How can we cultivate a confident and independent child?

1, communicate with children on an equal footing.

When children encounter unhappy things, parents should let them express their thoughts and opinions, without criticism or judgment. Over time, children will share everything with us, and parents will become friends with children who talk about everything, which is of great benefit to the growth of children's self-confidence!

2. Encourage and affirm children.

To cultivate children's self-confidence, parents and teachers should pay more attention to their advantages, encourage and affirm their children, and let them gain self-confidence in the affirmation and encouragement of adults; Even if the child does something wrong, parents should not blame and reprimand him, so as not to dampen the enthusiasm of the child and his self-confidence.

3. Let children feel the experience of success.

We can start with simple things, let children experience success, and then improve their interest and motivation for success.

4. Let children learn to be independent.

Cultivate children's sense of independence from an early age, take the initiative to talk to the teacher and finish their homework independently. Parents sometimes underestimate their children's independence, but at the same time they also hurt their self-confidence.

Step 5 tap the bright spot

Don't compare with others, compare with children's past, and let children see their progress. Some children will be confident because they are better at playing chess than others; Some children will feel that they are a very powerful person, because telling stories is very vivid; Some children will feel powerful because they run faster than others. Parents should pay attention to observing the bright spots on their children and fully tap and cultivate their specialties.

Step 6 be more patient

Parents must patiently cultivate their children's independence. The cultivation of independence depends on the maturity of the body and nature and the acquired learning. When a child encounters a problem, let him think about how to solve it. Parents can't ask their children to complete tasks perfectly and answer questions satisfactorily. Never say to your child, "You are wrong, let me do it!" Doing so will dampen children's enthusiasm and affect the cultivation of independent personality.