Because my parents dislike my ability, I will face decadence, inferiority or even doing nothing?

After reading your description, I think your father didn't really see through you when he said this, but he was afraid that you wouldn't live up to expectations and deliberately said this to annoy you and inspire you. I hope you can cheer up. All parents don't like to speak well of their children all the time. They think that some derogatory words can make our children challenging and achieve satisfactory results.

So, don't be sad and don't sell yourself short. I believe you will show them your achievements. Come on! !