What are the main causes of domestic violence for female white-collar workers who abuse their husbands?

What are the main causes of domestic violence?

1. Misplaced concepts. Covetous extramarital affairs lead to domestic violence. With the reform and opening up and the establishment of the market economic system, people's ideas have undergone profound changes. In the fierce collision of various traditional, modern, local, and foreign thoughts, cultures, concepts, and customs, some people have lost their way in their thoughts, and their moral concepts, especially the moral concepts of marriage, have been misaligned. Some men regard being mean as fashion and use having "extramarital affairs" as capital to show off to others. Some men live illegally with their "second wives" for a long time and have children. Back

The family of the tragic actress who suffered domestic violence "picked her nose and raised eyebrows" and made her "different" and forced her to divorce under various pretexts. What's more, she even included her The "second wife" takes the wife home to live and drives the wife out of the house. If the wife resists a little, domestic violence will result. In the survey, there were 60 cases of domestic violence caused by extramarital affairs, accounting for 30%.

2. Some people have twisted personalities and bad conduct. Directly trigger domestic violence. Some men have twisted personalities and often have unreasonable suspicions about their spouses' improper lifestyles. They do not allow their spouses to talk to the opposite sex or to supplement the family income by working outside the home to make money. If their spouses resist, they will be subject to domestic violence; some young men and women are infected with bad habits and spend all day long. They are greedy for fun, idle, and engage in gambling, drinking, and prostitution. Some of them run rampant in the countryside and endanger the people. They are bullies that everyone hates. These people have no sense of family responsibility and go home to show off when something doesn't go their way. For example, after losing money in gambling, he forces his wife to borrow money. If she cannot borrow the money, she will be violent. If the wife wants to file for divorce, she will be intimidated and intimidated by them. She often swallows her anger and dare not report it. Such cases accounted for 22.5 of the total.

3. Domestic violence is caused by serious male-centered or female-centered thoughts. In the past, people often thought that male chauvinists tended to like beating and scolding their wives, but research by foreign sociologists has refuted this view. On the contrary, feminine men are often more likely to commit domestic violence. Experts explain that feminine men tend to be more sensitive and sometimes care about everything. Especially after being suppressed by their wives for a long time, they are very easy to be impulsive or beat their wives over trivial matters in order to satisfy their self-esteem. In addition, some women have serious feminist ideas and are self-centered. They often deliberately insult and belittle their husbands, and sometimes punch and kick them, which in turn triggers domestic violence.

4. Historical reasons and social reasons. From the perspective of historical development, my country's long-standing traditional patriarchal ideology of "men are superior to women" has gained ground in the current market economic situation; from a social perspective, firstly, there is de facto inequality in the status of women in our country; secondly, in society Most people believe that "domestic violence is a matter within the family" and "it is difficult for an upright official to resolve household affairs." The low degree of labor socialization and the fact that fertility risks are basically borne by women themselves have put women in a situation where they are laid off, have high unemployment rates, and find it difficult to re-employ. According to statistics, as of September this year, there were 129,500 registered unemployed women in cities and towns in our province, accounting for 48.6% of the total. Most of the women on the job are still engaged in heavy and simple labor. According to the survey, among 97 families, Women's income is lower than that of men. There is indeed a certain gap in the actual income between men and women. Compared with men, women still belong to the low-income group. In rural areas, especially women in remote and poor areas, most women do not have independent financial resources and control over the family economy. This has resulted in the fact that they rely too much on their husbands financially. Some women are even regarded by their husbands as a burden on their lives. , often suffered domestic violence for asking her husband for living expenses.

5. Judging from the situation of men suffering from domestic violence, there are mainly three situations: First, women’s economic income is much higher than that of men, and men have low incomes or are old and frail after being laid off. If you cannot stand upright at home, your family status will be reduced. Once there is a conflict between husband and wife, they will definitely not be able to gain the upper hand mentally, and their physical actions will naturally not be as ruthless as those of women. Another situation is the physical disparity between the couple. The woman is tall and strong, but the man is short and thin, and his emotional foundation is not very good.

When a couple's quarrel escalates into a fight, short men are often no match for women. Another situation is that women have an affair and become more and more dissatisfied with men. Once a man discovers his inappropriate behavior, they rely on having an outside backer and beat the man violently. Some even team up with a third party to beat the man. Professor Hao Maishou, an expert on elderly issues at the Tianjin Academy of Social Sciences, believes that female despotism is the main reason why men encounter domestic violence, and China's long-term patriarchy is the soil for female despotism.

6. Relevant departments do not pay enough attention to the issue of domestic violence. Leaders of some units believe that domestic violence is an internal matter within the family and do not interfere or intervene. Some judges blindly mediate reconciliation and do not rule on divorce when victims are seeking divorce because they cannot bear the domestic violence, thus making the perpetrators even more unscrupulous. commit acts of violence.

7. Our country’s current laws do not yet have relatively complete prevention measures. Measures to curb domestic violence lack a law enforcement supervision system. In terms of legislation, laws to protect the personal rights of family members and curb domestic violence are scattered in various laws, which are strong in principle and poor in operability.

8. Legal publicity and education are not carried out extensively and deeply enough.

Many citizens do not realize that domestic violence is a tort and an illegal act. However, public opinion adopts a tolerant attitude towards this but fails to condemn it in a timely and vigorous manner, which has no deterrent effect on those who cause violence.