On Children's Photography in Zhihu.

1. People who have never found great happiness have no right to ask others to reject ordinary happiness. People who have found great happiness have no intention of asking others to reject ordinary happiness.

2. Missing is a happy sadness, a sweet melancholy and a warm pain. Missing is a long precipitation of yesterday and a yearning for a better future. It is because of missing that I have the joy of reunion after a long separation, the unexpected surprise and the toast when friends and relatives get together.

3. When many people break up, they are always miserable, depressed, crazy and humble. But many years later, when you look back, you will find how ridiculous you were at that time.

4. I don't know what happiness is, but I know it is easy to spend every day happily; Cherish what you have now, very satisfied; Seize the time, no regrets, a sense of accomplishment. This may be a kind of happiness.

5. Happiness means sticking to what should be adhered to and giving up what should be given up.

6, see through but don't say it, a lot of things, as long as you know, there is no need to say it.

7. Happiness is a smile on the old man's brow, a perfect score on a child's report card, a gold military medal and a red flower.

8. Happiness has nothing to do with status, money, house size, beauty and ugliness, knowledge and age. It depends on desire, tolerance and mentality, inner cultivation and spiritual height.

9. What is love? Although the question is not very long, it is not so easy to answer. Love is entrusting life to you. Love is so real, and the understanding of love can be so ordinary, so this is love.

10, people in happiness may feel that they are not happy, because they are all living a happy life, and they have adapted to strange happiness and become meaningless. Gradually forgotten, eager to have more unique happiness, this desire will continue. At this time, the charm of happiness reappears, but all this will become ordinary, dull and calm.

1 1. Happiness in poverty is a cake, and happiness in adversity is a soul mate; Happiness is a rough touch from my father, and happiness is a warm note from my friends. Happiness is a gentle reminder from my mother, and happiness is a cordial greeting from my teacher.

12. Happiness never lies in what you have. Happiness lies in creating with your own ability and feeling with your heart. Happiness is created by oneself. Marx said: My happiness belongs to all mankind. With this as the goal, he devoted his life to the liberation of mankind and capitalism. He is happy. Madame Curie, Schubert and Balzac, they devoted their lives to the progress and civilization of mankind.

13, it is inevitable for a family to bump into each other, but they are always happy afterwards. A child lives in fear, and he learns to worry; A child lives with irony, and he learns to feel inferior; A child lives with encouragement and learns to be confident; I live in happiness, and I think what I have learned will be to treat everything sincerely.

14, happiness is an outing in the suburbs in spring, happiness is the care and love of family members when they go out, happiness is talking with their own shadows, happiness is a big talk between friends, there is no unnecessary concern, happiness is holding your hand and your son to grow old together, happiness is normal, happiness is leisure after busy, happiness is colorful flowers and lively leaves, and happiness is a gloomy day.

15 You are like a glass of wine. It looks charming, smells attractive, tastes a little spicy and has a sweet aftertaste.

16, happiness is like the wind, it comes and goes without a trace; Happiness is like honey, sweet to our hearts; Happiness is like the first drop of dew in the morning, so sweet and crystal clear. Happiness lasts for a short time, big and small, and there are all kinds of happiness.

17, although the joy of love is extremely sweet, it can only exist where glory and virtue exist.

18, butterflies love flowers and flowers are happy; Birds love trees, and trees are happy. Students, let the world be full of love! Only the pictures put together with love are beautiful, and only the sweaters woven with love are warm. Let people in the world live a happy life!

19, it is a kind of warmth to miss others, and it is a kind of happiness to be missed by others. I am very happy and satisfied that you have been to my world.

20. There is no standard for happiness, and everyone has a different understanding of happiness. Happiness is like a commodity in the market. True happiness makes people forget, while false happiness makes people regret and suffer. People who eat gold pots and silver spoons are unhappy; Those who wear coarse clothes and shoes and have no thoughts about tea and rice have never seen misfortune. A flower in this world, a drop of water, can be a source of happiness. Happiness has never had anything to do with wealth or status. People's happiness lies in the happiness in their hearts.

