Why do you feel that you don't like to laugh as you grow up?

Laughter is fun, kind, friendly and happy.

The older you get, the more things you experience, and knowing the truth of the world, it's hard to laugh anymore.

The reason for this is the following：

1. The older people get, the more things they experience. What used to be funny has now become understanding and tolerance. I feel that everyone is not easy and has difficulties.

2. I used to look at everyone very cute, and I thought it was very kind and fun. The more I grow up, the more I feel selfish and ugly, and the more I feel that everyone has ulterior secrets.

Everyone is not easy, and will experience some troubles and worries. It's really flat. After the rough seas, people will return to calm after the meeting, instead of being excited and happy. This is a normal psychological change.

But on the contrary, some people who live completely like to laugh as they grow up. This is a person who knows the truth of life but still loves life!

Most of us are ordinary people, even if we die of old age, it is difficult to live a complete life.

So most people are, the more they grow up, the less they like to laugh.

Seeing that this topic has aroused ripples in my heart, I really feel the same problem, so I will talk about it from my own point of view;

I am a little Aries who loves to laugh naturally. As we all know, Aries is sunny, frank and naive. I don't think this is too much.

I have been a very simple girl since I was a child, which may be related to the better protection of my family. I really felt that the world was beautiful and people were kind, and this feeling continued until I was 27 years old.

Before that, I was really the kind of person who put all my feelings on my face. If I meet happy things, I really like to share them with my good friends. When I'm sad, I just pull my face down and digest them myself. At that time, I felt that I was simple-minded, persistent and just did my own thing, so I was still a girl who loved to laugh. Everyone says I am sunny, and my friends around me are generous.

After entering the society and starting work, I was really knocked down at first, and I couldn't adapt for a long time. I feel depressed every day. For nearly a year, I didn't laugh, which made my family very worried about me.

I find that the world of adults is really not easy. You have a lot to think about, and there is no fence around you. Everyone is very cautious and even intrigues for their own rights. Although my elders told me that this is society, it is really painful for me to transform from my previous cognitive world, so I seldom laugh.

I also began to learn to hide my emotions. There is nothing on the surface, and my heart is already choppy. This is my initial mental journey.

There is no need to harm people, and there is no need to prevent people. Society has taught me to keep everything in my heart, think more and think twice before you act. I found that my real world has been deeply hidden in the corner of my heart, and I don't want it to return to the surface.

Growth always comes at a price.

When we grow up, society will teach us a lot.

Life experience is rich, contacts are broad, things are bleak, daily chores are frequent, and life pressure is great. For people with a good attitude, the pressure is great and many things have passed. But for people who are prone to depression, they are sensitive, sensitive and sentimental, so who can always keep a smiling heart?

Of course, what I said is only a negative angle. Even if life treats us like a stepmother, we should treat life like our first love! I believe nothing is impossible! Laugh more, at least on the outside, it gives people a positive feeling, but deep down, you still need to recuperate slowly.

I used to like laughing, hehehe ... hehehe. ...

However, as time goes on, with the growth of age, I don't want to laugh more and more, and I can't laugh more and more!

I like to laugh!

With the reform and opening up, our country has developed rapidly!

The country is prosperous and the people live and work in peace and contentment.

People's lives are guaranteed: subsistence allowances, medical insurance, social security, education and security.

Get better every day.

Our life is full of sunshine and happiness!

Why can't I laugh? These are the reasons: First, with the extension of time, people's knowledge has accumulated, life experience has increased, and it has settled in the inner world. Experience and failure in life, thinking repeatedly, over time, cause emotional changes. Secondly, people's knowledge structure and social cognition are constantly changing. Let your personality gradually change, calm and sophisticated. You can't laugh! Secondly, nature lacks a sense of humor and humor! Is a serious person, even an old-fashioned person. You can't laugh! Furthermore, it is the people, things and events in life that are not worth laughing at, or are not funny at all, and can't make you laugh. Even the funniest Tik Tok, you have nothing to laugh at!

