Parent-child enrollment grows together, holding hands for two generations to start school for future parents.

Parent-child enrollment * * * Growth Join hands with two generations to start school for future parents. 1 lesson: 5 comments.

This year, the Municipal Education Bureau will launch five lectures on "Parents' First Lesson" on August 27th (this Saturday), centering on the theme of "Parents' Admission and Growth, Join Hands with Two Generations for the Future". The following is my review of the first lesson of parent-child enrollment, hoping to help you.

Parent-child enrollment * * * Two generations work together to grow into future parents to start school. Lesson 1 1 "Young people have wisdom, rich people have money, and strong people are strong." Children are the future of the motherland and the hope of the nation, and children have ardent hopes for every family. The healthy development of the future society depends on the mental outlook of the future generation. The formation of a good mental outlook comes from education, and the internal education largely depends on the education of parents in the family and our family education.

Parents are children's first teachers. Parents' words and deeds have a subtle influence on their children. Only good family education can cultivate good children, and good family education depends on the quality of parents. In order to better educate children, our parents must improve their own quality. What should our parents do?

A high-quality parent will give priority to children's sound personality and moral perfection, and strive to cultivate children's personality qualities and good habits such as pursuing Excellence, independence, perseverance and thrift. When educating their children, our parents should always keep a young heart, return their childhood and childlike innocence to their children, let them grow up easily, freely and happily, and let them have a happy childhood.

Be a careful parent in life, be good at discovering children's talents, tap their potential, cultivate their specialties and let them have their own things. Of course, children are not saints, and it is inevitable that there will be such problems. Our parents should treat their children as equal friends when educating them, instead of punishing them with sticks like their elders. Facts have proved that corporal punishment often makes things worse.

Family is the main position of our family education, and family harmony is very important for educating children. Therefore, we should create a harmonious family relationship, set an example, keep our promises, never let children down, never criticize and insult them, always praise and encourage them, and make them full of hope and confidence in life. Parents should also constantly enrich themselves in life and keep learning, so as to have the rationality and consciousness of education, be resourceful in education and be good at using various educational situations to educate their children. Finally, our parents should try their best to cooperate with schools and communities to educate their children in an all-round and multi-level way so as to promote their healthy and happy growth.

Children are the sun in parents' hearts and the hope of parents' life. Looking at the healthy growth of children, parents feel that their lives are continuing. It is the common wish of parents all over the world to expect their children to succeed, but how to become a qualified parent is the key to their success. Let each of our parents constantly strive to improve their own literacy and put wings on their children's growth!

Parent-child enrollment * * * Growth Join hands with two generations to start school for future parents. Lesson 1: Reflection on Chapter 2 Family education plays a vital role in children's growth. Therefore, from the moment the child was born, I knew my educational responsibility, and I should take good care of and cultivate the child. In educating my son, I pay special attention to the cultivation of "self-control, habits, health and self-confidence".

In the process of children's growth, children's psychological plasticity is great. Under the guidance of parents, pay attention to control their words and deeds, cultivate towards the goal of social morality, and develop a good education.

"Attitude determines fate", no matter what you do, you should have a correct attitude and natural habits, so that children can develop good life and study habits from an early age, which has an important impact on their future. From the moment when children have self-awareness, I attach importance to cultivating children's good living habits and standardizing their manners, movements, sitting and lying. Cultivate children's self-care ability as much as possible and let them do their own things. So before going to school, the son can put on clothes, wash his face and feet, arrange toys, fold quilts and wash socks. I also consciously educate children to learn to work, love work, and cherish the fruits of labor. Assign housework, so that children can bear as much as possible, such as washing dishes, taking chopsticks, serving meals, sweeping the floor, and pouring tea and water for guests. In learning, we should pay attention to cultivate children's good study habits, educate children to have a sense of time, learn to allocate time, finish the things of the day on the same day, finish homework on time seriously, and urge children to check regularly. Children have difficulties in learning and their grades are not satisfactory. I never yell and scold, but help children find reasons and encourage them to study actively.