2 1, happiness is actually around you and me. As long as we can pay attention to life, observe every little thing around us, often clean our inner corners and dust off our hearts, we will be surprised to find that happiness is always around us!

22. Happiness is like a glass of water when you are thirsty; Happiness is like words of comfort when you are sad; When you are hungry, happiness is like a bowl of rice. Happiness makes you intoxicated and yearning. In the world, some people are looking for happiness, some people are creating happiness, and some people pass by happiness.

23. Happiness means having a warm home, where two fools look at each other without complaining. They are still willing to be together because you believe that happiness means being together for generations. Happiness is that no matter how many storms you experience outside, the light at home will always be on for you, and that fool at home will wait for you all your life, no matter what you become to each other. You will always be the most beautiful one in the other person's heart.

24. I once said that the image of loving you is only clear because of your face, but that is only your beautiful background.

25. The first thing I wake up every day is to spend ten minutes thinking about you, so I will be more motivated.

26. Be kind to a person desperately. If you are afraid of doing something wrong, the other person will not like you. It's not love, it's flattery. I love each other more after breaking up and can't live without him. This is not love, it is unwilling.

27, the five principles of happiness: no hate in my heart; There is no trouble in my mind; Life is simple; Pay more; Expect less.

28. Even the stupidest person will have wisdom when accusing others; Even the smartest person will be confused when forgiving himself.

29. We live in this world, and running constantly every day, even for life, is a secular need, not a spiritual need. Rich people may not find happiness; People in power may not find happiness. Happiness and happiness, in the final analysis, are not money and power, but a kind of inner peace and tranquility. We must not miss the beautiful scenery and happiness in front of us.

30. Love is always a thousand times. How can we love without being abandoned or hurt? Love turns out to be an experience. I hope people will last long.

3 1. Happiness is as equal as the old man giving everyone 24 hours a day. However, happiness is unfair because everyone has different attitudes. Pessimists believe that happiness is an unreachable horizon, unreachable; Optimists believe that happiness is around.

Don't worry about obedient men, and don't worry about disobedient men. Don't worry about men who are good to you, and don't let you worry about men who are not good to you. Don't worry about men who love you and those who don't. It's not your turn. A woman will be happy as long as she has a man in charge of herself. In fact, happiness is that simple.

33. Affection is a trickle, bringing sweet nourishment to the soul; Affection is a ray of soft sunshine, which makes the frozen heart melt silently; Family is a quiet harbor, which makes the fatigue of sailing disappear. Affection is white hair on parents' foreheads, infinite care and hope in parents' eyes, and affection is a beam of light in the dark, giving you an irreplaceable feeling and warmth of home. Yes, the best feeling in the world is human affection.

34. Happiness is not only giving, but also the joy of success after giving. Successful Olympic bid, China's entry into WTO, and the national football team's qualification. For this day, we have made endless efforts and waited for many years. Today, we got it. How can I not laugh tears? With the return of Hong Kong, the Pearl of the Orient no longer falls, Macao returns to its hometown, and the singing of Song of Seven Sons is no longer melancholy. All this is the sweat of countless people in China in the past 50 years. Chris Lee, BiBi Zhou, and He Jie, after many difficulties and hard work, finally stood out from hundreds of thousands of people and became super girls who were full of stars. They are happy; Guo Jingjing and Tian Liang began to practice diving from how old they were, and finally won the championship in Athens. They are happy; What about us? I have struggled silently for more than ten years, enriched my knowledge, learned to be a man and entered my ideal university. Isn't it also a kind of happiness for ordinary people?

Don't let money get in the way. A good life is not that expensive. Start to realize your recently feasible dream.

36. The more I want to know if I have forgotten, the clearer I remember. I once heard that when you can't have it anymore, the only thing you can do is not to forget it.