As the saying goes, smile and be ten years old! Laughter can cure diseases and prolong life! Laughter can resolve embarrassing situations, improve good interpersonal relationships and expand one's contacts on some occasions. Medical authorities have also proved the benefits of laughter. What a good laugh! So how to change the situation of not wanting to laugh when you grow up? First of all, learn from humor masters, learn from funny masters, cultivate your sense of humor and develop a funny character. Secondly, read more humorous stories and cartoons, listen to cross talk and cultivate your own humorous cells. Thirdly, you should love life, be cheerful, don't be too serious and rigid about life, be an amiable person, and be an easy-going person. Finally, we should learn and master humorous skills, download or buy humorous books and materials, and practice and use them constantly. "Rome was not built in a day." Over time, you will become a humorous person. Add a joy to life.

You are the cutest person!

With the growth of age and experience, there is less and less carefree when you are young. After all, the happiness of youth is given to me by my parents. Family responsibilities and the pressure of life are on my shoulders more and more, so it's hard to smile.

Hi ~, hello, I'm glad to answer your questions and solve your doubts.

I used to be a child. When I was a child, I often looked forward to growing up quickly. When I was a child, I especially liked the seven colors in the Chinese book published by Beijing Normal University.

When I was a child, I always wanted to grow up quickly and be able to do what I wanted, without being punished by adults, without going to school, reading and doing homework ... In short, I didn't know how to be blessed when I was a child, so cute and irritating.

When I was young, my smile was a child's smile. She is naive and scheming, and can't pretend. Laugh happily, and she can cry if she wants to. It is said that children's world is beautiful, children are always carefree, and some people carry them when they make big mistakes. This is a good time to let yourself laugh every day.

When we grow up, we read a lot of books, received education, made our thoughts rational, saw the gap between reality and ideal, and saw some people and things clearly. The territory of happiness in our hearts has given way to evil, and our hearts have begun to learn complex thinking. We gradually know that we can't laugh on every occasion, no matter how many people can do it all the time. Even if our hearts are still children's stand-alone mode, some people have long counted you among adults because of your age and unconsciously "forced" your soul. The helpless and easy-to-use way is to laugh less, pretend to be mature and pretend to be well integrated into society. But there is also a kind that when people finish something, laughter will hinder it, so people will be more inclined to the former to do things well and laugh happily, which is also a sign of maturity.

I'll stop here. I hope it helps you.

Yesterday was cruel, today is cruel, and tomorrow is beautiful. You laugh, the whole world laughs with you, you cry, and only you cry.

I don't like laughing more and more. One is that it has become a habit for adults to live with masks and deliberately make an old-fashioned image.

Another possibility is that with the growth of age, the pressure of life increases, there are more problems to consider, and there are too many things in my heart, and I don't want to laugh more and more.

However, people often say that "it's better to laugh than to cry", and always find something happy. Life is bittersweet. Although we don't have to laugh all the time, happiness is more enjoyable than pain.

If you want to laugh more, you can read more jokes or humorous stories.

The second is to make friends, make more cheerful friends and tolerate their emotional contagion;

Third, you should talk to your heart, reflect on yourself, what makes you unhappy, know yourself and let go of everything.

There are many things that are not satisfactory, but even if they are not satisfactory, as long as they are worthy of your heart, let it be.

A young smile is a smile from the heart. From the inside out, I feel happy without worries and worries, protected by my family, sheltered from the wind and rain by my parents, without making money by myself or worrying about the future.

When I grow up, I have to face many things independently, such as work, promotion, salary increase, interpersonal relationship handling and so on. I'm too tired to laugh when I come back every day. And the older you get, the more you see the world, the greater your desire. If you can't satisfy your desires, you will doubt yourself and have a clearer understanding of yourself. Suddenly I feel that I have become an annoying person. Even if you laugh, you will laugh against your will. Sometimes you just want to cry in a corner where no one is around and laugh it off.

Everyone will grow up! Everyone thinks how happy and short the time of youth is! Ignorance as a teenager, fearlessness as a teenager, is also the joy as a teenager in retrospect. How much joy an ignorant teenager has is the cornerstone that parents try to hold up to make you happy!

Grow up! I found myself no longer that ignorant teenager! I suddenly feel a great responsibility! Looking at the aging body of parents, watching children grow up with age and find their lack of knowledge! Look at the hard work of making a living! Laughter has really become a bit extravagant!

But why can't we laugh? God said that when a door closes, it will open a window for you. Buddhists say that each other is born in the heart! Confucianism says, loyal to the king! Everyone in the world has their own troubles! This is what you will experience when you grow up!

May you really face life! Don't give up the reason to laugh because of short disappointment! This is just a story of life!