What does a woman who chooses to divorce at the age of 50 think in her heart?

Many women will complain that they have devoted their whole lives to their families and children and never made a good life for themselves. Therefore, I am unhappy all my life and feel wronged all my life, but I will continue to make do like this. However, there are also many women who get along well with their other half in the first half of their lives, but after middle-aged and elderly people, they will divorce because of some trivial matters.

So are they really doing this just because they don't want to make do anymore? The topic we are discussing today is, what do women who choose to divorce at the age of 50 think in their hearts? They told the truth.

Ms. Luo, 53 years old (my ex-husband and I divorced last year because I accidentally broke one of his teapots)

The reason why I divorced my ex-husband is really just a small matter. Because he likes drinking tea, but he doesn't know how to clean the tea set after drinking it. Besides, there are several sets of tea-making utensils at home, so I sometimes feel very tired when I help her clean up those tea sets every day.

Once, I was a little angry when I was cleaning up his tea set, and I accidentally broke one of his teapots, so the contradiction began. He talks about it every day, which really annoys me. Finally, when he nagged again, I divorced him in a rage. We ended our relationship for 30 years because of such a trivial matter. It's a pity to think about it now

Ms. Chen, 58 years old (I don't know what I thought at first, I hope my life will be better after divorce)

When I got divorced, I didn't know what I was thinking at first. Maybe it's because of the resentment that makes a mickle. When I was young, I always felt wronged to marry him, but I put up with it for the sake of my children. I thought I had endured so many years when I was young, and I didn't care about those years when I was old.

However, I divorced him. Maybe I didn't know until I was old. A woman should live for herself once. I didn't know when I was a child, but now I know when I am old. I hope it's not too late. I also hope that I can live a better life after divorce.

Ms. Xiao, 52 years old (maybe she wants to live for herself once, meet different people and see different scenery)

I was just 50 when I got divorced. At that time, my son had just got married, and it made me feel a little uncomfortable to watch my son take care of his daughter-in-law for a long time. Because I remember that I have been with my ex-husband for so many years, but I have never felt the feeling of being cared for by my beloved, and my heart is very sad.

So I divorced my ex-husband regardless of opposition. Maybe I want to live for myself once. I want to meet different people, see different scenery and enjoy life. Instead of serving one person all his life, there is no self and no freedom.

Everyone wants to be happy all his life without regrets. Some people, because they met the right person, realized this wish. However, some people will miss happiness because they don't know how to cherish it, leaving a lot of regrets. But more people, because they met the wrong person, have been making do all their lives and never lived, so there are also many people in their fifties who divorced and then chose to live for themselves.

In fact, there is no real misfortune in life, mainly depending on what you think in your heart. Open-minded people will live happily in difficult times, while stubborn people will feel that they are not doing well even if they have more.