Is it reasonable to say that people are unlucky to take a sip of cold water?

I think this sentence should be divided into different angles. From an objective point of view, then such a situation does exist. For example, as we said, happiness never comes in pairs, and it never rains but it pours. If people go back on their word, then bad things will indeed follow, and it will hardly happen to others, and it will easily happen to us. But subjectively, this may be a subjective assumption of our own thoughts, that is to say, we are subjectively trapped by this behavior, that is, we think we are unlucky, no matter what we do. So what should we do when this happens? Here, based on my own experience, I have summarized several methods to share with you, hoping to help you:

1, keep an optimistic attitude

In fact, nine times out of ten things in life are unpleasant, so always keep an optimistic attitude. A study in the United States proves that people who are always optimistic, or people who often think they are lucky, will magically become very lucky, so we must always be optimistic and try our best to adjust our mood even if we are treated unfairly.

Step 2 calm yourself down

In fact, when we encounter these helpless things, we should try not to do anything drastic. At this time, the most correct way is to calm yourself down first. We can find a quiet teahouse or coffee shop, drink tea and listen to music, so that our mood can be relieved to the greatest extent.

3. Share your experience with friends.

There is a very reasonable saying, that is, "If you share your sorrow, your sorrow will become half, and if you share your happiness, your happiness will become two", so at this time, we can share our experience with our best friend, let him help us share some troubles, or help us make suggestions, and slowly you will find that unlucky things are not so uncomfortable.