Some words, I don't want to say if I can bear them.

The more I fear, the more I argue, the more I encounter rotten things, the more I complain, the more I fall into a vicious circle, the more I explain, the more I get misunderstood …

Read a passage by Liu Tong:

I deeply believe that life is a game, and there is no right or wrong.

What can't change you will eventually be used by you.

If you argue, you will be relieved if you endure it.

Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, right and wrong, and arguments.

Many times, a small thing, a word, a look, can completely detonate a person.

What can avoid all unnecessary disputes is not waiting for others to change, but starting with learning to actively block and not argue.

There is a story in Zhuangzi:

A man named Shi Chengqi heard that the world praised Laozi, so he traveled across mountains and rivers to visit Laozi.

When he saw Lao Tzu, he saw Lao Tzu's simple appearance and extremely ordinary residence, and he couldn't help but say with disappointment:

"People say you are a saint, but I think you are more like a mouse."

Lao Tzu saw his one eye, lowered his head and continued to read his book, ignoring him.

Afterwards, Shi Chengqi felt that he had gone too far and went to Lao Tzu to apologize.

I didn't expect Lao tze not to heart, also said to him:

"What you say is what you think, which can't affect me or change me."

Life is a game, and there are many frictions caused by trivial things and unprovoked malicious, ironic and random comments …

And these are not negotiable, because it is not others who can hurt you, but your care.

If you care about everything, instead of arguing, you will always encounter rotten people and things.

When you don't care, don't argue and have nothing in your heart, it's a good time on earth.

If you complain, you will be strong if you endure it.

I have to get up early the next day when I am sick and insomnia, I am one minute late for punching in at work, and I am so busy at noon that I forget to order takeout. My life and work are exhausted by various complicated relationships ...

There are so many bad things every day that people can't help but want to complain, vomit and even give up.

However, I don't know from which day on, we began to vent our emotions less recklessly.

It is said that the older you get, the less courageous you are. In fact, it's not that your courage is getting smaller, but that we gradually understand:

It is useful not to complain.

All the bad emotions that are vented at one time will need to pay a higher price in the future.

I like this passage very much:

The world of adults, like roads, is difficult to get into the sky.

Only through self-crossing, can we struggle forward in the difficult and rugged.

Struggle and advance, and you can struggle for a good time in life.

What can't change you will eventually be used by you.

There is such a hot topic in Weibo: What is the real reason why you are unhappy?

I especially like the same one. Answer:

Most of us are upset because we spend time on unimportant people and things, and gradually forget to love ourselves when we are entangled.

And to change this vicious circle, the method is nothing more than:

Stay away from people and things that make you unhappy, cultivate chrysanthemums in your heart and enjoy them.

To see through a person, you don't have to expose it, you just need to stay away silently;

You don't have to make it clear, you just need to analyze it calmly.

Do not argue, do not complain, do not explain, but also quietly strong.

If nothing happens, it is the best revenge for malice.

Living well is the best care for yourself.