Are grandchildren different from grandchildren in the eyes of old people?

Why is there a difference between grandsons and grandsons in the eyes of old people? This has something to do with the patriarchal sentiment left over from ancient China. Because the grandson is the son of the son, and the grandson is the son of the daughter. The general direction of ancient feudal thought is that it is a loss to raise a daughter, and it is necessary to give a dowry to others.

In addition, in ancient times, there were many births, and daughters would not make much contribution to their parents' pension. In today's society, this idea is completely unnecessary. Now most of our generation are only children, and your grandson is similar to his grandson. Anyway, the elderly on both sides are generally the same support. These are the differences between the old people and their grandchildren, but there are also old people with strong traditional ideas.

I experienced something personally on this topic. My grandfather gave birth to three children. The eldest and the second are daughters, and the third is a man. I am the son of the second child, but I am the boss of our generation. My menstrual son is one year younger than me, and my uncle's eldest daughter is four years younger than me. Once my sister asked my grandfather, granddaughter or grandson. My grandfather always spoils the boy. Immediately answer without thinking, granddaughter, of course. My sister immediately said, "Then kick * * (that is, my son's menstruation) out!" !

I was puzzled at that time, because I was also a grandson. I didn't expect my grandfather to answer such a positive answer directly. At that time, when I was young, I really felt a great blow. I don't like going to my grandfather's house for a long time.

In fact, I think this idea is completely unnecessary. They are all descendants. Don't look at them with fixed ideas. I think grandchildren are more filial than grandchildren, and grandchildren also have grandparents! If you have to kiss someone, it really hurts, especially in front of children, which will have a great impact on them!

This is like a teacher saying that he likes boys or girls as soon as he enters school, which will give another part of people a feeling of being ignored, so there is not enough centripetal force and cohesion. It is not conducive to class unity. The same is true at home. If this concept is solidified, it will inevitably lead to the estrangement of family relations.

In fact, put yourself in others' shoes. Who asked the child, do you think grandpa is close? The child answered grandpa. So will grandpa be happy? He won't be happy. Let alone being a child. This is really hard to accept.

It's okay to say that you like a child a little, but it's a bit much to say that you like grandchildren or don't like grandchildren. After all, this idea is a bit too solid.

I hope these answers can help this question a little.