep communication and don't let misunderstanding pull us apart; If you are dissatisfied with him, try to let him know and give him a chance to explain and compensate; If he admits his mistake to you, forgive him in time: if it weren't for love, how could he give up his pride and you, so don't embarrass him.

17, if he always uses "busy" as an excuse, doesn't come to see you, doesn't care about your current situation and doesn't help you solve your troubles, please believe that his love has left, and don't be infatuated.

18, if you can't love, bury him in your heart. Don't be unreasonable, or he will be farther away from you and can't make a fool of himself. A lover whose heart has left, how can you love someone with your life and dignity? !

19, decided to leave a person, act quickly, don't drag your feet. If you are strong enough, you can start over crying and laughing. Don't let the betrayer see you cry.

20. If he has to, just stay where he loves and wait for him to come back. Let him know by action that you are willing to endure loneliness for him. This love can stand the test.

2 1. If he keeps moving forward, don't give him a chance to turn back. Never allow yourself to turn back, even if you still care about him. Ignore his waiting and let the pain and love go away together.

22. One person is not necessarily lonely, and two people are not necessarily lonely. Emotional things make feelings the decisive factor. You can accept help, but never rely on it.

23, only humble men and women, no humble love.

If you are sure that similar souls are pulling you together, if you are sure that he is still proud of having you after 20 years, then accept him and don't mind the worldly eyes.

24, a woman loves a man, and a man often becomes her whole; A man loves a woman, and a woman is just the spark in his life. Therefore, smart women will not easily get involved in love, smart women will not often complain because they know, and smart women have sustenance besides love.

The road you have traveled can't go back. No matter how to retain it, it will lose its original intention. Perhaps tears are a kind of happiness, doomed to tears can not go back to the original place.