As the age approaches, teach your baby how to entertain guests.

As the age approaches, teach your baby how to entertain guests.

When the age is approaching, the baby will be taught how to treat guests. In a happy festival, the baby may not cooperate obediently and conform to everyone's mind and mood. Their indifference to the guests makes you embarrassed, and their naughty behavior when they go out to be guests makes you rude. Age will teach your baby how to treat guests.

When the age is approaching, teach the baby how to entertain guests at home and let him learn to blend in.

Mom spits: Every time a guest comes to my house, my son is very cold. Guests often come and hide in the room without even saying hello. That's rude. Being a mother is really embarrassing. ...

There are indeed some children who don't like to face guests, even like this one who hardly says hello. This may be partly due to children's introversion, but it is also largely due to parents:

1. Parents don't have enough social education for their children. Sometimes, socializing is very complicated for some children, and severe criticism from parents for mistaking their guests or unintentional impolite behavior may make them shy of socializing.

Solution: Parents should have a clear understanding of their children's learning status. Politeness is a learning process. Patiently tell children about family relations and etiquette. Don't reprimand children for making mistakes, but help them get out of embarrassment.

2. Parents intentionally or unintentionally exclude their children from socializing. When entertaining guests, do adults often talk and just put their children aside? Over time, children will think that adults are not their own communication objects and directly and actively exclude themselves from social communication.

Solution: the child can not be the protagonist, let him participate in entertaining guests. Parents can make an agreement with their children to help them pour water or serve tea when receiving guests, so that children can have the consciousness of being small masters and gradually integrate into society.

Go out and be a guest, with the help of the master's rules.

Mom spits: My child is a runaway horse when he goes out to be a guest. I dare not criticize him in front of outsiders!

Parents don't want their children to show good upbringing when they arrive at other people's homes, and show how decent their upbringing is. But the child is also very eye-catching, and he shows some annoying behaviors when he notices that his parents dare not scold him in other people's homes. In the face of this situation, don't accuse the child of being "impolite". If children accept our evaluation, it is natural to be rude outside.

It's a good idea to tell children the rules of homestay in advance. Usually, the restrictions set by outsiders are easier for children to accept, so foreign parents will choose to let the host tell their children the rules at home and enforce them by the host. However, in China, except for friends and relatives who are particularly familiar, it will make the host's family look embarrassed. However, parents can infer the rules of the host family according to their own understanding of the host family and tell their children, "Aunt and uncle don't like this, so they must abide by their rules when they come to their home."

It is important for parents to set an example in hospitality.

Politeness is always the first essence of people's communication, whether they are going out to be guests or receiving guests at home. The key to cultivating children's politeness from an early age is that parents are role models.

Parents' habits of treating people and public habits are role models for children. If parents behave differently when treating guests, or treat people impolitely in public, it will become the reason why children treat guests impolitely. Because children will imitate the behavior of adults.

Whether parents are polite to their children will also affect their behavior. Parents ask their children to be polite, but they are often rude to them, such as asking them to help without saying thank you and rudely interrupting their statements. Then, children can easily learn this attitude.

It's hard to imagine that parents who are lukewarm to the guests who come home can raise a hospitable child. Only when parents treat guests with courtesy and enthusiasm can children learn to treat guests with courtesy and enthusiasm better and be an educated young master.

Whether it is a holiday or a normal day, there may be guests at home. How you receive visitors is related to how children treat them. Because every move, word and deed when you receive guests will be seen by children, and then children will learn to treat guests like you. Therefore, if you want your children to be polite and educated, you should try to set an example for them to be polite.

At the same time, parents should also teach their children to be polite to their children and tell them not to grab food and toys with small guests, because that is very unfriendly behavior. Let them know that if they are impolite and unfriendly to small guests, they may not be warmly welcomed when they go to other people's homes in the future, and visiting guests will lose interest. Therefore, in order to make children more popular, and to make children leave a good reputation for hospitality to others, parents should pay attention to teaching their children how to entertain guests.

