Father's Day, I love him!

Give it to me and him I love.

Father has no habit of keeping a diary. If one day you forget everything, let me tell it to you again and again, just like the story you told me when I was a child.

Some time ago, reading readers, Li Yan wrote a greeting card for his 45th birthday. A simple sentence touched Li's heart: "I love you and I will always love you, but if you don't smoke, I think I will love you more."

Then, Li read Zhu Ziqing's Back. What a familiar article. We all learned it in middle school. I think everyone in the middle school at that time could not understand the deep fatherly love contained in the faint words in the article.

That year, I was admitted to the military academy, and I left home for the first time. My father sent me to the station for the first time. That year, the station was extremely crowded, but I had grown up, but my father still insisted on helping me with my luggage. He is not as strong as I was when I was a child, and even his body is getting thinner and thinner, even shorter than me, but he has taken a lot in his left and right hands. All the sundries are unimportant in his hands, after all, compared with his son who is so important in his heart, this is nothing …

At that moment, I seemed to suddenly understand the back. Every father's back, his hair may have turned white long ago, even if he dyed his hair, it would not be black, but he always has a heart that wants to protect you.

In the Wenchuan earthquake that year, I went to Wenchuan as a volunteer despite my mother's opposition. My father said, you are a soldier, this is what you should do! My mother blames my father for being cruel. Later, I learned that my father turned on the TV from morning till night and only watched CCTV news channel! My mobile phone stays on for 24 hours, and I sleep in my hand …

When I graduated and assigned troops, many relatives, Gao Qian, sent their children back to Beijing. In fact, with his father's qualifications, he can find me a good position, and even his father's old comrades-in-arms named me into ZongCan! I thought it would come naturally, but I didn't expect him to say on the phone that you have to obey the organizational arrangement. As long as you are good enough, even gold will shine everywhere! I hate him a little. ...

When I went home for the Spring Festival that year, he always dragged me around to visit relatives and friends. Every time I hear someone say to him, Lao Tao, your son is really promising! Father's mouth is full of joy and his eyes are full of smiles. When he looked at me, he seemed a little embarrassed, sorry!

I got married that year, and the night before, my father invited me to drink. I'm a little embarrassed. I'm not used to being alone with my father, and my father is a little embarrassed. After three glasses of wine, he was a little drunk before he spoke. He said, from today on, you are a man. It's different from the past. You have your own family. You should shoulder the responsibility, love your wife and children, be steady, and learn to think twice before you act!

I had stomach bleeding that year. I dare not tell my parents, but I still let them know! My father came to see me by train alone, with bags of nutrients and eight-treasure porridge cooked by himself. When I opened it, because of the hot weather, there was a long delay on the road, which was a bit sour! I blame him. We sell this stuff here, why did we bring it all the way here? He snorted unhappily. I said, how did you know I was sick? He said I didn't know until I saw your QQ space!

That year, WeChat became popular. I'm a bit of a loser in mobile phones. As long as there are new models, I can't wait to get them, and they are basically sent home! My father is not very interested in high-tech things like mobile phones, but he is very interested in WeChat, so he took the young people across from our home to learn to send WeChat. I don't remember when every circle of friends I posted was praised by a man, and later I learned that this man was my father …

Last year, I became a father myself! My mother will take care of our children. Because my father has not retired, he has to stay at home. He always wanted to see his grandson with his own eyes, but he was too embarrassed to tell me himself! When my son was over half a year old, I decided to take it back to him. A month before I learned the news, he had his guest room installed as a children's room …

Today is Father's Day. Send a circle of friends in the morning and say that today is my first Father's Day! In addition to praise, my father made a comment for the first time. He said: You will be a good father! In an instant, my tears fell down!

In my memory, my father is a man of few words, always serious in front of me! Although he always smiles in front of others! It has always been difficult for me to understand my father's strict discipline! Growing up, it may be related to his being a soldier. As long as I make a mistake, I will write a check-up besides corporal punishment! Once I quarreled with him, I asked him if I was your own. He slapped me, and this is his answer …

Actually, my father used to spoil me. That was when I was still immature. When I was very young, he would let me ride on his neck and on his back! When I was in kindergarten, he spent most of his pocket money every month to buy me shrimp strips, jelly and grilled fish slices. But since I went to primary school, my father's attitude towards me has taken a 180 degree turn. () I remember being bullied by a senior child once. He didn't stand up for me, but blamed me for being useless, not like him at all, not a man! Many years later, I mentioned this matter to my mother, and my mother said that my father took a kitchen knife to consult with his parents that night …

I seldom called my parents before, except because I was too busy at ordinary times, and I really ignored it and couldn't remember it! But since I became a father myself and looked at the cute little guy, I suddenly understood the heart as a parent! I always call my mother. Maybe most boys communicate more with their mothers, but every time I have a hunch that my father is on my mother's side. Although I didn't say a word, I could still feel his presence …

Last year, it was my father's birthday, and I didn't have time to go back. Then I read a message from his circle of friends. He said, I'm really afraid of getting old and spending less and less time with him, because I still have a lot of things to do …

Yes, he will also be afraid of being old, because he is afraid that when he is old, he can no longer take care of me, help me stand out and even take me to war. He's afraid that he's getting old and no longer my dependence. He even worried that I didn't need his help, because he was afraid that my position in his mind was no longer so important.

In my memory, he is the man who will never shout tired, and the man who will always wait for me to come home when I do something wrong.

I am afraid that one day, my father will really grow into a shadow and can't walk any further, shivering at the door, waiting for my return. This life is so short, I'm afraid I won't love you until you get old.

Father has no habit of keeping a diary. If one day you forget everything, let me tell it to you again and again, just like the story you told me when I was a child.

Today is Father's Day. I know I'm as bad at telling the people closest to me as you are in some places. I also know that you will definitely see this article in your circle of friends and read it many times, so I want to say to you here: Dad, I love you! May the holidays fill your heart with happiness!