37. A happy life is as simple as that. It won't change because we are poor or rich. It will only change with our own thoughts. Happiness is an attitude, happiness is a science, happiness is a pursuit, and the so-called happiness is actually a way of life that can make you feel happiest.

38. What is a happy life? Is to open your eyes in the morning, see the sunshine filling the room, and smell the sunshine and the morning.

39. I hope parents will do less. First of all, I must do well. To make parents not worry, I have to make people worry first. Try to do a big thing, make the right decision, learn to take office, and share it with your parents regardless of the consequences, whether it is success or failure.

40. In the journey of life, of course, there are flowers and thorns. Don't stop for flowers, let alone for thorns everywhere. As a traveler, never give up the pursuit of happiness. Even if there is no tree to shelter you from the wind and rain, don't you still have a heart that can't get wet by the wind and rain? As long as you always have a happy heart and live your true self, you will be immersed in conscious happiness.

4 1, happiness is like a cup of fragrant tea. When drinking slowly, the faint fragrance overflows, refreshing and comfortable. Happiness is like a glass of red wine. No matter what kind of wine it is, you can always taste the thick sweetness in careful taste, which makes people intoxicated. Drunk body, drunk heart.

42. Will is the internal pursuit of life, and life is the external expression of life pursuit. Without will, life can't develop and life can't last. There are many obstacles in life. Life is both a pursuit and a struggle. The will of life is the most intrinsic motivation and spiritual pillar of life, and life without will is unimaginable.

43. Cherishing happiness also requires our efforts. We should learn to care for, take care of and be filial to our parents, and we should also learn to be grateful to our parents. Don't wait for a situation like a child who wants to raise, but we will be doubly sad. We should realize happiness as soon as possible and cherish it.

When people fall in love with another person, they always think of death. Life will eventually disappear, and we will spend this short life together.

45. Let the wandering footsteps of others crush your beautiful dreams of tomorrow. All good things must come to an end. Maybe the world is really only hazy.

46. The wind blows the reed of thought, and the deep night sky is filled with black softness; When I think of those warm stories and those who held hands in that long-forgotten city, you light up all the lights in my memory-wealth, wisdom, freedom and love. God only gave three. I want the last three, two, two and one, dear.

When you go out, take my ashes with you. If you meet a bad person, you can keep it and let me protect you for the last time.

48. I have a pair of eyes but I can't see your figure at any time; I have a pair of ears but I can't hear your voice at any time; I have a pair of hands but I can't hold you at any time; But I have a heart that can miss you at any time! Happiness is to hold hands with you, spend every day in the future together, and miss you again and again. Love you once a day, again and again. Never change! As long as the heart is still beating, there will be a surge of blood, and your smile will be printed on the red moon and rise in my small window every night.

49. I often think that I must have been a sunflower living happily in the sun in my last life, growing happily in the sun every day, watching birds singing happy songs and flying freely overhead. Otherwise, how can you like the sunshine and warmth like that? I long for a sunflower-like life, so I simply grew up in the sun. As long as there is sunshine, I can hold my head high and smile happily at the sky.

50. Happiness is not inherently bad, but some happiness makers bring many times more trouble than happiness.

5 1. Integrity is the happiness of honest people, prosperous business is the happiness of businessmen, punishing evil and eliminating rape is the happiness of chivalrous people, excellent academic performance is the happiness of students, helping the poor is the happiness of good people, and spring planting and autumn harvest is the happiness of farmers.

52. Flowers blooming in the sun are beautiful, and love with revolutionary ideals is sweet.

If the whole world denies you, then I will accompany you to deny the whole world.

54. If love is mixed with calculations that have nothing to do with itself, it is not true love.

55. You are an ever-changing love song and a poem of the soul. You rowed the boat, stood the ark and wore sails, chasing your weak back. From a distance, you are a flower party that I can't bloom as scheduled in my life, so I can't bear to put down my love poems and love the world of mortals alone. My heart is hard to describe, but you are far away.

