My brother-in-law ate and drank for free 10 years, but my husband and I only ate 1 year. Grandma, do I eat old people?

At present, the word "gnawing at the old" is quite popular, but it also makes many people feel ashamed. I have never seen other neets, but my brother-in-law and sister-in-law are definitely one. When I married my husband, my mother-in-law lived in a bungalow. When my brother-in-law got married, in order to make room for him, we took the initiative to move out and bought a building in the county with our own loan. My mother-in-law symbolically gave a down payment of 20,000 yuan.

In this way, my husband and I live alone, and my brother-in-law and his sister-in-law live with my mother-in-law. Supposedly, this is also a kind of exclusion, but just last year, after my mother-in-law's bungalow was demolished, all the things about eating and drinking Lazar were suddenly turned out. My mother-in-law even said that my husband and I are gnawing at the old, so let's talk about how this has been gnawing, and how our days came in the year of marriage 10.

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Speaking of which, I'm a little sad. Of course, the house price before 10 was not higher than now, but we earned less at that time. My husband and I just got a salary of 1000. But the monthly mortgage is 400 to 500. In order to save money, I didn't go to the supermarket to buy a lot of vegetables, but went to my mother's house in the village to buy Chinese cabbage, wax gourd and the like. I remember when we were in the most difficult time, only 12 yuan was left at home. Children want to eat chicken legs, and we can't even buy them. But in this way, we never reached out to borrow a penny like our mother-in-law. Later, my salary rose slowly, and my husband went out to work as an accountant, so our life gradually improved.

Life with my brother-in-law and sister-in-law is much more nourishing. First of all, I don't have to pay the mortgage. My mother-in-law and I eat and drink Lazar together, and we never have to spend money to buy flowers for dinner. This is 10 year. After 10, the young couple could only go in and out, saved a lot of money and bought a car. Their children eat and drink Lazar like grandmothers. Specifically, my brother-in-law gave birth to a son. My daughter's mother-in-law gave her 100 yuan for her third birthday. Others didn't think of buying anything for her granddaughter because they didn't live together.

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The problem now is that my mother-in-law's bungalow was demolished and three houses were changed. Mother-in-law means selling the house we have paid off now, and then we will buy three houses, one for our mother-in-law and one for our brother-in-law. I think it's good, because I don't have to pay the mortgage anymore. But my mother-in-law mentioned that because there is no separation, we have to pay all the money for the house we returned after we sold it, which is everyone's. Of course I don't agree, but my mother-in-law has an idea, saying that if you don't agree to sell the house and give me the money, then my new house won't be yours.

In the end, there is nothing we can do. I have to sell the house that has paid off the mortgage. Excluding the outstanding mortgage, the house earned 654.38 million yuan+. This 654.38+ ten thousand yuan is in the mother-in-law's pocket. My mother-in-law kept her promise and gave us a new house. One community has two suites, and the other is in other communities. My brother-in-law asked for another set first, so we had to choose a house in a residential area with my mother-in-law

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I live in a community with my mother-in-law, but my mother-in-law says that you are very busy at work and have no time to cook for your children at noon. We live nearby, so come to my house to eat. I didn't expect my mother-in-law to be so considerate, and we agreed happily. But just after eating for a year, my mother-in-law was immediately unhappy, saying that I only had a little retirement salary, and your family of three came to eat every day. Isn't this gnawing at the capital? I said, didn't I just eat it for a year? Brother-in-law and sister-in-law lived with you for 10 years and ate 10. How come you never said that they are eager to have a good old age?