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How should the teacher handle this unexpected situation when students tear the test paper face to face?

First of all, every student comes from a different family, and everyone has his own temper. The students tore paper in front of the teacher. In fact, few people deliberately provoke teachers, but more for two possibilities: first, he wants to vent; Second, he wants to communicate.

In the face of this unexpected situation, teachers should first face it rationally. If you are a child who wants to vent, you are generally straightforward, and anger comes and goes quickly. If you talk to him about this later, he will be embarrassed himself. If you are a child who wants to communicate, under normal circumstances, the teacher is an elder after all, and most students still have awe of the teacher. Dare to tear the paper in front of the teacher, which shows that the student is paranoid, and there must be a lot of resentment at the moment of tearing the paper. Don't yell at him at this time, let yourself calm down and deal with class affairs normally, and then communicate with him well when he calms down.

Secondly, teachers should reflect on themselves. Everyone does everything for a reason, and of course students tear up test papers. You can think about whether you have stimulated him in words or actions. If it is because of yourself, find a time to communicate sincerely with the students, and don't lose face because of the dignity of the teacher. I think it may be difficult for everyone to understand why this extreme behavior has become a way of communication, because he subconsciously doesn't really believe that his words can have an impact on others. Maybe he was used to being perfunctory by people around him since he was a child, and he could only attract others' attention in this way.

Finally, to untie the knot, there is no need to treat students' behavior as harm to themselves, because children of this age are actually very emotional, they have too much confusion, but they lack enough courage to face it. Communicate calmly between teachers and students, understand what happened, ask him if he has encountered any difficulties, and make sure that he feels your love for him, so that he is willing to open his heart to you and the relationship between teachers and students can develop harmoniously.

In short, when students do some behaviors that make teachers feel that teachers' dignity is challenged, they should first calm down, face rationally, tolerate students' mistakes, allow them to make mistakes, and educate them to correct them. Only in this way can they gain the respect and love of children!