A healthy body is the material basis of study and indispensable for a person's life, so I insist on accompanying my son to exercise every day. Once you have time, you must take your children close to nature and play with them. It seems that you have a wonderful childhood again.

We know that only by constantly improving children's ability to distinguish right from wrong can children learn to do things and learn to be human.

Children inevitably make mistakes, and the key is how to treat them after making mistakes. After the child makes a mistake, I will patiently help him analyze what is wrong and help him know what is right and do better. I think children's mistakes are a good educational opportunity and an opportunity to raise awareness. I believe that children can correct their mistakes. I always use "Dad believes that you will do well in the future and will definitely do better" to motivate children, and I will try my best to be tolerant, caring, understanding and encouraging. After children go to school, they are exposed to more people and things than before, and children will have their own comments and opinions. At this time, I always listen patiently, be the best listener for children and observe their thoughts. Every time a child finishes speaking, he always asks, "What would you do if it were you?" Children will think hard and speak their minds. I have been making suggestions at an appropriate time. Over time, children's ability to distinguish right from wrong has been improved day by day, and they have put it into action and gradually learned to be a man and do things.

"Self-confidence is the cornerstone of success" is a solid step for children to go to society. Only when children have self-confidence can they withstand setbacks, overcome difficulties and succeed. In order to cultivate children's self-confidence, my approach is:

1, I believe that children can do well and give them more encouragement. "You can do it!" "You can do it well!" "You can certainly do better!" This is not only an incentive for children, but also a good way to cultivate their self-confidence.

2. Admit the differences. Children's strengths and weaknesses exist, and advantages and disadvantages coexist. Don't compare your child's shortcomings with other children's advantages, which can only backfire and make children feel inferior. I think as long as children improve on the original basis, they should be affirmed and encouraged. Help children cultivate the courage to overcome difficulties, cultivate self-confidence to overcome difficulties, and let children establish the belief that I can do it.

In a word, educating children is an important and complicated issue, and there are many influencing factors. In my opinion, as parents, we should be not only parents of children, but also mentors. They can lead by example, which is the way children live.

First, we should pay attention to our words and deeds. A person's ideological and moral character is first formed in the family, so the process of parents educating their children should be the process of parents and children learning and growing together. We should establish the concept of lifelong learning, "lifelong learning as a parent" and be a person who keeps learning. Usually, we should pay attention to what we say. The survey shows that the height of parents in their children's minds is directly proportional to their education. Therefore, as a child's first teacher, we must lead by example and be a person with complete personality and good conduct.

Second, we should pay attention to the cultivation of study habits. In this study, the professor repeatedly emphasized the importance of forming study habits, and forming a good habit is more important than learning itself. Therefore, in the initial stage of children, I should pay more attention to and follow the professor's methods to the letter: ① I should make a study plan and timetable with my daughter, so that children can arrange their time reasonably and study as planned. Ask the children to do their homework first when they go home, and finish it seriously and efficiently before they can do other things. ③ Develop the habit of listening carefully and asking questions actively in class. Good habits first come from listening attentively. Usually, we should pay more attention to children and develop the habit of finding problems in our study. Develop the habit of reading, read parent-child books every day, read more classic books, and let children know that books are sweet, books are fragrant, and learning is bitter and happy. As the professor said, "Don't teach people to fish, but teach them to fish". Be a daughter's guide, not a crutch.

Third, we should pay attention to daily communication and establish a good parent-child relationship. Usually, we should chat with children more, pay attention to the details of children's lives and conduct random education. The effect of "didactic" conversation is often average, and children should be influenced subtly by telling stories and talking about opinions. In children's learning, we should pay more attention to the usual learning situation, dilute the scores, vary from person to person, never compare with others, discuss more, communicate more, and be friends and partners of children.

