You still love some people, but how can you not go back?

1

Zhang Zao wrote in "In the Mirror": Looking out of the window, as long as I think of things I regret in my life, snowflakes will fall all over Nanshan.

In a person's life, there are always misses and regrets, which finally condense into a past that can never be forgotten in life. Inadvertently looking back, it is several spring, summer, autumn and winter.

We are all passers-by, walking in a hurry, but rarely really stopping. In this journey, many people have turned the original joy in their lives into helplessness.

Especially about love, every stroke is a story.

When you like someone when you are young, you always firmly believe that this love is higher than the sky and deeper than the sea, and nothing can separate two people. So when you tell your vows, you are firm and do not hesitate.

at least at that moment, I believe everyone is sincere.

Later, I didn't say that I had changed, but I finally realized that my determination to tell my vows was still inferior to the erosion of time. What's different? No one can say.

but the truth is, you can never go back.

because it's easy to go back, but it's too difficult at first, just like a broken mirror, even if you stick it on, it will still be used as before, but the trace will always exist.

some people leave when they leave. The moment of departure indicates that two people are strangers in the world, and when we meet again, a thousand words can only be turned into one sentence: long time no see.

from beginning to end, it is just a fairy tale belonging to a few people. More people, love but not is the norm.

2

During this period, Charlie learned from friends that his first love was getting married. Although the two men have broken up for almost two years, when he heard the news, he couldn't help feeling sad.

There are many emotions, blessings and regrets in this sadness. At the beginning, the girl who said that she would not marry finally found her own happiness.

Charlie loves her. Even after breaking up, he often thinks of her and asks her for news from friends.

that night, he stayed up all night, thinking of two people who had a lot of experiences.

They are each other's first love, and they met in college. She is a flamboyant and bright girl, while Charlie belongs to the kind of boy who looks introverted in appearance but is actually rich in heart.

The first time I met her, it was her campaign speech in the community. Although it was average, Charlie was attracted by her confidence.

Zhou Shen was a senior to her. At first, she cleverly called him Senior, but later when she got familiar with him, she changed her name.

As for being together, it was more than a year later. Under the booing of classmates, Charlie finally got up the courage to confess that he was ready to be rejected.

who knows, when I looked up, I saw the girl opposite me who was equally panicked but still pretended to be calm, and her face was red, and she nodded a little.

what she looked like at that time has always been imprinted on Charlie's mind. He said that this is by far the most beautiful picture in life.

The days together are actually very happy. She is always like a little sun, and fresh ideas keep popping up in her mind. Charlie, who was originally a homebody, went to many different places in college because of her. She said that her dream is to travel around the world.

Therefore, Charlie's dream is not to make a lot of money, but to accompany her around the world.

this feeling is a rare purity in his life.

Cang Yang Jia CuO said: For many years, you have been living in seclusion in my wound. I have let go of heaven and earth, but I have never let go of you. You are willing to say goodbye to Qian Shan in my life.

3

There are many people who can't be with the people they once loved. Because of deep love, there is no room for flaws. Love that is too hard always hurts two people in the end.

they are all stubborn.

Although two people usually talk about these issues, they all say that they should understand each other, but if something really happens, they can't let go of their pride and are so stubborn that they can't pull the cows back.

Sometimes you obviously care about each other in your heart, but what you say is a kind of injury. It often happens that one thousand people are injured and 8 people are injured.

They didn't know how to turn. They bumped into each other, then made up and made the same mistake again. When you get better, you can't wait to put all the best things in the world in front of each other. Because of this, when you hurt each other, it is even more unforgettable.

Now, Charlie might give in and compromise, but it was only after he broke up that he really understood these things.

There are things to say, don't wait for the other person to understand, because the other person is not you and doesn't know what you want. In the end, it can only be sadness and disappointment, especially feelings.

The girl who taught him how to love someone didn't marry him in the end.

A lost day is like a good girl melting in the crowd. He watched her go down beautifully along the way and then married someone else.

he can only watch from a distance.

from the moment he lost her, it meant that it was impossible for two people. Although he later had the mentality of redemption, he also understood that it was impossible for two people who had hurt each other to go back to the past again.

I don't want to experience the hysteria once again, and finally, I will kill all the beauty between two people with exhaustion. At least if they are separated in this way, they will think more of nostalgia and longing in the future.

He is afraid that putting all your eggs in one basket will only hurt the tenderness in his memory.

so, he would rather let each other go. Some people, you still love, but you can't go back. In this world, not all likes can be fulfilled in the end.

this is what growing up taught him.

4

Lin Qingxuan wrote in "Boiling Wine":

It is said that people in the Arctic are frozen in the cold, and when they speak, they become frost, and the other party can't hear them, so they have to go home and bake slowly to listen. When you are in love, you should carefully brew the atmosphere when you go home. Cut the ice with love poems first and cut it into fine pieces. Add a little wine to cook, and then it will make people slightly drunk. If you are in a strong mood, you can't use the fire. You should add a cup of coffee with candle light, so that you won't get too drunk and keep a little awake. If you are lovelorn, when the ice and snow melt, you will set a big fire to burn all the igloos and burn them into another spring.

it's just that in another spring, it may be another grasshopper flying.

gain and loss are originally an unexpected development. When we met, we hit it off at first sight, and then two flowers blossomed, living far apart. Regarding this ending, no one thought of it at first, but no one stayed in the end.

Two people just walked to each other's ends, and maybe they both looked back, but you no longer had a tacit understanding, and the time of looking back was wrong, and all they saw was the back.

So, you sigh and move on. It's just the sunshine on the day of breaking up, and then it will always be reflected in your mind. If you are not careful, it will be many years later. Because we are not together, we miss it.

But you still have to keep moving forward. What you miss is missing. The ending you want is in the future you can't see. There is no need for anyone, and time can finally help you.