What classic sayings do you have that have proven successful over time?

1. Pretending to know something but not knowing it lowers one’s own grade and gives the other person a sense of presence and self-esteem.

2. Pretend to understand when you don’t understand, make fun of yourself, exalt the other person, and praise the other person in disguise.

3. See through but don’t tell the truth, don’t pierce the window paper that the other party doesn’t want or has the courage to face, and don’t embarrass the other party.

4. See through and tell the truth, help the other person understand their own heart, and help the other person face the problems or facts they are avoiding (this can only be done after the other person trusts you very much).

5. Make jokes appropriately to resolve embarrassment, bring the distance closer, and give the other person a sense of relief.

6. When the other person is vulnerable, provide them with sufficient care and overbearing tenderness, so that the other person will feel less disappointed, help the other person get rid of the sense of powerlessness, and repair the spiritual trauma of the other person.

7. When the other person is happy, be patient and listen to the other person, and be happy together after listening.

8. When the other party feels frustrated, comfort the other party, encourage the other party, praise the other party, talk about the good qualities of the other party, and actively give the other party affirmation.

9. When the other person is impulsive, first speak calmly or humbly, and then slowly and step by step speak enlightening words, while not forgetting to soothe the other person's emotions.