Fourth, we should pay attention to children's physical and mental health. While doing a good job in learning, don't ignore the child's physical and mental condition: Physically, the child is in a long physical period, so be sure to let the child eat breakfast every day and have comprehensive nutrition; Psychological direction, let children go to school happily every day, let her like school, teachers and classmates, actively participate in class collective activities and integrate into the team. As the old saying goes, "everything is learned when the world is clear, and people are warm and cold." Learning itself is a big concept. Just in all aspects of children's lives, it is very important to pay attention to children's dribs and drabs all the time and make them healthy physically and mentally.

Every child's growth is devoted to his parents' efforts, and every parent wants his children to have a good future. I sincerely thank the school for its meticulous organization and teachers' educational guidance. I hope the school can continue to provide opportunities for parent education. I believe that with the joint efforts of family and school, our children will grow up healthily and happily!

Parent-child enrollment * * * Two generations work together to grow into future parents to start school. Lesson 1: Reflection 3 Speaking of children, every parent has endless topics. How to educate children well? Let me first talk about some of my personal views and opinions.

Today's children are lively and lovely in primary school, pure and flawless, with poor ability to distinguish right from wrong, but strong ability to imitate and accept. We should start with the parents themselves. Only when parents do it themselves will children learn from it. If you only reason with your children, but you can't set an example for them, it won't work at all. At the same time, school education is equally important, and only when both sides actively cooperate can we see the effect.

At ordinary times, we all advocate the all-round development of children's morality, intelligence and physique. In terms of moral education, children should be taught to love their families, respect and care for their parents, and listen to their instruction and guidance. In intellectual education, we should always care about children's learning. It is not enough to ask questions at ordinary times. You must thoroughly understand the situation and communicate with the teacher. We should also pay attention to cultivating children's good study habits and methods. In the usual family education, we should try our best to guide and stimulate children's interest in learning, because interest is the best teacher for children. Children can't do anything well if they are not interested. In sports, primary school students are in a period of long body, characterized by active, parents must guide their children to moderate exercise. However, children's study and rest should not be affected by excessive play. Let children do some legal, safe and beneficial activities to promote their health and development. In terms of diet, try not to be partial or picky about food.

In terms of learning, we should pay attention to rewarding children, encouraging them to make progress and study hard. It is normal for children to be clumsy and naive in learning behavior, because learning is meticulous and can only be mastered through gradual contact. If the child writes badly, tear it up and let the child rewrite it. If this happens many times, the child doesn't want to write. Therefore, children should have a gradual learning process, pay attention to their learning with appreciation and praise language, and praise and encourage their progress as much as possible. Is there a child who does not want his parents and teachers to praise him? In addition, we should pay attention to the combination of material reward and spiritual reward when rewarding children, so as to achieve the effect that parents want to achieve.

In addition, as a parent, I think I should have great endurance and be patient with my children. Never tell your child the troubles you encounter in your work and life, or even use your child as a vent bucket. You still have to patiently guide and convince him. If a child does something wrong, he should be punished, but appropriately, actively guide the child and be his good friend.

As parents, we should have a scientific concept of family education. The family education concept of keeping pace with the times can promote parents to improve family education, so parents should keep learning and making progress. We should treat our children as children and friends. Such a family atmosphere will be conducive to the growth of children. In short, we should learn to communicate with children in family education, that is, we should be patient and meticulous, but also flexible and diverse. As long as we all become good friends of our children, are we afraid that we can't teach well?

Parent-child enrollment * * * Two generations work together to grow into future parents to start school. Lesson 1: Reflection. Chapter IV I had the privilege of listening to the lecture given by Hu Yumin, and I got some insights.

Let's talk about teacher Hu's family education first. I heard it when I was training new teachers, and I also read Mr. Hu's "Family is the Main Position of Education". This book is savored and read carefully, and it feels quite rewarding. Looking back on the abundance of material life in today's society, parents are full of expectations for their children's achievements. The social psychology of longing for success distorts the educational pursuit of thousands of families. Exam-oriented education is started in advance, and parents will spend huge sums of money to compete for the best educational resources and strive for success for their children. As a result, children are under great pressure, losing their childhood playing games and rushing to various remedial classes every day. During the long recess, they are tired of learning and lose interest in life. ......