56. Smiling can make your grievances slip from your brow, and smiling can smooth the troubles in the days when dripping water turns into ice. The sunshine is always after the storm, whether it is failure or pain. If we can smile happily and sing how beautiful life is and how beautiful blue sky and white clouds are, then we will be happy to smile and even have golden fruits.

57. Loneliness is not innate, but starts from the moment you fall in love with someone! Like a person without pain, love a person may have a long pain, but the happiness he gave me is also the greatest happiness in the world!

58. Some long-awaited lives are always spent in your self-righteous dreams and then give you a very disappointing blow. Some things are always beautiful when you think of them, so in your taking for granted, you waste a reality that could have been very happy.

59. Happiness means doing what you like, whether in love or quarrel, with the person you like, in the place you like.

60. Why don't you try your best to taste the beautiful artistic conception of Ao Shuang branch? In the city, there are bustling high-rise buildings; In the countryside, there are small bridges, flowing water, wheat waves and frogs. This is optimism, this is happiness.

6 1, thinking of you when you are happy doubles your happiness; Thinking of you when I am in pain will reduce my pain by half!

62. In life, we always have so many desires and needs. Prosperity is not a poisoned wine. You think you're bored, but you've always wanted to get drunk and have fun. Waiting for colorful affairs is happiness; Dreaming in the sun with the person you like is happiness; It is also happiness to grow old with a period of time intertwined with cold and warm.

63. Happiness actually comes from love. It really has nothing to do with money. I was moved by my lover's warm love for me. I was moved by my daughter's sweet attachment to me; I was moved by the careful care of my friends; My parents' tireless persuasion moved me and made me feel happy!

64. Students' concept of happiness is simple: a smile from their parents, a compliment from their teachers and an envious look from their friends are enough to make them happy for a day; Breaking through a difficult problem and solving the contradiction between friends, a small activity becomes a kind of hard-to-buy happiness.

65. I believed your fairy tale, and I became a blue flower in it.

66. Everyone and every love is unique. Memories can sometimes be juxtaposed, not necessarily, but very important.

67. Worry, if you don't want it to haunt you, it will haunt you. Have a happy attitude, know how to give up, and you will be happy!

68. Happiness is a feeling, which does not depend on people's living conditions, but on people's mentality.

69. One minute of heart, one hour of love and one day of love. Forget him, but it's a lifetime.

70. You can also walk on the bluestone board in the alley. When you meet a little girl jumping on a rubber band, you can join in and return to the original. Or talk to those old people about trivial matters of life, accompany them to embroider, take shoes, eat their delicious food and listen to their vague babbling. On rainy days, you can also hold an umbrella, splash water all the way, listen to the songs of the rain and applaud them.

7 1. All love stories have something in common. I have experienced all these at some point in my life, but I can't remember them clearly. What I remember is that love came back to my heart in the form of another man with new hopes and dreams.

72. How I want to be with you and become a pair of chopsticks. We can taste delicious food from all over the world. There are people who serve us to take a bath and change clothes, and follow Qi Mei's example every day, sharing the same bed every day, sweet every day, and never giving up!

73. When love is not perfect, I would rather choose no regrets; No matter how wonderful the afterlife is, I don't want to lose my memory of you in this life. I don't want eternal beauty, I just want to have you in the cycle of life and death!

74, life is colorful, the key is what kind of eyes you look at it; With the right perspective, you will find that life is so beautiful. Let's treat life with optimism, and feel beautiful and happy like that couple.

75. I am so stupid and naive. You can't make a so-called oath. Why should I be silly?

76. Happiness is not money, luxury car or BMW, nor arbitrariness and complacency.

77. When you are happy, your whole body is numb and itchy, but you can't catch the itch when you reach out. When you are lovesick, it is sour, and a person is pulling his nerves, like pulling wool. It has something to do with breathing. Every time he breathes, he twitches, unless you don't breathe, but you can't.

