I really can't send friends frequently after breaking up.

In the process of redemption, many friends will use some wrong redemption methods, which will eventually lead the other party to ignore you. At this time, the circle of friends has become the only communication bridge between you. Some people don't hesitate to post some "out of place" content in the circle of friends in order to get the praise and message from the other party. Perhaps your circle of friends really attracts the attention of the other party, but many people will post some wrong content in the circle of friends. Therefore, don't underestimate the influence of a circle of friends on redemption, especially when the circle of friends becomes your only contact channel. Today, let's talk about what types of friends you can't send.

after p>1 "accusation type" broke up, you were very angry and angry, and your negative emotions could not be vented. You kept asking yourself, "Where am I not good enough? Why did he do this to me? I have paid so much, can't I get a little reward? "When we just broke up, everyone would put themselves in the position of" victim ",and then recall the dribs and drabs of the two together, and they felt more and more wronged. Every time late at night, you think of the grievances you have suffered in this relationship, and then you just brush some articles complaining about love rat on the Internet, such as "Essential Features of love rat" and "You should pay attention when a man has these behaviors". After reading these articles, you immediately forwarded them to your circle of friends, accompanied by some painful complaints. Maybe you saw a lot of * * * in these articles at that time, but what would your predecessor think of you when he saw your circle of friends? I will think that you are a heartless person who immediately turned against each other after breaking up. Is it just his fault to break up? Even if the other person has the idea of getting back together, after seeing such a circle of friends, the idea will be dispelled immediately, and finally you will be blacked out.

2 "negative energy type" After you break up, the negative emotions brought by breaking up will definitely affect all aspects of your life, which may be your life or your work. When you encounter some setbacks, you will begin to think why you failed in your love career and blame all the responsibilities on "water rebellion" At this time, some people will start to post some negative words in the circle of friends, such as: the fortune is too bad recently, why there are always some villains at work and they really have no temper when they meet the best. Maybe you post some cathartic words in your circle of friends for a while, but when you show negative energy, you will give the other person some negative images of you, such as being mean, difficult and incompetent. Maybe at first you post some cathartic words in your circle of friends, and your friends will come to comfort you, but after a long time, your friends will leave you.

3 "self-depravity" Everyone will feel uncomfortable in after be lovelorn. When they feel uncomfortable, everyone will vent their feelings in different ways. Some people will choose to eat crazily, some will choose karaoke, and others will choose to get drunk late at night. We have seen many friends send themselves drunk and drunk to a circle of friends after getting drunk, accompanied by some degenerate words. In fact, it is very inappropriate for you to post these trends in your circle of friends, because you may not have drunk before, but you started drinking because of lovelorn love, which will give each other a great contrast image. You have to understand that you have broken up, and the other party will not sympathize with you because of this dynamic, but will only think that you are the mud that can't help the wall.

4 "Begging" Some friends think that love will come back only if it is won by yourself. Yes, love is won by yourself, but some people use some wrong methods: begging. Some friends may have saved their love in this way, but you can only save the right person, but you can't save his heart. Because in the process of your constant begging, the other person is forced to agree to get back together because he can't stand your constant harassment. However, after you got back together, he found that some problems between you still could not be solved. In addition, in the process of begging for redemption, you were already a "low-ranking person" in the eyes of the other party, and you were no longer attractive. At the same time, your begging was also a process of self-belittling. I hope you can understand a truth: whether two people can be together depends on the attraction of both of you to each other. Therefore, instead of pleasing each other, it is better to be yourself. When you become better, you can attract each other for a long time.

5 "opposite-sex photo-taking type" I remember that in a case I took over before, the rescuer saved himself in the early stage, and his friend gave him a bad idea: send some photos with the opposite sex to arouse the jealousy of the other party. The rescuer thought the method was feasible, and then he did it. The final result was that the two broke up in a false way, and finally they broke up in a real way. Indeed, many people want to attract each other's attention in this way, so that the other party can promise to get back together with you, which is also a bad idea that many people will think of in the process of saving. If the other person really thinks you have a new lover, don't you just kill the possibility of your compound? Or, the other party thinks that you are a fickle and philandering love rat. Appropriate stimulation is desirable, but it should be done in the right way, for example, sending a group photo, and you should not be too close and stand closer.