One Sunday morning, Ms. Zhou and her daughter watched TV quietly at home. Suddenly, someone knocked at the door. She is an old classmate of Ms. Zhou's husband. Ms. Zhou is also very familiar with him, so she warmly invited him into the house, sat him down and poured him a glass of water. After the conversation, Ms. Zhou learned that the other party was looking for her husband, so she said with regret: "He just went out and is expected to come back soon. I will call him and ask him to come back soon. "

During the period before Ms. Zhou's husband came back, Ms. Zhou chatted with him, talking about each other's wives and children. Time passed quickly, and soon Ms. Zhou's husband came back. Then Ms. Zhou went to the kitchen to prepare meals, and quietly ran to the kitchen to help her mother pick vegetables and wash them, especially seriously.

It's time for dinner. With the encouragement of Ms. Zhou, I quietly ran to my uncle, warmly invited him to dinner, and then cooked a big meal for everyone. When eating, Jingjing unexpectedly helped her uncle with food, and was praised loudly by her uncle. She felt very happy. After this hospitality experience, I quietly became sensible. When another guest comes to the house as a guest, she no longer watches TV alone, but stands up to greet the guest, then pours water for the guest and chats with the guest.

Every parent wants his child to be a polite and educated little gentleman or lady. Children also want to be welcomed by everyone, and they also want to be little gentlemen and ladies that everyone loves. Therefore, it is necessary for parents to cultivate their children's manners. As long as parents educate them properly, little gentlemen and ladies will be by your side.

The so-called proper education refers to educating children by example. When guests come home, it is a good opportunity for parents to set an example to educate their children. Children will learn how to entertain guests like their parents. From this perspective, parents must not neglect their guests, otherwise their children may treat their guests with arrogance in the future. How to cultivate children's hospitality? You can try to start from the following aspects.

Cultivate children's manners.

How can children get along with guests when they have guests at home? Parents need to explain this problem to their children and let them understand certain rules. For example, I heard someone knocking at the door, opened the door and said "Please come in"; When you meet relatives and friends, you should take the initiative to greet the guests according to their titles. For elderly and frail guests, encourage children to help you walk. Then take out the refreshments and share them with the guests. You should not look unhappy or eat them alone. If the guest brings a gift to the child, let the child pick it up with both hands; When the guest asks questions, let the children answer generously. It's best not to coquetry or lose your temper in front of guests. When adults are talking, let the children be quiet, and it is best not to interrupt rudely; If there are small guests, let the children take out their toys and play with them; When eating, you can't move chopsticks until the guests are completely seated; When the guest leaves, remind the child to send the guest to the door or the elevator door.

Set a civilized example for children.

There is an old saying: "Go straight to be right." As parents, if children are required to be polite, they should first set an example. Parents have the most direct and profound influence on their children, and their example is the most vivid and practical education for their children. Parents should make full use of the opportunity of having guests at home to demonstrate to their children, so that children can see their parents' every move, see their parents' politeness and enthusiasm, and gradually form a polite hospitality character.

There is a girl named Lily. She knew how to talk about polite expressions such as "hello", "please" and "sorry" from an early age. Friends, relatives and neighbors all praised her as a polite child. When the guests came home, her performance was even more applauded. The reason why Lily is so polite and hospitable is inseparable from her mother's example. Her mother is a shop assistant with high civilization and quality. She always warmly receives guests at home. Under the influence of her mother, Lily gradually learned manners.

Evaluate the children's hospitality.

Parents' reactions are usually very stimulating to their children. When there are guests, if parents point out their children's good performance and praise them in time, the children will be very happy. After the guests leave, parents can comment on their children's performance again, affirm their good grades, point out their shortcomings and tell them how to correct them.

It is worth noting that if children make mistakes in the process of receiving guests, such as breaking cups and soiling the dining table, parents should never criticize them face to face, protect their self-esteem and enthusiasm, pay attention to their motives and despise the consequences for their mistakes, and forgive their inexperience.

We should know that children's good habit of being polite to guests is not formed overnight, but depends on constant education, training and strengthening at ordinary times. Young parents should always create educational situations for their children, so that children can be constantly hinted and edified, and consolidate their warm and polite behavior, which will greatly promote the cultivation of their good habits.