78. Whoever lays the foundation with virtue, builds the wall with wealth, shines with beauty, and stands proud, is the happiest person.

79. Be kind to life and feel happiness seriously. Happiness is sincere waiting. With happiness, you will find that happiness is so simple.

80. Honor your parents, love your wife, cherish your friends and send you messages. I am happy and you are happy. If you reply to my message, we will be doubly happy.

8 1, I always question where happiness lies. You said: Happiness is a little infiltration. Turn around, happiness is waiting for you around the corner. Happiness is actually very simple, you just need to smile. Someone once told me that my happiness was the reason for his happiness, but the next day I found that there were many reasons for his happiness. So, let go, cry for an hour and forget for an hour. Then tell him firmly and proudly that I am only happy for myself.

82. If happiness is like an hourglass, do you think it is passing away bit by bit? Or is it accumulated bit by bit? Just like time, minute by minute, we often forget its existence; The lost beauty is happiness hidden in memory, and the expectation for the future is happiness. However, perhaps the most important thing now is that happiness really needs time to prove, or that happiness is waiting for time to complete, but I prefer to believe that happiness is also going on bit by bit in the passing time. I am experiencing: happiness at the moment!

Happy Sentence: Happiness depends not on luck, but on management.

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As a senior single person, she has been single for five or six years and is often asked about various marriage and love issues. From time to time, my friends and family will urge me to find the other half to get married, and even the taxi waitress who meets by chance will worry about me.

Every time I talk to each other about this topic, they will say, "Oh, by the way, I won't get married until I get married. You see, how nice it is to be like you. "

But in the end, they will add: "We should find one."

Many people have left me messages on the Internet, asking me whether I am happier being single or married. In my opinion, this comparison is actually unnecessary. We always try to prove that we are on the right team, so that we can gain a foothold.

My answer is: "If you feel satisfied and happy, in fact, you don't care about comparing with others, or comparing with another different state."

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I want to mention my two female friends, who are both married.

One was originally a photographer, had his own studio, was famous in the circle, and earned a good income. As a result, her husband had to be transferred overseas for work reasons. Naturally, the girl couldn't bear to part with the little world she had worked so hard for, but in the end she gritted her teeth and closed the studio and went abroad with her husband.

We met once before we left, and she said, "People say they envy me, you know? I panicked. I don't know what will happen when I go out. Everything starts from scratch, and I really like my previous state. "

The girl went abroad in 20xx, and in a blink of an eye, it was almost five years. During this period, she gave birth to two little daughters, and her interest shifted from photo shooting and commercial films to children's photography. I asked her, still open a studio? She can't talk about it, but she does children's photography courses online, teaches mothers how to take pictures of their babies, and does some overseas purchasing of children's products.

My other girlfriend, who runs a copyright agency in Beijing with her partner, got married in 20xx and separated from her husband, who is in Hangzhou. Whenever someone asks her why, she is extremely calm: "There is no reason, he likes to be in his hometown of Hangzhou, and I like Beijing."

It's that simple? It's that simple.

Why should I tell these two stories?

Because in daily life, everyone has to face choices, as if there is always one hurdle after another on the road to happiness. But think about it carefully, what is the real sign behind happiness? Perhaps it is not that we have chosen the right path, but that you should calmly give up another option and actively manage the options you have already made.

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When we are on the road to happiness, we will feel surrounded and blocked. After all, we are obsessed with "the possibility that we have given up" and deeply regret it. However, we always feel that what we choose is not perfect.

For example, we think that husband and wife should be together, and how wonderful it is to live together ... but the girlfriend replied: "As an adult, the ideal state should not be adhesion, but to be comfortable and make the other person comfortable, rather than the other person having to give up in order to satisfy one party."