As an educator, I feel that it is really not easy for children nowadays, as if they are all living to satisfy their parents' wishes. They have to face heavy study every day and keep charging in order to stay behind in the future. When I was a child, we just ran around after school every day, having fun, finishing our homework easily and having fun every day. But nowadays, children watch more and get more, but there are many problems: they are tired of learning, fighting and committing suicide ... Behind this series of problems, a big problem is family problems.

Family is the first stop of education. Parents are children's first mentors and teachers who will never leave their posts. They are not only role models for children to learn, but also their moral models. Therefore, it is the responsibility of every family and every parent to create a good humanistic environment for children's growth. Ren.

However, as a teacher, the first-grade kindergarten teacher should always be a good example for children. Together with family education, they will neither encourage others to encourage others, nor blindly compare with others, nor ignore them and die. Encourage children in time when they get grades; When children encounter difficulties, they should prescribe the right medicine to help them solve the problem. Therefore, for children's learning, we should also relax and stop nagging in his ear, but let him complete the task in a planned and motivated way, and parents should guide him well.

Undoubtedly, family education plays a very important role in the growth of the younger generation. However, family education is limited by parents' cultural literacy, educational ideas and methods, and needs the guidance and help of the school. According to the situation of individual students and special families, teachers should do ideological work for different parents and students respectively. Teachers should cooperate with the class teacher, visit parents from time to time, and learn more about students. Family situation is very necessary. This is an important work to guide family education. However, it is necessary to prevent the practice of "complaining" as soon as you come to the door every month, sincerely educate students and parents, respect each other, and study education issues with parents in a cooperative manner.

Practice has proved that school education, family education and social education are closely related and complement each other. Only by combining the two can we fully mobilize all forces to care for and promote the healthy growth of the younger generation.

Parent-child enrollment * * * Join hands to grow two generations to start school for future parents. Lesson 1: Reflection 5 After listening to the family education report "Hands-on Growth" made by Teacher Zhai for parents, I was deeply inspired and encouraged. The importance of family education has been recognized by more and more parents, but how to educate children more operationally and achieve the expected goals, Mr. Zhai gave our parents a very vivid and enlightening lesson, which was very comprehensive and in place.

Every family and every parent loves their children very much and is full of ambitions for them. With the improvement of their cognition, the education of children has also changed from initial doting to educating children with love. However, junior high school children are in a rebellious period, and sometimes they can't be disciplined even if they have patience. What's more, as Teacher Zhai said, parents and children have nothing to say. As parents, they have always been puzzled. What's the matter?

After listening to Mr. Zhai's report, my eyes brightened and I understood that the root cause was alexithymia! Contact yourself. First, I was busy at work, neglected to talk with my children more, didn't really understand their inner world, and didn't have more real feelings. Second, don't put yourself in the child's shoes in the way of speaking and writing. It is true to ask children from the perspective of parents. But because children don't obey their parents' intentions, their words are heavier and their tone is stronger. I always thought that reprimanding several children should be obedient, but I didn't know that the children had obeyed this time and it would be the same next time. The third is to educate children in the same way, say one thing in the same way, and ask children to do one thing in the same way, often because of different angles of speech, the results are very different. For example, Teacher Zhai said that children want to have dogs, which is very representative.

Overcoming alexithymia and cultivating a good parent-child environment are of great practical significance for adolescent children to grow up better and step into society in the future. Parents are role models for their children. To be a real role model for children, parents must set an example in their own verbal expression, tone of voice, and perspective on problems. When things happen, from the child's point of view, communicate and discuss with the child more, show greater affinity to the child with the personality charm that the child should have, guide the child to gradually establish a good self-evaluation, feel that the love of parents is really for his own growth, understand what he should do, how to do it, and lay a good foundation.