How to treat being isolated by colleagues?

Have the experience of being isolated. 0 1. Keep a clear head. Being isolated is often not your own fault.

When many people find themselves isolated by other colleagues, their first reaction is to feel that they have done something wrong and offended others, so they are isolated.

However, this is not the case. Many times, a group of people isolate you. The most likely reason is a misunderstanding. Secondly, it is not ruled out that it is because of following the trend, or because it is necessary to choose to take sides.

I joined a brand-new company after a job-hopping, but before I joined the company, the boss of the company blew me off.

It's hard for me. When I first arrived at the company, I was squeezed out by my old colleagues. What do you think I did wrong? Originally, I came with the mentality of "cooperator", but the result suddenly became "smashing the venue".

But think about it carefully, in fact, this is all caused by a little misunderstanding, otherwise, how could someone inexplicably introduce who?

We often say that everything has a cause, and this cause, more often, comes from some small misunderstandings. After all, in the workplace environment, everyone is an adult and no one is a fool. Isn't there anyone who doesn't understand that more is better than less?

So, when you find yourself isolated, don't rush to attack yourself. You should first think about it, is it because of some unresolved misunderstandings that other colleagues have distorted their views?

02. Don't compromise and keep your own style.

The feeling of being isolated is very unpleasant. In order to be able to return to the crowd, we should even make fun of ourselves and let other colleagues accept us.

But is this really the case? To tell the truth, this is really a big mistake!

There is an old saying in China that "those who respect themselves will always respect themselves", which means that those who know how to respect themselves will always be respected.

If you are isolated, you will become humble and suddenly weak, which will only make others feel:

"Oh, so your previous self-esteem is fake. Bully you, and you will be weak immediately. "

With this idea, do you think they will pity you or accept you again? No, they will only stay away from you and even ridicule you.

Therefore, the more unprincipled you are, the harder it is to reintegrate. The right thing to do is to keep your own style and pretend that it never happened.

In this way, people who isolate you can't see your jokes, and you can work with peace of mind and not be disturbed by such things.