She said that what we should control is our desire to be 100% satisfied. This is a gesture that a mature person should have.

Everyone's life and daily life are not a preset program. Interestingly, we set ourselves various strict standards in this impermanence, such as how to measure happiness, how to measure success, how to measure whether a person loves himself or not, and how to measure whether a person lives well or not ... Because of these strict standards, we often feel that we are not up to standard.

What I want to say is that instead of setting so many standards to judge yourself and others, it is better to stand a little further and tear down all these rules and regulations. Everyone follows his own heart to make choices and learn to respect others' choices.

If so, I think we will complain less and apologize less. Especially when we try to ask for more, what we should not ignore is how to balance what we can't get.

I think this is the real sign of happiness.

Talk about mood phrases.

I can do my homework alone, watch TV alone, go shopping alone, and I can live well alone.

I wonder what will flash through your mind when my name passes by your ear.

Thirteen, I live a heartless life, just want to relax first.

14. How many times do I have to repeat the same mistake before I meet the right person?

15. I love you, but I can't say it I miss you, but I miss you alone, but I can only send messages and dream of you, but I can't find your shadow, waiting for you, but I dare not face you.

Sixteen, who really takes who seriously. Talk about mood phrases.

Seventeen years old, already very brave, still sad.

Next summer, the classroom will be full of people, but it is no longer us.

Nineteen, I can continue to please love and look at your pride coldly.

Twenty, haha, a hornet's nest, a group of uninterested people are doing a group of boring things. What is special about society is that it is a social reality, and there is nothing to look forward to or want.

Twenty-one, Beethoven pops up your sadness, what can you do?

Twenty-two, life is always like this, what you think is lost may be on the road; What you think you have may be on the way.

Twenty-three, one day you will become stronger, so strong that people who laugh at you now are afraid.

Your heart is like the stars in the sky, unpredictable.

Twenty-five, I can only recall what I once had for you.

Talk about happiness

First, if I don't like you now, will you feel a little sad? After all, I like you almost crazily.

Second, after breaking up, I know how to cherish and mature a lot! Never forget!

Third, love begins with confession, and breakup ends with tears.

Maybe I disagree with you, but why are you so heartless?

I really want to bother you, but I have no topic and no courage.

When she knows that nothing is eternal, the tighter she holds him, the more painful the lost days will be.

Seventh, forgiveness is easy. Trust again, it's not that easy.

Please be happier than me, so as not to waste the time of my resignation. .

If you are not satisfied with me, please tell me directly, and don't go to others to vent your feelings that you have nowhere to put.

I love him. I can't let him go. I can't bear to be separated from him. I am waiting for him.

If the lovers who broke up can still be friends, it means that they have never loved or are still in love.

Sorry, I can't feel it. I am the only one for you.

Thirteen, [life is a lucid dream, a dream that can't be awakened]

14. Dream on. He played dumb and asked you to yell at him. Don't make yourself look like a joke.

15. [If it's your tenderness to be hot and cold, I'd rather never love it]

Sixteen, if love wants to say it, what about the dumb?

Seventeen, [a person's journey will not be lonely, because I have been walking with my own shadow]

Eighteen, if I am strong, you want to kill me, then you come. .

Do you know why I ignore you? Because I'm learning from you.

Twenty, I like you, why not? Fight, lose, marry me. Win and marry you.

I am most afraid that you will smile at me when I want to give up.

Sometimes the best way to make others care about you is to care less about him. .

What I am most sorry for in my life is my heart, which hurts again and again.

I'm just a kid. I can be brave, but I am not strong.

I really can't keep everyone I don't want to lose.

Twenty-six, if you want to see me, I'll talk to you, as simple as that!

Twenty-seven, some words and don't say are harmful, and some people will leave whether they stay or not. .

Twenty-eight, even if he is so bad, he is the person I loved.

Twenty-nine, you can love a person to death, but you can never love a person to shame.