Why can't you say it if you are really wronged?

Unfair means that you are treated unfairly and feel very sad inside. But why can't say injustice is called injustice? Mainly because when grievances can be vented and resolved, they will not feel so wronged.

The real grievance is the grievance that you have to swallow when you knock out your teeth. It is impossible to say it, but you can only bear it silently. Then I couldn't get through this hurdle in my heart, and I was stuck in my heart like a thorn. This is the real grievance, and I feel very wronged.

Grievance is a very subjective feeling.

If you don't say it, no one will realize that if you say it, others may understand and sympathize, and even put themselves in others' shoes.

We see a lot of green tea bitches and schemers in TV dramas. It seems that I still feel sorry for them. They are playing tricks, trying to achieve some goals, so that others or men have emotional tendencies towards them. In exchange for sympathy and even help from others.

However, many grievances of the elderly women are hidden. From an objective point of view, their grievances are real. In order to maintain their marriage, they submit to humiliation, constantly compromise and even let others push their luck. Those unspeakable grievances cannot be resolved.

In Ode to Joy, fans are often treated unfairly at home and feel very wronged. But her friends are great. Some good girlfriends and boyfriends love her very much. So these grievances have actually been compensated under the resolution of their love.

If you don't say it, no one knows, you can only bear it yourself, and you won't have all kinds of communication with the outside world and won't be understood by others. This is the real pain.