This article is written for the woman who runs in the fifth grade: Please stop complaining to everyone.

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Life is like a rushing flood, which keeps rushing forward. If you have love in your heart, you will have more happiness in your heart. If you have too many desires in your heart, you will have a lot of troubles.

Looking back, some women who have spent half their lives are plain and sweet, and some women only taste the pain of life. In fact, life is the same, the difference is everyone's mentality.

If you are narrow-minded, you feel that everything is not satisfactory. You always feel that you have more to lose. You don't feel a trace of beauty in life, you complain. The good old days turned you into a pool of stagnant water.

People who complain to everyone are actually eager to be understood and sympathized. Psychologically, it is pointed out that such people have "negative psychology".

Mencius said, "Knowing the other is important, knowing the other is important."

In this world, few people can feel the pain of others. There is not much difference between saying and not saying. Depression can't be solved by speaking it out, but by really waking up and finding your own pure heart.

Please stop complaining to everyone, no one really understands you.

Sima Qian said: "The world is bustling for profit, and the world is bustling for profit."

The communication between people is mostly because of the involvement of interests, because it is profitable for you, so they will take the initiative to show you kindness and approach you.

No matter how depressed you are, if you tell them, they may not really understand and sympathize with you. Maybe they will look as bitter as you in front of you and turn around and laugh at you for being worthless.

If you are really depressed, a true friend will listen to you once or twice, enlighten you, but won't let you sink. No matter what kind of suffering, it will fade away with the passage of time. People still have to look forward and move forward. Don't keep talking, it doesn't make any sense.

You tell painful things over and over again, which means deepening your memory over and over again, worrying about yourself every day and living in the shadow of the past.

Your body will be full of negative energy, which will make many people afraid to communicate with you. Everyone's life is not easy. I don't want to remind myself of the sad past because of your story, so I will feel sore throat, tears will fall and my heart will hurt.

At the age of five, you should have seen through the vicissitudes of life and people's hearts and learned to be more interesting.

If you can't bring happiness to others, don't bother others with your sad mood easily. Time flies so quickly, it's better to relax yourself and stop being disappointed.

Stop complaining to everyone, no one will bear the burden for you.

Mao Mu said in "The Chains of Human Nature": People certainly pursue more than wealth, but they must live a dignified life, so that they can work unhindered, be generous, be aboveboard and independent.

When I was young, I did not feel the reality of life. I have a stable job, enough leisure time and nothing to think about. I live happily.

When people reach middle age, they feel that their desires are too difficult to satisfy. Obviously, they earn more and more money and are getting more and more tired. However, they don't feel relieved at all. The pressure is still great, anxiety and anxiety.

We may have made many good wishes, but few of them can be realized. Even so, don't let yourself be depressed and sad, but love life.

Accidents will happen. Maybe at this moment, you feel that life is not satisfactory. Maybe the next moment, disaster suddenly arrival, you realize that you don't know how to cherish.

So, don't complain, don't complain, you can try a different way of life, and maybe you will rediscover the beauty of life.

At the age of five, learn to rely on yourself.

Please stop complaining to everyone and find the beauty of life.

Everyone who lives in this world has his own responsibilities and burdens. No matter how difficult it is, we must stick to it. When you have gone through the trough and all the hardships, you will find that the light you see is brighter and the road will become more and more spacious as you move forward step by step.

There is such a term in psychology: it is called "aisle principle". This means that people will always encounter a dark corridor, and everyone wants to have a light on and then walk safely.

However, if you just wait at first, you will never know where the light is and have no chance to light it up.

So don't be afraid, don't be timid, don't expect to face the unknown fate with complaints, but try to move forward, take one step, take another step and get through it. You will find that what you are afraid of is no longer a problem, and life is more exciting than you think.

Living in the present and living high seems like no one can really understand the ups and downs you have experienced, and there is no need to explain your life to anyone.

Trapped in negative emotions, you will ignore some small beauty and happiness in life, and you will miss the opportunities that are not easy to detect in life.

People live a lifetime, and the most important thing is to live up to their youth. No matter how fate is arranged, don't hesitate to take your own steps, just face it calmly.

05. Women who are in Grade Five, please stop complaining to everyone.

Telling is never a relief, but a manifestation of incompetence. If you want to change the status quo, you can only do it yourself, not say it.

Use your own experience and experience to solve difficult problems in life; Put down your face and face the test of life; Welcome every day with a smile, even if there is rain and darkness ahead, don't give up easily.

Giving up yourself and losing hope is the most terrible thing. Don't always see the bitterness of life, but firmly believe that there will be unexpected sweetness after suffering.

Stop complaining, think more about meaningful things, do something that can make you happy, smile more, hide all the vicissitudes in your heart, precipitate them into dust, and then completely remove them.

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Are you a complainer?