In this era of more wolves and less meat, let's talk about it

In the era of more wolves and less meat, an ordinary girl will have at least 10 men to seduce her every day;

What about the girl with high marks? Whether she likes it or not, at least 20 men are trying to please her every day. It's so exaggerated, like an online celebrity, my last date. There are more than 200 unread messages in my mobile phone, from different men.

We go to Doby and they. In order to attract this girl's attention, we will use various routines to show our various advantages. But brothers, have you ever wondered, why do you take the trouble to chat with your sister, but she still doesn't respond, even doesn't reply to you?

The reason is imbalance!

As I said before, whether my sister likes it or not, there are many men flirting with her every day, and you are just one of them. How is she? She may be chatting with a man around 10.

So if you don't talk well, she probably won't talk to you, because she has many choices, and you, only her.

Because of imbalance, you often make mistakes in chatting, and you can't help but kneel down to please her.

A woman has no shortage of people kneeling to please her. There are too many such men around. If you become like other men around her, you will immediately become very cheap in her mind. Cheap things are too easy to get and human nature is low. No one will pay attention to things that are too easy to get.

In the mobile era, we can't live without WeChat, so can girls, especially WeChat chat. If you make your sister feel that you are a cheap man when chatting with her, it will be especially difficult for you to contact her.

So how can we avoid making mistakes in chatting with my sister?

Here are six elements for brothers to pick up girls, hoping to help you in the journey of picking up girls more smoothly.

First, don't audit the accounts.

Don't audit, don't audit, don't audit! Say the important things more than three times!

Audit an account as a question. You are not a policeman, and you are not qualified to question anyone!

Put yourself in others' shoes. If a stranger you just met keeps asking you questions, how do you feel? You just think this person is disgusting and disgusting, right?

Similarly, when you question a woman, she feels the same as you do.

One more thing, there is no shortage of people around her to check her accounts. Once you do the same, you will become cheap.

Second, control the number of words.

The obvious imbalance is that you talk more than your sister.

Now we can take out our mobile phones and look at the chat interface between you and your sister. If there are more green ones than white ones, much more, it is unbalanced.

We should control the number of words in the chat, because once you exceed the number of words of your sister, it will be obvious that you need her, much more than she needs you, and then you will become very cheap.

Third, don't talk about home.

Some brothers are funny. They like to talk to their sister about trivial things from the beginning. You have to make it clear that you and this girl were strangers before you met!

Your life has nothing in common. If you ask your sister all day whether she has eaten or not, what she is doing, gossiping about her family, she will think you are inexplicable and untrue.

If you are already familiar with it, it is normal to talk about family, but try not to talk about family in the case of strangers, because talking about family is too logical, and women are emotional creatures. Talking about logical topics will only make girls feel bored and boring.

Fourth, use more expressions.

The traditional education of China people tells us that it is mature to keep quiet, and men who giggle are frivolous, so many brothers and sisters are either expressionless or just smirking when chatting.

The influence and trust in interpersonal communication come from three aspects: language, intonation and image. The proportion of its importance is: language accounts for 7%; Intonation accounts for 38%; Vision accounts for 55%.

Sister chats with you on WeChat. If she only sees your words, your communication is only 7%, but besides words, she can also see your expression, and she can feel your mood from your expression.

Similarly, if a girl chats with you, she never shows her face, and you have no idea how the girl on the other end of the phone feels now.

Therefore, using more expressions can make your chat smoother.

Fifth, pay attention to the frequency.

Never chat with your sister all day, or she will think you are free. Look at the talented people outside. Who will be idle?

If you are too free, read more books and go out for a walk. Picking up girls only enriches your life, not your whole life.

Also, don't call your sister back every second. If you always call your sister back every second, she will think you are playing with your mobile phone all day!

Control yourself, even if you are really playing with your mobile phone, you will see the message sent by your sister for the first time, so don't return to this sister in seconds. Do you think she has time to reply you? Maybe if you send a message, she will wait for you for nearly half an hour, and you will reply immediately. Congratulations, you have succeeded and become very cheap.

Remember the purpose

I said before, don't chat, that is to tell you that chatting must have a purpose, either to attract girls, to upgrade relationships, or to date or date.

You must remember why you want to chat with this girl. What is the final result of this chat? This is very important.

Learn nothing, connect feelings quickly, and pick up the topic according to the keywords replied by the sister.

If that girl was talking about movies, you were going to chat with her tonight, but speaking of movies, it was already midnight when you were talking about movies, and then her sister told you that I was going to bed. Good night

Then you suddenly remembered, didn't I fucking talk to her about coquettish? Why did you talk about movies all night?

If you still chat aimlessly with your sister, you will only have one more friend to chat with, not a friend or girlfriend.