Don't guess, what a few words a man says to you is a hint that I want to break up?

Don't guess, what a few words a man says to you is a hint: I want to break up? "What would you do if I fell in love with another woman?" Or "If I cheat, can you divorce me?"

Needless to think, when a man says these two words, he is infatuated with another woman and having an affair is already an objective truth. As for why he wants to tell you such hypothetical words, the motive in his heart is to test your mentality about his empathy for an affair, and since a man has chosen to express such hypothetical words with you, it shows that his heart is ready to break up with you. If a man has empathy and doesn't want to be separated from you, he will probably not tell you these two hypothetical sentences. Only by making a decisive answer to this multiple-choice question can a man make it clear to you with this hypothetical statement. If he wants to maintain the status quo of stepping on two boats with one foot, then he won't ask you, "What would you do if I moved on?" problem

When a man throws out these hypothetical questions, you should never show emotional breakdown on the spot and act like you are going to kill him. It is recommended that you keep smiling and calm your mood, and then reply with ridicule: "What's the matter? Which girl do you like again? " Or "which daughter is so ridiculous that she is also missed by this difficult flower thief?" Men will definitely say, "Just ask! Don't think too much! " Then you must vaguely show the bottom line of being a man. "Don't pick the weeds outside!" Being caught by others can't save you! " This kind of maintaining a standard posture without arrogance and rashness must be shown. Although on the surface, I can pretend to be calm and don't care, but I must make a big alarm in my heart, which will cause full attention. Then I will take a little time to reflect on this feeling, find the key link, and solve it quietly, so that men can't persist in the idea of breaking up with you. "Do you think it is really appropriate for us to be together?" Or "just like us … can we live together for a lifetime?"

when a man asks you this question, he must be adamant that there is an inappropriate point in this relationship or that some of your actions have already made him choose to break up with you. At least the idea that a man wants to break up in his heart has already sprouted, but his heart is still in the swing period. The intention of this kind of breakup conclusion is not firm enough, but he has enough firm inner opinions that everyone is related to inappropriate areas. Such a thing is that the typical comfortable circle for two people to get along with each other has not been cultivated well, which leads to the idea of inertia force that is not suitable for a lifetime in men's logical thinking. If you continue to make a man feel that two people have different views, or make him realize that your manners and gestures, treating people differently from his personality and you can't change it, then once he makes up his mind to break up, you can't save him in a short time.

When a man tells you whether this kind of similar words are suitable or not, it shows that there will be a beautiful expectation for this relationship in his heart. Why did he say this sentence to you? The purpose is to make clear to yourself the need to make you change your speech and behavior in the process of getting along. For example, I hope you don't do too much in your daily life, your emotions should be stable, and you don't lose your temper and complain for no reason, which will harm your comfort zone. At this time, I recommend that you take out a look of seriously completing this relationship. "What do you think are the unsuitable areas for both of us?" Express it to see if it can become more and more suitable through our diligence "or" are you so worried that we can't live forever? " Then tell me where I think we can't live forever? "

with this kind of listening to his inner global posture and asking him these questions, he will definitely express a point in his heart that he thinks you are not very good or suitable. Then you must remember these problems she said in the later process of getting along, and slowly make these uncomfortable and unsuitable points make him feel comfortable and suitable. Then his inner thoughts of breaking up will naturally fade away, and what kind of comfortable emotional relationship will he meet after all?