Brother-in-law, you said that I lived with my mother-in-law for 10 years, and you finally did such a thing. Why?

Now when I mention my brother-in-law, my head hurts. He said that my husband and I had lived with my mother-in-law for 10 years, which was unfair to him. He insisted on kicking us out, living with my mother, eating and drinking for 10 years! Not to mention whether he will eat, his words made me lie in bed for a long time, and his brother's blood pressure rose with anger.

Yes, when we got married, my mother-in-law had a bungalow and her mother-in-law had two sons. My husband and I have been living with my mother-in-law since we got married. Later, when my brother-in-law was young, he went out to work. After my brother-in-law left, my husband and I found a job and went to work in the county. Mother-in-law works at home alone, cooking and doing housework. Every time we go home, my mother-in-law always cooks all the hot meals and brings them to the table. We are very grateful to our mother-in-law. She always says, "Don't always go home from work to buy rice and food. We grow our own food, so we should be thrifty. Besides, it's not easy for you two to make money. You can save a little. "

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It is really lucky to have such a mother-in-law who knows how to be cold and warm. But we also have self-knowledge, and we can't let our mother-in-law feed us for nothing. I usually give my mother-in-law 200 or 300 yuan of pocket money when she goes to the market. My husband and I will pay for the money she spent when she was hospitalized. You want your brother-in-law to pay, can people come back? Does he know that his mother is ill? Not to mention these things, just these things to be prepared for the holidays, meat, vegetables, oil and so on, are all bought by my husband. How can you say that you long for the elderly? Wrong people don't blink?

Is it old as long as you live with your mother-in-law? Brother-in-law, don't use your head to analyze it. My mother-in-law had an operation the year before last, and your brother called you. You said you couldn't come back, but you didn't pay. Now you are doing badly outside, so you can't afford a house or a car. This is going back to my hometown to live with my mother. You want to use this as an excuse to give us a helmet and kick us out.

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Actually, we don't need him to worry. We have long wanted to move out. It is because my mother-in-law is old that we don't trust her. My husband and I have worked hard on our own over the years and have some savings. We bought a house with three bedrooms and one living room in the county. We wanted to buy a smaller one, but just to leave a separate room for our mother-in-law, we borrowed money to buy a larger one. Mother-in-law is reluctant to plant her own land. She said that when she moved to this city, the land was completely deserted. She can still move now, and then move there when she can't grow any more.

Now, my brother-in-law is back with a girlfriend. We also welcome them back. But what he said as soon as he entered the door was so irritating: "Sister-in-law, did you and my brother save a lot of money by eating and drinking with my mother?" I heard that I bought a building in the county? "I said," what do you mean? My brother-in-law gave me a look and said, "Food and meat are so expensive now." If my mother hadn't raised you two for so many years, how could you possibly save money to buy a house? "You're just getting old!"