Why do I often have the urge to chat with someone late at night?

I thought I was the only one with such thoughts and impulses!

I think people who can have such thoughts and impulses are actually very lonely and lonely people. Do you know why? Because generally happy people are those who are very stable, either have a good life or have someone to accompany them on their pillow, so they will not stay up late at night, then stay up late at night, and there is no one around them People who can chat are usually lonely people.

So why do you have this urge to chat with someone late at night? First of all, it’s because of late night. I have always felt that late night is actually very magical. I feel that no matter how cheerful and happy a person is during the day, he will always return to silence and loneliness late at night. This is probably because late at night, especially Quiet, without the hustle and bustle of the day, it is easier to calm down and think about some things, so some emotions may come up late at night. In addition, there may be people to get along with during the day, but for lonely people, they will feel even more lonely without company late at night, so they will have the urge to find someone to chat with.

I remember that I was like this before. During the period when I was falling out of love, it was okay during the day because there were many people with me, but at night it was easy for my emotions to overflow. I couldn’t bear the feeling of falling out of love alone. It's painful, so I really want to find someone to talk to to get through such a sad night, so I want to find someone to chat with.

I have always felt that such people really live an unhappy life. Let me tell you, it is actually not necessary. When late at night, go to bed early. Don’t stay up late. Sleep more peacefully, because late at night It is easiest to feel lonely and hypocritical. In fact, if you go to bed early, it will be a beautiful day when you wake up. Why should you deliberately spend that lonely night alone?