During the Spring Festival reunion, are most of the words spoken by relatives really caring or sarcastic?

When you go home during the Spring Festival, you will inevitably have to visit relatives, or relatives will come to sit at home. Some relatives always ask questions when they see them, for example, have you found your partner? How much is the monthly salary? Have you bought a house? Many people resent being asked this question. I feel like the words spoken by relatives are not genuine concern. 1. When relatives ask questions, they seem to care about you. In fact, when they know that you are not doing well, they will be secretly happy in their hearts.

I often see this kind of scene. Many aunts and aunts gather together to chat. Each of the aunts and aunts is showing off how well their children are doing. After that, they will focus the topic on you and ask so-and-so, how much is your current salary?

When you quietly tell me how much your current salary is. When those aunts and uncles hear that your salary is higher than their children, they will shut up immediately and have a displeased expression on their faces.

When some aunts and uncles ask you if you have bought a house, they will have ugly expressions on their faces when you say you have bought a house.

In fact, it can be seen from their questions that they do not want you to live well. When you answer them that you are not living well, with low salary, no house or car, and great pressure, they will say on the surface that it is okay, young people should work hard, but in fact they are secretly thinking when they hear you say this. So cool.

2. Most relatives don’t want you to live a better life than them.

Everyone is jealous, especially relatives who like to compare with each other. When you are not as good as them, they will feel that they are very capable and happy. But when they find out that you are living a better life than them, they will become jealous, and they will alienate you intentionally or unintentionally. 3. The words spoken by relatives do not express concern.

Most of your relatives are not concerned about what they say to you. They just want to find out your true situation and make comparisons. However, there are also some relatives who really care about you, such as your brothers, sisters, and parents.

Do you think it is concern when your relatives ask you? What do you think of those relatives? Welcome to leave a message below!