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Three Speaking Formulas for High Emotional Intelligence

1, when others praise you, you should learn to respond.

When many people are praised, they often just say thank you, or nothing, nothing. This expression makes others sound embarrassed. Remember that others praise you. You have to go back. Hello, I'm fine. Everyone is fine. It's really good. For example, others praise you: this dress you are wearing today is really beautiful! You can say: You have a good eye.

2. Ingeniously reject the three-step method.

Sorry to refuse directly, what should I do? Statement+suggestion+steps.

Step 1 is to make a declaration. Ok, don't worry, in this relationship between us, I will try to show my attitude first.

The second step is advice, which is very important to you. I suggest you ask more people. This is standing in the other side's position and considering the other side.

The third step is step. I'll find a way first. You can thank me if I can help, but don't blame me if I fail.

When thanking people or giving advice to others, you must say a few affirmative words first.

For example, when someone helps you, you can say: You are good-looking, you are reliable and likable. No wonder you are so popular.